lol noo

i wasnt upset? why dyu think so??

i found it somewhere else

thot it was sheer brilliance!

^^I was surprised that someone removed me from the thread for quoting it. I loved it, it's very funny.

     Glad it was not u. 

was it removed?? why??

i feel like im in china sometimes! wats wv all the editing?

^^The dictatorship of man

dat write up 4rm yetunde is 1 of my top 10 write up ever wat d gurl said make sense 2 my xcept some little exaggerations here nd there but wil address it l8r 2 sleepy

no be me write am oo b4 they sue me for plagarism! i found it on nl!

either way it makes sense d person WORD

yeap!

@topic i think i am fortunate nt 2 av met any golddigger d chics around me dnt need my money just attention nd being nice bsides it doesnt make sense approachng a gurl with d i av money 2 blow swagg if it is limited

Hmmm, dats d way its spposd 2 be.

H2O2:

Continue digging gold so niggahz can keep treating you like hoes.

Hehehe
Nah so we see am ooooo

Sometimes I wonder what the difference is between these women and regular pro-st-itutes because in both cases theres an exchange of cash involved and it's all the same end-game.In the end, pro-st-itutes offer you a better deal, they bend over when you request it and aren't out to drain your bank account or try and run your life while they're at it.

Some fool-ish men here are paying money to golddiggers without even getting 10% of their money's value simply because some weird Nigerian notion makes them feel these women are giving him something special that they have to pay them a salary for. These women have become specialists in earning two salaries, one from their jobs and the other from boy-mugu, the boyfriend. Some soulless female creatures have even turned golddigging into a full time job, collecting from mugu1 through to mugu4, while having no worthwhile respectable occupation to call their own.

If these women were golddigging with some measure of loyalty and gratitude, I'd understand, after all they say the economy is messed up, but all they do is suck suck, complain and suck like the ungrateful vacuum cleaners that they are.

These madwomen, will later open their mouths to tell you about equality in relationships. Yeah, I pay the dumb broads bills and she expects the 50-50 treatment, what the fugg do I look like - a UNICEF pension plan?

I have no problem with a Nigerian woman gold digging, just as long as she knows I'll just as easily dump her behind and move on to the next one when I'm done. After all she wants to be paid like an employee and as the boss paying the bills, its my prerogative to hire and fire as I please.

To young men still acting stupid. Check yourselves before you wreck yourselves.

topup:

'Who pays for the bill' causes so many problems, that's why I always believe in 50:50 unless the guy insists, and if they don't then that's fine, it's easy to see a broke guy from a stingy guy (that is after a few times).

Funny thing is that when I offered to pay for my half of the meal, the guy who I went out for dinner with literally shot me daggers in his eyes, like I was insulting him or something!!

Hillarious!!

yea-how do these men that like complainin of gdiggas explain that!

^^Let me tell this story AGAIN!!!
     
     Some guys cry foul when it's they who cause the problem.

     MY ex bf was very upset when I told him I would  feel uneasy taking a gift of a car from him, he said my refusal hurt his feelings.

     Some men try to entice girls with money,if you try to refuse or side step there macho show they end up turning the tables on us.
     
     If a guy gives a girl a gift it should be given with a open mind and heart, it should not mean he's purchased her.

     I'am with @topup and the @Poster,  50 50  most times. I do not want to be forced to pay  the bill in kind at the end of the night.


     I am glad to say that there are some reasonable thinking black men who never use the word "golddigger".

the way i understand the topic is, u saying that a girl should have her money(makes so much sense)
but that a girl relationship should be defined by the guys ability to meet her bills and that of the family (of course, what sane man wanna live without being able to do that)

but where do u cross the line between the guy being capable financially andthe guy being defined by his financial capability?
cos personally i would be really grieved and would probaby do something crazy if at any point i cant meet my bills,

but when madam's presence in my life is solely tied to my financial capability, sure i would like and prefer to be able to meet up, but i alaso have this notion that without my money the relationship or marriage would go to the dogs then im sure u then appreciate with me thatit doesnt really make for rest of mind.

put in perspective, this is like a guy who dates u simply because u look like beyonce and can screw like a dirty movie star. sure he likes u and spoils you, but will there not be something at the back of your mind that without your looks which may go anytime, and ur bedroom skills which he may tire of, there is nothing that holds your relationship? being a trophy wife isnt that much fun, being the ATM husband isnt too!

understand now?

wats funny is all men want beyonce?? right??

her words;

[size=16pt]you pay my bills
can you pay my telephone bills
can you pay my automo'bills
if u did then maybe we could chill[/size]

but the ordinary women are gdigga's right??

^^Some guys just like to boast and make themselves look big by telling their male mates how much he's spent on a girl.

    I know quite a few ladies who have 2 jobs to help their husband complete their studies, I never hear them complain.

ya know, come to think abt it, all ya gals based in UK/US oughtta know that the scenario over there is kinda not exactly normal, cos way i see it, a lot of the guys over there ought not to be there!!! they can barely make ends meet, wanna go to school, wanna live ok, its not exactly cool.\

the situation aint exactly normal, plus being in close proximity with all those lazy ass black american men who sit on a couch all day and grab their crotches on the streets makes for a bad learning curve for women.

bottom line is, for ever SOB story u can come up with, there is 1 story that actually ends well. you know, some people actually helped their boyfriends to school and all that and things eventually turned out right too!!!!

stuff isnt exactly cut and dried like the way u people put it, besides u realise that its selfishness to wanna help someone and expect sumtin in return? in the pure form of it, it doesnt accomodate that, but well we all sooo smart this days, our mommas aint raised no fools hunh? fat lot of good we doing with that, we are absolutely recording success with our new found smarts arent we, look around u!!

anyways, what does ayetty have against beyonce? jealous?
anyways belive it or not, i dont like the girl beyond the few flights of fancy and she comes useful in pissing u girls off anyways
belive it or not, i think she is too fat--bite me now

and if men were like me we wouldnt be even discussing this topic.-- i'd rather die twice over than live off a woman for ANYTHING!!!! anything at all!! thats being dead as a man anyways so why not just shoot myself!!

i feel sorry for all those mofos who live like that, how do they look in the mirror, cant even nick a dime off my parents anymore!!

^^lol noo thats not wat i meant- im quoting her beautiful words of encouragement!

ayettymama:

wats funny is all men want beyonce?? right??

her words;

[size=16pt]you pay my bills
can you pay my telephone bills
can you pay my automo'bills
if u did then maybe we could chill[/size]

but the ordinary women are gdigga's right??

difference is beyonce worked for what she has. she is rich! she aint no goldie! she aint leaching of jigga's bottom! singers say things that dont always reflect their true lives

tai2:

Sometimes I wonder what the difference is between these women and regular pro-st-itutes because in both cases theres an exchange of cash involved and it's all the same end-game.In the end, pro-st-itutes offer you a better deal, they bend over when you request it and aren't out to drain your bank account or try and run your life while they're at it.

Some fool-ish men here are paying money to golddiggers without even getting 10% of their money's value simply because some weird Nigerian notion makes them feel these women are giving him something special that they have to pay them a salary for. These women have become specialists in earning two salaries, one from their jobs and the other from boy-mugu, the boyfriend. Some soulless female creatures have even turned golddigging into a full time job, collecting from mugu1 through to mugu4, while having no worthwhile respectable occupation to call their own.

If these women were golddigging with some measure of loyalty and gratitude, I'd understand, after all they say the economy is messed up, but all they do is suck suck, complain and suck like the ungrateful vacuum cleaners that they are.

These madwomen, will later open their mouths to tell you about equality in relationships. Yeah, I pay the dumb broads bills and she expects the 50-50 treatment, what the fugg do I look like - a UNICEF pension plan?

I have no problem with a Nigerian woman gold digging, just as long as she knows I'll just as easily dump her behind and move on to the next one when I'm done. After all she wants to be paid like an employee and as the boss paying the bills, its my prerogative to hire and fire as I please.

To young men still acting silly. Check yourselves before you wreck yourselves.

worrrd!!

4llerbuntu:

ya know, come to think abt it, all ya gals based in UK/US oughtta know that the scenario over there is kinda not exactly normal, cos way i see it, a lot of the guys over there ought not to be there!!! they can barely make ends meet, wanna go to school, wanna live ok, its not exactly cool.\


and if men were like me we wouldnt be even discussing this topic.-- i'd rather die twice over than live off a woman for ANYTHING!!!! anything at all!! thats being dead as a man anyways so why not just shoot myself!!

i feel sorry for all those mofos who live like that, how do they look in the mirror, cant even nick a dime off my parents anymore!!

i couldnt agree more with that first statement- thats the truth right there!
back hme men dnt have problems spendin on women- whether he onli has 300naira or 300,000 naira thats standard!
its here thats the men have issues and onli God no's why- but who cares? if u go out and he expects u to pay the bill- pay it, if u dnt like it  never see him again! soo simple!
2nd statement- wow there is hope for nigeria! hehehehe i guess i mite marry one after all! they arent all related to me! are you??
ur right it works out for some women that help thier men- but there really is only one reason for most of them doing it! its borderline impossible for one to use money to buy love and thats the problem most are having now

4llerbuntu:

ya know, come to think abt it, all ya gals based in UK/US oughtta know that the scenario over there is kinda not exactly normal, cos way i see it, a lot of the guys over there ought not to be there!!! they can barely make ends meet, wanna go to school, wanna live ok, its not exactly cool.\

the situation aint exactly normal, plus being in close proximity with all those lazy backside black american men who sit on a couch all day and grab their crotches on the streets makes for a bad learning curve for women.

bottom line is, for ever SOB story u can come up with, there is 1 story that actually ends well. you know, some people actually helped their boyfriends to school and all that and things eventually turned out right too!!!!

stuff isnt exactly cut and dried like the way u people put it, besides u realise that its selfishness to wanna help someone and expect sumtin in return? in the pure form of it, it doesnt accomodate that, but well we all sooo smart this days, our mommas aint raised no fools hunh? fat lot of good we doing with that, we are absolutely recording success with our new found smarts arent we, look around u!!

anyways, what does ayetty have against beyonce? jealous?
anyways belive it or not, i dont like the girl beyond the few flights of fancy and she comes useful in pissing u girls off anyways
belive it or not, i think she is too fat--bite me now

and if men were like me we wouldnt be even discussing this topic.-- i'd rather die twice over than live off a woman for ANYTHING!!!! anything at all!! thats being dead as a man anyways so why not just shoot myself!!

i feel sorry for all those mofos who live like that, how do they look in the mirror, cant even nick a dime off my parents anymore!!

What is up with you these days, you turn all my answers around and then come with another story.

I said I did NOT take money from my ex bf, I pay my own way, which made him cross!!!!

No matter what us girls say, you are still going to call us GOLDDIGGERS.

ps nothing wrong in a wife helping her husband, if needs be.

Kgdavid:


difference is beyonce worked for what she has. she is rich!  she aint no goldie! she aint leaching of jigga's bottom! singers say things  that dont always reflect  their true lives

pls lets not go into that- how rich was she when they started dating?? naomi cambell is rich and shes dating a russian billionaire- tell me its not for money

puhleeze!
im not even tryna say shes a goldigga- im just quoting her lyrics! (rolls eyes yes inno she didnt write em) wateva u wanna say jigga is richer
she didnt go for a broke man! her situation is not one u can use to prove a point

b4 u discuss 1st say what youll classify as gold diggin and move on from there!

madlady why didnt u want the car??

just curious?

^^^Do want me to tell you the truth?

yeaaaap!

OK  I only feel cool when I buy my own things (gifts are another story)
           
          He always complained that his ex milked him dry, it was a lie, I knew the girl, guys complain too much about this issue.
          He could afford it but this money issue is too much.

hmmmmmmmmm

^^what's the meaning of hmmmmmmmmmmmm?

women are supposed to be pampered without in-feeling of being a goldigger. Traditionally-wise, we men are supposed to be the leader and provider even though equality is much preached upon and practiced in this 21st century.
My question to you is what's d point of having a man if you won't let him pamper you? Remember that the key to gold digging is constant DEMANDS but if a man offers then i c no reason why you shouldn't take plus nothing to be worry about as long as you are in some sort of relationship.