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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by uk10(m): 10:49am On Dec 28, 2017
Chai the thing pain them,they like creating thread to insult us but they don't like it when we create thread to insult them lol,op good work don't mind them and their double standards

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 28, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
They want us to go back to the 15th century,you can't have it two ways you want your wife to work help her at home she is not a superwoman,you choose a financial independent working class lady or a financially dependent house wife.


Untrue. Ladies can earn a billion it's their money, we men just need some chill ..... No one is taken women back to the 15th century !
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 10:51am On Dec 28, 2017
why are all the babes angry.. he only gave his opinion and as far as I know it doesn't count....
heard many babes say they want a rich faithful man...... well for me I don't want a rich man , I want to be Rich .... I can't even stand rich men,most are arrogant..... I just wanna be Rich myself.....pay my own bills and have a good man by my side... that's my desire.......
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 10:53am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
why are all the babes angry.. he only have his opinion and as far as I know it doesn count....
heard many babes say they want a rich faithful man...... well for me I don't want a rich man , I want to be Rich .... I can't even stand rich men,most are arrogant..... I just wanna be Rich myself.....pay my own bills and have a good man by my side... that's my desire.......




Note, most rich men are arrogant
Exactly the same way , guys same financially independent ladies have attitude issues. It goes both ways...Lol

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Thegeneralqueen(f): 10:53am On Dec 28, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
They want us to go back to the 15th century,you can't have it two ways you want your wife to work help her at home she is not a superwoman,you choose a financial independent working class lady or a financially dependent house wife.
You are the best person to say this to them......... they expect you to work, support the family financially, come perform the wifely duties......e.t.c all this for one person.......we have enough clay in Nigeria they should just use to mould the type of woman that they want simple.......... cheesy
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by uk10(m): 10:53am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
why are all the babes angry.. he only gave his opinion and as far as I know it doesn't count....
heard many babes say they want a rich faithful man...... well for me I don't want a rich man , I want to be Rich .... I can't even stand rich men,most are arrogant..... I just wanna be Rich myself.....pay my own bills and have a good man by my side... that's my desire.......
that is a wonderful goal,may God grant u ur heart desire
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 10:54am On Dec 28, 2017
richythePH:
We feminists do not in any way agree to and with this lipsrsealed


TRASH!!!

NEXT!!
You ehn grin grin

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 10:55am On Dec 28, 2017
Thegeneralqueen:
You are the best person to say this to them......... they expect you to work, support the family financially, come perform the wifely duties......e.t.c all this for one person.......we have enough clay in Nigeria they should just use to mould the type of woman that they want simple.......... cheesy


This is a revolt and we reject it !
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 10:55am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:





Note, most rich men are arrogant
Exactly the same way , guys same financially independent ladies have attitude issues. It goes both ways...Lol
sure thing... I know that...the best is for both couple to be financially independent........the thought of depending on a guy financially makes me wanna die...Gosh that's hell dear ....
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
sure thing... I know that...the best is for both couple to be financially independent........the thought of depending on a guy financially makes me wanna die...Gosh that's hell dear ....


But why do you all say this .the thought of depending on a guy financially makes me wanna die...It makes me feel uncomfortable each time i hear ladies say it
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 10:57am On Dec 28, 2017
uk10:
that is a wonderful goal,may God grant u ur heart desire
Amen dear.... Amen
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Thegeneralqueen(f): 10:59am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:



This is a revolt and we reject it !
The day you learn to own up to your responsibilities will be the day you become a man

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:59am On Dec 28, 2017
Thegeneralqueen:
You are the best person to say this to them......... they expect you to work, support the family financially, come perform the wifely duties......e.t.c all this for one person.......we have enough clay in Nigeria they should just use to mould the type of woman that they want simple.......... cheesy
Abi clay sand full my area if them want I go deliver to them make them make mould human being.At least the amazonian Queen hippolyta moulded her own daughter according to Greek mythology.
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 11:00am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:



But why do you all say this .the thought of depending on a guy financially makes me wanna die...It makes me feel uncomfortable each time i hear ladies say it
lolz.....Am that kind of girl... I don't like being in that position where I have to depend on a guy for bills... I don't know how to explain it to you buh I just dont like it..... should I say it has to do with my ego...well maybe....
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:01am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
why are all the babes angry.. he only gave his opinion and as far as I know it doesn't count....
heard many babes say they want a rich faithful man...... well for me I don't want a rich man , I want to be Rich .... I can't even stand rich men,most are arrogant..... I just wanna be Rich myself.....pay my own bills and have a good man by my side... that's my desire.......
May God bless you.

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:01am On Dec 28, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Abi clay sand full my area if them want I go deliver to them make them make mould human being.At least the amazonian Queen hippolyta moulded her own daughter according to Greek mythology.
Girl that's a hard one on them..... cheesy

Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 28, 2017
Thegeneralqueen:
The day you learn to own up to your responsibilities will be the day you became a man

Ouch. It hurts wink Try harder
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
lolz.....Am that kind of girl... I don't like being in that position where I have to depend on a guy for bills... I don't know how to explain it to you buh I just dont like it..... should I say it has to do with my ego...well maybe....



I've heard many in this lifetime say this, it's a turn off !
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:03am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:



Untrue. Ladies can earn a billion it's their money, we men just need some chill ..... No one is taken women back to the 15th century !
I don't think you are sincere some men are just looking for ladies to be on their beck and call.
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 28, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't think you are sincere some men are just looking for ladies to be on their beck and call.

Nah. You're thinking about guys in movies. Many of us want professionals as wives... It boosts the social status...Damn, Doctor husband, wife Health care professional, for example. Perfect combination...You ladies form image of these men or your friends date boys...Better correctn man doesn't care. Give him respect, care and you get the loving and all else y'all need !
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Jman06(m): 11:04am On Dec 28, 2017
pocohantas:
This isn't a perfect rebuttal to the other, because it focused on the sexual recklessness of women. That's understandable, knowing that women are judged more for their moral conduct, and men for their financial capability.

Some ladies don't know how bad their actions are, till they are in same position. The case of that woman who killed her husband comes to mind. She was a side chick, became the wife...the first wife left. But she couldn't bear the thought of him having another side chick. Maybe it's human nature to want to be treated better than they treat others.

That said, I am a refurbished virgin and I want a rich faithful husband. Reason being that:
Broke guys are insecure.
Broke guys are paranoid.
Broke guys can give hypertension.
Broke guys play victim a lot.
The loyalty of a broke guy can never be trusted... grin grin grin
Everybody is judged by their moral conduct and financial capabilities, not just women or men.
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:08am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


Ouch. It hurts wink Try harder
Why is it that you don't want to accept the reality....... you surprise me jupxter
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 28, 2017
Thegeneralqueen:
Why is it that you don't want to accept the reality....... you surprise me jupxter


wink Bae
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:09am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


wink Bae
Boo undecided
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 11:09am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:




I've heard many in this lifetime say this, it's a turn off !
awwn......you want a girl who will run off to you saying she just saw a nice dress at a boutique and would love to have it, waiting for you to give her money?... Hell naw..... I want to see a lovely dress And pay for it right away and even buy one as a gift for you..........

What can I say that's me... about it being a turn off...oops that's your own case....
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by NaeChris: 11:10am On Dec 28, 2017
Why all these hoelosho dey tear their cloths? This one pain them.

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:10am On Dec 28, 2017
bro

This write up is deeply flawed, just like the original post you countered

Every thing you accused ladies of doing is not entirely gender specific.

Most men also sleep around and expect to settle down with faithful women. Otherwise, who will have been sleeping with the ladies, if not men on most occasions

As far as I am concerned, everyone possesses a past (men and women alike). A person's past shouldn't be a reason to disqualify them from seeking a better future. Otherwise, we will all be disqualified.

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by ReinaFarine: 11:10am On Dec 28, 2017
Hello Honey....

Nigerian ladies are confused because of sexual exposure? I don't see how.that statement makes sense. Maybe it is just my confusion talking, but it would have been more sensible if you had explained how sexual exposure causes confusion.

At least 50% of nigerian ladies are in the practice of lesbianism?

Please where did you do your survey?

What makes a woman deserving of a good man after destroying a marital home

It always pisses me the bleep off when I hear morons blaming the woman outside for extramarital affairs. What the heck?
You are married not me.
You promised to remain faithful to your wife not me.
You are in love with her not me.
You cheated not me.
And 60% of the time, the woman outside has no idea she's with a married man.

Wait, you seriously think ladies that intentionally sell have affairs with married men have any iota of respect for the sanctity of marriage?
You think they care about getting married after they've seen how easy it is for a man that promised heaven on earth to his woman to start getting a vibrator in his butthole from a twenty years old slut?

You honestly think she'll give up playing the dick roulette to stick to one limp chump?
That she'll shut all the opportunities of income to become the old lady at home to a millionaire? When she can be getting 600,000 a week from a Nigerian senator?

Even when she retires... You think she won't open a salon, a fashion school and the rest for her to feel young forever.

I perceive you're a young child that sent a pepper dem gal #500 mtn last night out of your ten thousand naira salary... And you think that has given you an insight into a woman's mind?

I laugh in spiritual powers....

And you see the hilarity of your second question is that.... When you read about the life story of most successful men in the world, you will see the great role their women had to play in their success... If you saddle yourself with a slay queen, it is because of what you looked for. If all you expected and hammer on during the course of the relationship was puna, don't complain if that's all she offers you.

So did you talk to her about catering school? Did you tell her abut fashion designing? Dance school? Her Masters degree? All you did was watch Porn together and try to copy all the positions you saw. And you ate expecting the holy spirit to teach her how to write research papers for publication in a recognized field?

Will you compare Beyonce to Kim? Both of them are wives to top hip stars... Kanye got what he wanted and he can never complain that Kim Kardashian is not a good singer, or mother. And Jay will never compare the cock sucking skills of Kim to Bey.

If you're truly a man of substance, you attract a woman like you. If what you want is pussy... Don't complain if that's all you get.

You're the confused monkey. You saw her on insta and discovered how particular she is about her hair and make up. You saw the length of her hair and every where she visits jut for fun. And you expect her to sit with you in a shack in mushin to fry akara? What did you think you will get from romangodess? A cook and clean wife or a suck a fvck?

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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 28, 2017
Nobodys:
awwn......you want a girl who will run off to you saying she just saw a nice dress at a boutique and would love to have it, waiting for you to give her money?... Hell naw..... I want to see a lovely dress And pay for it right away and even buy one as a gift for you..........

What can I say that's me... about it being a turn off...oops that's your own case....


Nope. That's not the issue. That's not how guys are wired. The i don't want a man's money ticks off a man somehow, it leaves an unsettling feeling !It should be give and take, why marry me for example if you won't accept my money, it hurts, i've heard those statements a few times, and it makes us feel un-needed or how do i put it....
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:12am On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


Nah. You're thinking about guys in movies. Many of us want professionals as wives... It boosts the social status...Damn, Doctor husband, wife Health care professional, for example. Perfect combination...You ladies form image of these men or your friends date boys...Better correctn man doesn't care. Give him respect, care and you get the loving and all else y'all need !
If na Nigerian film I nor dey watch and I am talking about Nigerian men.To me it is reciprocal show me love,respect and care I do same.It is not a one way thing.
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 11:14am On Dec 28, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
If na Nigerian film I nor dey watch and I am talking about Nigerian men.To me it is reciprocal show me love,respect and care I do same.It is not a one way thing.


The young generation of guys/men are like this. Be careful not to judge us before you endeavor to enter a relationship. I treated my last this way, with deep respect,love and care. We want peace, so we must sow peace to yield a bountiful harvest !
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by nezzar: 11:14am On Dec 28, 2017
greiboy:
bro

This write up is deeply flawed, just like the original post you countered

Every thing you accused ladies of doing is not entirely gender specific.

Most men also sleep around and expect to settle down with faithful women. Otherwise, who will have been sleeping with the ladies, if not men on most occasions

As far as I concerned, everyone possesses a past (men and women alike). A person's past shouldn't be a reason to disqualify them from seeking a better future. Otherwise, we will all be disqualified.
U say wah.....A person's past shouldn't be used to judge the person.....we ain't God sa

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