DouglasH92:


I quoted you because I have the right to quote anyone. Every registered user on this forum has this right. I also quoted you because your opinion is agonizingly naive.
Stop being idealistic and face reality. Stop reasoning like a child. Only a foolish, ignorant and unambitious woman who is addicted to suffering and poverty would marry man who earns 35,000 naira a month.

omoharry:
you left the wonderful messages that i wrote and decided to attack me because you are one of those low loafers that are earning less than 35k per month.Wake Mr man..I pay my bills and i cannot remember the last time i ate a dime from any man because you are are too immature in the area of money and women..rather its the other ways round..lazy guys wondering around and looking who to devour..there are hard working men but you never catch them ranting rubbish here on nairaland..So Mr Man, go and get a proper job and stop looking for a woman that would suffer in penury with you..deliver yourself from poverty stricken mentality..in Jesus name Amen and i cast that demonic spirit of poverty out of you..Ameeeeen..Dream big and you will be great.Life is all about planing and dream of a better life for yourself and that your family.

refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

mickybeejay:

You are making it sound as if that's what his salary will be throughout his lifetime. And what's ur definition for the so called great men.... To me great men are big thinkers who can capitalized on their ideas and put it into action, they are one who are persistent in achieving the big pictures

DouglasH92:


Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with such financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

naifizzy:


You not being realistic at all. So a man should not marry because he earns 35k per month? Ridiculous.
See there is a class for everyone. What might be meagre to you may be tremendous to some few.
Thats why we have mansions and face me and face you.
Shoemakers, petty traders and others alike make less and yet they marry and have kids.

Dont judge life from your limited scope. Human beings are designed to adapt to situations no matter how terrible....

DouglasH92:



Lol. What kind of Disney mindset do you romance section girls have sef? Do you understand what marriage is? The is not about real man sticking with you or about dreams and passion. This is about your future and that of your children. What kind of life would you live with a 35,000 salary? How would you feed under this budget? How would you meet your needs under this budget when you take out the minor expenses like transport and other monthly bills? What can 35,000 a month afford you? Let's say you have children while he is still earning this salary, how would your children fair?

Great men don't get married when they can't afford to take care of themselves, let alone another person. Great men aren't stupid.

BlessedRayman:
I married with 40k as salary 2014. Today my take home monthly is 700k.

ImaIma1:


This definition of a great man means he won't be earning 35k when he gets married. Except he is just a thinker without action. The kind of men they call "acting big man"

dominique:
Some of those girls commenting rubbish will jump at a man earning way less. Its on social media that some people get mouth.
That was how a girl came to wail on fb that she was advised her by her friend to dump her boyfriend because he was earning120k at the time and the guy was 8 years older. The said friend eventually married a man who was 10 years older and earning 80k, she's still single.

To be honest, 35k can't raise a family properly. So a man earning that little should not be in a haste to get married and have kids.

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

refiner:

Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....
A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

rosalieene:


beware!!!!

else the wrath of God will fall on you.

how dare you insult God

rosalieene:


congrats sis



I knew of one lady, she was fair en very beautiful.

Alot of people admired her, she was also down to earth.

she had Alot of suitors but she settled for a poor man.

today, she is a shadow of herself, looking malnourished and ugly.
tho I don't know what she is currently doing.

Truth is, what works for A might not work for B.

not everyone would be uplifted #fact

not everyone can be rich, some must be poor

Phyde:

Mummy, no one is destine to be poor when GOD, HARD WORK and PRAYER exist.

Nwaoma198:
Yes I can.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

NairalandCS:
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

kaptaneSaka:
How old are you?..... Because aged ladies can even marry unemployed guy..