rosalieene:

no, you are wrong.
there are some Things that can't be changed. A man is the head of the family irrespective of whether the wife has something doing or not. No reasonable man would be happy if he can't solely provide for the family. The wife naturally is just there to assist.

Also, speak for yourself and not on behalf of others, hundreds of tertiary institution girls are getting married every week, they are students, so if you call them liability, well, their hubbys aren't complaining.

rosalieene:

How many guys buy this school of thought

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

I work only on Wednesdays and Thursdays, I work with the federal government

Nma27:
Lalasticlal wont advice anyone who earns just 35k to settle down.

Nma27:
In Kevin hart's voice, You work with the federal Government!? Reeeaaalllyyyy?

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Yes as a secretary to the minister of environment

Nma27:
Ain't we all?

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso lalasticlala

falconey:




I don't have any sister.

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.

refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

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A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be!

refiner:
Dont u rest?...always in every thread!

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

falconey:

Don't you hoes save? you'd make lot of cash while single hoeing around.

hypothetically,from age 15-24(9years) a typical naija babe starts hoeing, please ladies should learn to save afterall he didn't meet you a flower.

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Ipob pig

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

exlinklodge:
So emphasis is now on money not love


that God ladies are here.


I love you is worthless now

Nwaoma198:
Yes I can.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.