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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 07, 2017 |
truthsayer009:she is still on the lower class btw you can roll with the big class all you want. You are responsible for your success alone.. No one else. Who says it's all rich people that have the mindset to do good?? |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:20am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Olanrefront3355:someone said sometime. Pray life is fair to you especially in a country like Nigeria. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:23am On Sep 07, 2017 |
chronique: You harsh ooooo. Na wa! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by pastorlams(m): 10:24am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Don't settle for less. Always go for the best! |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by TheManofTomorrow(m): 10:24am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Settling for a made guy may guarantee that you will continue enjoying the privileges you prolly enjoy under ur father's mention. But I fear if u would happy at the long run. just settle with someone that can make you happy. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by nobleblood: 10:26am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa: all women are thesame. Education or no education. The pretty girl in the village in her own head believes she deserve a better hunter, farmer or mason. Its all relative. You just happen to put forward your position better owing to your level of education. If you want a candid advise sister. Drop this career talks. Its not heathy when chasing a mate. Many women started on this note and that's the only thing many are hanging to. They tell you stories of their imaginary guy who is in UK, Canada and so. All because they they have set their bar too high. You. Are still young. Don't make that mistake. Many don't know the way out. Career is to support life. Not the other way round. And also take of that hat of class conciousness,It can only restrict you to a certain small circle just like tribe. If truly your mind is as educated as you claim, it should be more liberated from this sought of thinking by now.this for lack of better term is main stream thinking. Scrap that! Start your thinking over. . .let the end . be happiness. Not. .prestige. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Saint83(m): 10:26am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Nairaland has nothing to offer for choice of husband or marriage you desire, Just pray to God for direction.Celetial bless |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by remmer56(m): 10:27am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Search no more! See me here na! Your search describes me! Check your DM missloluwa: |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by OldBeer: 10:27am On Sep 07, 2017 |
goingape1:And you don't feed her? How sad! |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by chukagates(m): 10:27am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Op follow ur heart but me personally can NEVER date a lady financially above me Or financially below me that world is wicked all man don tear eye LOVE is not enough oo carry am for ur head ooo... golddiggers everywhere u have to be SMART COS EVEN MEN NOW SEF DON DEY SMART nobody dey marry financial burden this days.. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by chronique(m): 10:29am On Sep 07, 2017 |
MrMcJay: Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by talk2hb1(m): 10:30am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa:If you are my Sister I wont advise you to settle for less. its not worth it. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by samguru(m): 10:31am On Sep 07, 2017 |
@Op What you should be after is the man that can give you perpetual happiness. See my sister wealth is dynamic i.e a very rich guy today may become extremely poor tomorrow and vice versa. If you target an handsome guy, be ready for battle with random chicks as some ladies will go to any length to date an handsome man. if you target a well educated man, you might not enjoy the relationship as he will be constantly preoccupied with academic pursuits and that will make your union miserable. my advice,look for a gentle, serious,focus and loving guy who can give you happiness any time. Dont based your choice on materialism or social class of the guy. lastly pray,pray and pray because once you get it wrong at the first shot, you may suffer the consequences for the rest of your life. for further advice you can send me a mail |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by kay9(m): 10:31am On Sep 07, 2017 |
beautiful232: You have said it all. May God bless the home that raised you, my dear. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by chronique(m): 10:36am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Alcatraz005: Well, I don't know if I'm totally correct but I do believe I'm not far from the truth. Remember I didn't focus on the person so much. I focused more on the family background. The kind of setting you come from, has a way of affecting you positively or negatively. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by beautiful232(f): 10:38am On Sep 07, 2017 |
kay9: amen dear.tnx friend |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Marsnizz: 10:39am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa:Anywhere you can find true love do but never underate the power and the price it might likely come with.Ask yourself this few questions: (1) when i was born,do i have money or end salary? (2) Do i know the difference btw wealth and poverty? (3) Do i know the difference btw unmade and readymade? (4) can identify the touch of ready made man and unmade man? (5) I was born poor in a pool of blood by another person. Assuming i was not taken care of,what would have become of me,will i survive to see the breakthrough? (5) If i was made by someone,why should i not use the opportunity to make someone that is unmade financially? (6) Is there any condition that is constant(c) and permanent (p)? Therefore,use your instinct, your heart exactly the way you used it in identifying the love and touch of your dear mum when your were poor and needed her hands for help and she did.So, make use of that same heart and instict to locate your true love. Never allow the poor financial status of any one you truely love dicourage you from settling down with him. "Never can tell the pregnant future of the baby despise" 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:39am On Sep 07, 2017 |
bloodmoneyspita: They were told that work was all about enjoyment. But lo and behold... It turned out to be a lie |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by enonche85(m): 10:47am On Sep 07, 2017 |
U already know what u want sis...so no need been confused! There's nothing wrong to want someone around ur level.
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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by sukkot: 10:49am On Sep 07, 2017 |
if it be the will of YAH that you marry a financially stable man, it shall be. and if not ? then you have to settle. let the broke man be the cross you have to carry. we all have our crosses that we bear daily. get a broke man and let him be your cross. in bearing that cross comes purification. spiritual alchemy 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa: OP your concern is very real and serious. No doubt about that. But one thing I can assure you is that you have to make up your mind that whatever decision you make you will be ready to Live with it. No one has the right answers but God. As they say, man proposes, God disposes. But I making your decision you have to consider every side of the argument. As such you need input from lots of people. Then you can take time to think about them. I'd like to share some resources with you. PM me if you're interested. It's mostly blog post and following discussion. Dont worry, this is not a stunt to get your contact. I live and work as an engineer in faraway Abu Dhabi and I'm not coming back soon. So pm me if you'd like to see what I want to show you. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by refreshrate: 10:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Nedfed: Valid ...or let OP take one moment & come down from her high horse and reason this. What happens (God forbid o) this job that's making her feel untouchable is taken from her? This right here is the reason no man prays his wife gets more successful than he is. Once women have money like this something else enters them. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by tempel(m): 10:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Your resume is what some men look for. Eg me. Where do you reside or you can send mail templejulius97@gmail.com |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by refreshrate: 10:52am On Sep 07, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: This one is setting P Wehdone o |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Rozaytee: 10:56am On Sep 07, 2017 |
U better dont settle for less...since u have it in mind to get married soon....go for someone who is financially stable with a good job.... |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by babatee1985(m): 10:57am On Sep 07, 2017 |
kindly note that all struggling guys won't struggle forever, there are still some ambitious struggling guys out there but they only need capital to become someone in life. If u have a guy like that, just marry him and support him financially, u will smile at last. Take a look at me for example, I was earning 35k as a cashier in one micro-finance bank before I got married, after my wedding, my wife advised me to resign and invest in my dream business that she will support me financially. I listened to her and everything worked positively for me. I'm now a successful businessman. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:57am On Sep 07, 2017 |
refreshrate: Why do you think everyone lies like you? Then later you will tell OP not to worry that there are still good men left for her. But your attitude now just show that you don't believe a word of anything you say. Ergo you have discredited yourself. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by refreshrate: 10:57am On Sep 07, 2017 |
tempel: Bros as at may you were still doing aptitude test. Be like the job don set. I'd strongly advise you calm down & use at least 18 - 24 months to settle yourself before all this nonsense you're trying to do. Which resume? Which men like you? You that your laptop was freezing & you no gree us hear word? She should send mail? Even me sef dey feel sorry for OP for this...which kain talk be dis? ...it will surely end in the girl is too arrogant, make we bet am? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by eightsin(m): 10:58am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I'm looking for that independent lady to settle with... |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:59am On Sep 07, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: I dey feel your scope bro. Go get her! |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
A girl's idea of a made man is another man's idea of a broke/struggling man. Let's stay woke. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Rozaytee: na wa oooo. What is wrong with our girls? Is it the economy or what? We are in race to the abyss. God help this nation. |
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