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Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by 2sexycom(m): 11:50pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Viking007:Okay. I didn't read the whole piece cos things like this dey vex me. You can't blame the girl... if he is serious, he should just do intro and take it from there. Na so me see am oo. 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:50pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
jhudit: jhudit: oopps you are a female, I understand you perfectly. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Victornezzar: 11:50pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
kenx1:lol wat about d gal dd she come 4 reconciliation |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by whizzyleejr(m): 11:52pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Probably she's looking at the difference in age or now a slay queen but take the s**t outta your mind 'cause there are many better than her...cheer up you gat no worries 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:53pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Viking007: I never sed e should wait for nemesis, e his meant to move on my brother, but my point is just DAT KARMA, respects no one. MOVING ON IS THE BEST OPTION 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Clembola: 11:53pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Benita27: Receive sense 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by jhudit(f): 11:54pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Xclusivedaniel6:Was the person you quoted with this comment a female too? Instead of seeing the point in a comment, they see gender. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
OLAJADON: Am not a victim. ...am a survivor |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BinaryRocks: 11:57pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
ednut1:Chai!!! 1 Like
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Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Tfashm: 11:58pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
BRS I no it will not be easy to control your self about what happened but am taking with experience if such happen to someone it would be as that was the end of everything wahalai naa lie it makes you strong and focused. what you need is prayer and be focused on your future. after all the senero you we find out you we become winner's 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Haryormideh(m): 12:02am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Lols... Dude.. U ll get over her joor... It's a matter of few weeks... ND wen u do get over her ... U ll be happy she left... If she loved u.. She wud v stayed... So u deserve sm1 much better... V been in such state... Buh wen I got over her finally... Was happy we broke up because it got much better.. Thank me later 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BinaryRocks: 12:02am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Chibydinho:Oh no! Why now.
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Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Haryormideh(m): 12:03am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Lols... Dude.. U ll get over her joor... It's a matter of few weeks... ND wen u do get over her ... U ll be happy she left... If she loved u.. She wud v stayed... So u deserve sm1 much better... V been in such state... Buh wen I got over her finally... Was happy we broke up because it got much better.. Thank me later si |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Veetee(m): 12:03am On Jun 27, 2017 |
To tell you the honest truth, it might be bitter to swallow,she has left u long ago,she was just looking for a better opportunity to let u know, I have walked in ur shoes,, it's okay to feel pained or even cry, just move on without nursing any form of bitterness, u will be fine 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 12:06am On Jun 27, 2017 |
valnelly:Bros all i see here is someone that want to marry aand you were holding her down.....my opinion though |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Kuzee23: 12:07am On Jun 27, 2017 |
OMG not again.. Another lover boy.. How many times have i told you LOVE does not exist.. It only exist temporary when she is benefiting from you either in cash or kind.. You are lucky you poked her sha.. some mumu boys will say i will wait until wedding night while the girl is being poked by strong men .. Well, my candid advice for you is go back to hustle.. Go and hustle my brother its obvious you re broke for now but i believe in your tomorrow.. Imagine she started wearing fake prada bags and gucci bags.. Please check her undies next time and bras to see if they are versace.. Of course you didnt get them for her.. The new guy must be a yahoo boy trust me.. No waste your time on bitches.. Please go work and forget about girls for now.. They will come in millions once you hammer.. Trust me.. I m a pastor oh.. 4 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by dprinz99(m): 12:10am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Real guys have already left the game due to the shit involved.if u can bear the shit,continue with them but if u can't,hang ur boot and watch them while improving yourself I tell u,someday,if u r doing the ryt thing,u will definitely meet the ryt person Meanwhile,be a man.thats the bad side of the game of love. 3 Likes
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Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by adisa009(m): 12:19am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Thank you! Papiikush: |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by adegeye38(m): 12:19am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Benita27:the issue of flaunting on social media depends on the calibre of guy she is dating |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by valnelly(m): 12:24am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Thanks all.. You guys have been so supportive and understanding. I was hurt..as in, very hurt and with all this advice and wonderful comments, she can go to hell for all i care. If sh*t doesn't happen then you won't know sh*t. I feel so relieved, as if something heavy has been taken off my chest. God bless you all abundantly. Meanwhile, I can't wait to end this programme..... I'm having MOMM attitude right now! (Money On My Mind). Thank you all! 9 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Gamesmart: 12:24am On Jun 27, 2017 |
valnelly: It appears she just played no 5, 6 and 10 here on you. https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils You got played. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by openmine(m): 12:25am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Sorry about that bro.....stay strong... I guess this relationship was ur first and it was kind of painful considering the amount of time and effort put into it for 4 years only to see it slip away from ur grasp without any for of preparation.... There is one rule i have learnt......."get ready or prepared to lose your relationship no matter the duration" No relationship is full proof...so for now focus ur direction on productive venture that will distract U.... Thinking about her will only make U do sum tin stupid and silly...stay strong!! |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by solelymade: 12:26am On Jun 27, 2017 |
I know it's not appropriate, but I find this thread a little amusing, sorry much amusing. Guys giving the dude moral support... Lol Wetin I fit say self, my head jus hang sha. I certainly won't say forget the babe or that the relationship ever happened but I will advised u use a distraction, divert energy and time to something else you feel would be rewarding to your existence. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by abnot: 12:28am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Take heart bro. I know no amount of consolation will mean anything to you at this point but I assure that you'll get over her after month or a couple of months. Learn from your experiences while you were in the relationship for a better relationship in the future . On the other hand I've never liked the issue of money/finance coming up in a relationship which has made me look quite selective of even the women I associate with. I feel more comfortable with women who have got plans , dreams, Ambitions and a zeal for hard work over women who simply rely on me/men for the betterment of their lives . Take money matters out of a relationship and things will fall in line . 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by abimic(m): 12:28am On Jun 27, 2017 |
If the right girl isn't tagging along in the course of your climbing up, just forget about who left and focus on making more money. Man without money is a woman! Forget the blokos in between 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:39am On Jun 27, 2017 |
ChiefSweetus: Chief, Chief... |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BentSpoon(m): 12:48am On Jun 27, 2017 |
op punna has taken ur sense Don't u think u should be considering ritual tinx by now Asin what is her IQ capacity. Does she always mention dollar Naira is not worth the risk. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by delivryboy: 12:57am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Benita27:Very true, I'll be surprised if you haven't noticed it yourself. Widen your view point beyond "she's a woman, she can't be wrong". |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by victorking: 1:10am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Benita27: lol. you havent met my type dear. No sex before marriage na by mouth ooo |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by bitcoinvin(m): 1:23am On Jun 27, 2017 |
valnelly: that is major problem of we men.Loving a woman too much even though she doesnt love you back.forget the years you have dated her,just move on.Your story is smiliar to mine.My own babe den can Bleep any thing that has the shape of a penis.A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by banmee(m): 1:26am On Jun 27, 2017 |
valnelly: Guy, chuck it up to life experiences. We all get hurt sometime. I remember when my first love dumped me. I thought i was going to kill someone or worse, myself. Looking back now, i just smile. If she hadn't dumped me i wouldn't be with the goddess i'm with now. The best thing you can do right now is to take the pain and bury yourself in things you are interested in. Time heals all wounds. No one stays hurt forever. The worst thing you can do is go chasing after her because the more she rejects you, the more it will hurt. Learn from my experience. 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Denko2721987(m): 1:26am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Now here you go again You say you want your freedom Well, who am I to keep you down? It's only right that you should Play the way you feel it But listen carefully to the sound Of your loneliness Like a heartbeat.. drives you mad In the stillness of remembering what you had And what you lost... And what you had... And what you lost [Chorus:] Thunder only happens when it's raining Players only love you when they're playing Say... Women... they will come and they will go When the rain washes you clean... you'll know, you'll know Now here I go again, I see the crystal visions I keep my visions to myself It's only me Who wants to wrap around your dreams and... Have you any dreams you'd like to sell? Dreams of loneliness... Like a heartbeat... drives you mad... In the stillness of remembering what you had... And what you lost... And what you had... And what you lost Anytime a woman starts acting funny, i just play this song called Dreams by Fleetwood Mac (the Violen version) just to remind myself that if she decides to leave for no reasonable reason, she looses and not me.. And until they are probably yours through marriage, women would come and they would go... 2 Likes |
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