kaboninc:
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You just cancelled your life, ogufe!

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PrickGetSize:

You just cancelled your life, ogufe!

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Next goat please!

kaboninc:
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Next goat please!

Don't worry, your father is coming next.

CheapSunglass:
And you still in the relationship?
Lol

You aren't married yet but you two already argue.I think your home will be one combative home.

Enjoy.

funny thing when i was in hostel was that ss2 seniors who were wicked mostly cooled down in ss3....why does gentle in ss2 became wicked....my point is he may marry her and because he knows what to expect he may then stop been that way

Fabulocity:


^^^ Reaaal talk!!!
Chai! When are we gonno mate so we can have inteeeeeligent childrens

ewwwweeee!!

luckybaddest:
Everyone just keep siding this girl,do you even know how nag she's ,the way each of us control our anger is different...for the fact that he can still control himself whenever he's angry then you've to take that as your own bad side of marriage,there's no perfect man out there ,the chance of having another man better than him is 50/50,sort things out with each other and you too always avoid to get into argument with him

You head dey dia!

Na so dem be.. any right minded person won't take relationship advice on NL. Especially not on romance section.

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

Dimples129:

Yo where you been

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

Flee!!!

You are not married and this is happening?


And yet you are still with him and willing to get married next month?

Are you kidding me? I can assure you, your marriage won't last. Because it gonna get worst when he marries you and i bet he will join beating to it as he insults u.

get out while you can girl.




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Your moniker and your advise should not be taken seriously!

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

Abeg fashi him,i am available,i doesn't abuse girls because I'm deaf and dumb

It's going to get worse after marriage. Don't be surprised if he hits you. Verbal abuse usually escalates to physical abuse.

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

Keep trying to correct him and don't run for your life until when he starts practicing kung fu in marriage using you as a willing tool of course. Happy married life in advance.

That man is going to finish your self esteem, except you are thick skinned

Amarabae:
he is a misogynist and a potential wife beater.

He would be a misogynist if he is verbally abusive only to women. We don't know that he only does it to women.

After i told you i won't call you idiot again, you still brought it to social media , Infact you are A Foooo nny girl

By the way must you marry, naija gals and marriage are 5&6.

He's just teasing you joor

Excuse of a deranged woman beater. Typical.

ricki:


I do too wen de chic act stupid but i warn before action/sanction. So it is her choice. Maybe u act dump/ stupid, stronghead......

U have managed to hide wat u did but only tok about his.....remeember 2 sides to all tory.

Stop ur drama queen behaviour and see changes.

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

A man is at his kindest when he is dating you. After marriage, the road is a downhill slope without speed bump. If you think he will change when you get married, you are right. He will change into his real self and turn you into a punching bag. You should consider yourself lucky that he is revealing his true colours before marriage. Most men manage to conceal that quite well until you exchange the vows. My guess is that he is stuck to you because of his parent's pressure. Just make sure you know what you are entering before you do. Marriage is a one-way street to continued happiness or glorified hell.

Op marry your fiancé at your own peril .

Remember the signs are clear .
Best of luck.

CheapSunglass:
And you still in the relationship?
Lol

You aren't married yet but you two already argue.I think your home will be one combative home.

Enjoy.

Real mortal Combat oo

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

He will beat you... It's never too late to drop off

You need advice abi? Go ahead and marry.

tosyne2much:
This is just a preamble of how he will unleash his wrestling skills to administer punches on your face and give you some smack down when you enter his house. These are the qualities of potential wife beaters

You can see the signs of dangers with your korokoro eyes yet you're bent on getting married to the same person next month.. Issokay!

Anyway, I wish you an abusive marriage life in advance

Dudee!! Rotflmao

Go to God in prayers.

Amarabae:
he is a misogynist and a potential wife beater.

So it is safe to call every woman that abuses men a feminist using your logic...
If he was a misogynist, the op won't be with him in the first place. I'm surprised at how you are quick to call him a misogynist just because he rants when he argues with his woman

ricki:


I do too wen de chic act stupid but i warn before action/sanction. So it is her choice. Maybe u act dump/ stupid, stronghead......

U have managed to hide wat u did but only tok about his.....remeember 2 sides to all tory.

Stop ur drama queen behaviour and see changes.

Exactly my thought. Some ladies' attitude is worse than abuse. She carefully avoided her dark corners.

The signs are glaring at you right in the face and you still dey ask question. Sister na wa for you o. Listen, what you put up with in a relationship is what you are going to be forced to put up with when you sign the dotted lines. Why on earth are you even considering a man who talks down to you?

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

and if they are asking people who go to school n is intelligent to raise his/ her hand you sef go follow in tope alabi's voice "eru olorun bami, eru olorun bami o

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

This is how it starts. No man will wake up one day and start hitting his wife/partner. It starts from being verbal to physical. The mouth starts the work for them and when they are sure you have no self esteem left, it will graduate to physical abuse.

This man has shown his true color but you have refused to find your way out

Good Luck

amokeme:

Exactly...
I'm not saying there shouldn't be disagreements in a relationship, but there should be respect from both parties even when the disagreement is heated up. There are words/attitude you shouldn't use on your partner no matter what. A broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage.. he is doing this now, then what is he going to do when you are both married?
And some words are worst than beating trust me.. I know from experience
But if you know you can "endure" it, well, fine, you know yourself better than we do.
But this is another form of an abusive relationship, it doesn't have to be physical.

It is going physical, trust me