Happy Sunday nairalanders. Let me try to make the story short. My friend just called me now to inform me that her marriage is about to crash Nd when I asked why,this is what she told me. Before she got married 2yrs ago,she was befriending a married man based in the U S,the man made her so comfortable Nd travelled to most places within Nd outside the country during those times. Knowing that she can't settle down with the man,she had another guy who was also very much in love with her.She took in for the U S based man,informed him about it Nd the man sent her money to abort the pregnancy, she was so scared that she could not do it . During that period the other guy asked for her hand in marriage Nd she accepted but did not tell him that she is pregnant for another man. Been so dump she told the one based in America that she is getting married but that she could not abort the baby Nd that he should pls stop communicating her,he said fine. Now she has given birth to a baby boy,the guy in U S,has divorced his wife Nd having no male issue,he is back now to claim the baby from her. Her husband is not aware of all this Nd she doesn't know how to go about it. Pls I need matured advice so we can save her. Thanks.

Pls its not as if am in support of what she did,just to seek for a solution on how to make her inform her husband,because that's her only option.

Let her open up to her husband and watch how God take control of it. Thank God this thing happen early.

if She was eventually divorced and all that, it's not late to start all over again.

olaleks007:
Let her open up to her husband and watch how God take control of it. Thank God this thing happen early.

if She was eventually divorced and all that, it's not late to start all over again.

. Ok,but is that the best option for her?.I tire no be small.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Ok,but is that the best option for her?.I tire no be small.

She can't keep it...she must let it out and face d consequences at once.

Ordinary small challenges. She should face it

She should simply open up to her husband, confess to him about the matter. Then they both handle the situation together.

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every one just looking for attention

ednut1:
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. Bros its not a joke. Pls help if u can.

nuele:
She should simply open up to her husband, confess to him about the matter. Then they both handle the situation together.

. Thanks.U re ryt.

nuele:
She should simply open up to her husband, confess to him about the matter. Then they both handle the situation together.

See as you made look so simple, like it's not a big deal.

We talking about a woman that didn't tell you she took in for another man.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Bros its not a joke. Pls help if u can.

both of u are mad. What kind of help is she looking for. Assasinate her husband or the usa man na. Mtcheeew

Nothing to do. She should bear the consequences of her actions.

ednut1:
both of u are mad. What kind of help is she looking for. Assasinate her husband or the usa man na. Mtcheeew

. So am mad because I brought something up ryt? Thank you for that.

she needn't do any anything let her just relax and drink milk, chocolate and chilled fanta nothing will happen










modified; Let her inform an elderly person of father/mother figure explain herself and who in turn will invite the husband and try to make peace and settle things if not if she do so herself the man might over react and hurt her in the process. it a big saga



she should make the yankee man pay thru his nose he shouldn't just think he can eat his cake and have it back .. what rubbish?? let her demand for anything she wants. just saying this just in case things go south with d husband ni sha ..to avoid a lose lose situation.



advice for slay Queens/ fvck boiz : your past of 10min or 10 years can come back to hunt you. live a clean life. or be ready to face the consequences of a dirty past

she made a simple small mistake wich is not telling her present husband about the pregnancy before getting married. If she had told him they will be fighting for it together but now she has two problems to fix. my advice let her tell that americana man to go Bleep himself since they had an agreement and he said fine. And secondly tell her husband about the baby. I dont wanna know what happens next.

So she actually lied to her husband that the child belonged to him, the best thing to do now is to confess to him the child isn't his and face the outcome. I pray it goes well for her

mazimee:


See as you made look so simple, like it's not a big deal.

We talking about a woman that didn't tell you she took in for another man.

Nigerians we don't tink anytin is easy, everytin must be hard n difficult dats why we have buhari...

carry pikin go give him papa...

She is a divorced baby mama in advance. Tell her I say so

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It is finished

Karma is a bitch!
Fear women

Mjshexy:
So she actually lied to her husband that the child belonged to him, the best thing to do now is to confess to him the child isn't his and face the outcome. I pray it goes well for her

I don't pray so.

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some girls a wicked. Dat guy wld b happy he already got a baby nt knwn it someone else own.

let her open up to her husband.

Wicked girl.

She brought it upon herself. Tell that ur friend to come and register on nairaland and seek for advice herself And stop disturbing people's peace here.

She should know that she can no longer remain in the house of her present husband once he got to know. So she should get ready to move in with the Americana with his child, If he still wants her. Or she should prepare to live as a baby mama because the present husband can't take her again as his legal wife because of her betrayal. Wicked woman! So if the man did not come , the husband will be taking care of someone else's child not knowing he is not his. Men, beware of this kind of woman. They can kill

She should open up to the husband and face the consequences.

Just like someone told me.. Most first child in Nigeria are not with their legitimate father.. Don't open up ..let him do his worst...When the issue bounce back just tell him you were never pregnant.. You were just playing around but if your husband should ask for DNA test.. Na gobe be that... Or let her go and do juju so that the man can forget it

She should come clean! She did a very terrible thing. She has to right her wrong and bear the consequences.

fatymore:
Just like someone told me.. Most first child in Nigeria are not with their legitimate father.. Don't open up ..let him do his worst...When the issue bounce back just tell him you were never pregnant.. You were just playing around but if your husband should ask for DNA test.. Na gobe be that... Or let her go and do juju so that the man can forget it

This is terrible... Diabolical means is hell No

Effects of double dating.

She is really getting nowhere into this as long as the US guy is serious and any paternity test proves him the father.

The best she can do now is to "hope" for a better outcome.