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Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by nezzar: 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:With a cool headed guy like me?.....She would change |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by nezzar: 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
sekxy:That's not a problem |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Barzinime(m): 12:15pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Continue...e dey your body sekxy: |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 12:15pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
nezzar:nazzer the cool headed handsome guy....... ok carry go baba. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by ReinaFarine: 12:17pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: Aww... If it was that stupid, I think the genius you are would be able to counter it in two lines. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Donjazzy12(m): 12:18pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Barzinime: |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Blackhawk03(f): 12:30pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
nezzar: Na refurbished virgin you go end up with lass lass. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by nezzar: 12:37pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Blackhawk03:lol....But they are rare 2 find these days |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 12:40pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
sekxy: Your response is too emotional. Are you on your period? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
ubunja:smh |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by afezy110(m): 1:16pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
OMO THIS ARGUMENT IS POINTLESS. NO GENDER WON'T ADMIT LOSING. IT IS NATURAL FOR WOMEN TO BE DEPENDENT ON MEN. IF U CANT SUSTAIN YOUR WOMAN'S LIFESTYLE. GET ONE U CAN. STOP RANTING UP AND DOWN. SHIKINA 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Stycon(m): 1:53pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
pocohantas: How come I am not any of the above: insecure, paranoid..."Cos i'm actually a "broke" guy and I think my loyalty remains a constant even though my broke state is obviously a variable. Howbeit, I've gat feasible and workable plans that would make me a "rich faithful husband."~ and this is for real. And the last time I checked, to be a "rich faithful husband" you've gat to be married already "Cos it takes the "married" to be husband...and I guess you wouldn't wanna marry a married "rich faithful husband" So, here is my proposition, I would love to get to know you, friend you and if we find it worth while, it would be my greatest pleasure to be that "rich faithful husband" few seconds into our marriage. "Cos by then the story would be, a single faithful broke dude just became a "rich faithful husband" Lol. I actually might just be serious 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by apenaola(m): 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=63676406]This isn't a perfect rebuttal to the other, because it focused on the sexual recklessness of women. That's understandable, knowing that women are judged more for their moral conduct, and men for their financial capability. Some ladies don't know how bad their actions are, till they are in same position. The case of that woman who killed her husband comes to mind. She was a side chick, became the wife...the first wife left. But she couldn't bear the thought of him having another side chick. Maybe it's human nature to want to be treated better than they treat others. That said, I am a refurbished virgin and I want a rich faithful husband. Reason being that: Broke guys are insecure. Broke guys are paranoid. Broke guys can give hypertension. Broke guys play victim a lot. The loyalty of a broke guy can never be trusted... [/quot Are u really a V? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 3:42pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:The issue that brought about feminism are social issues like this one.In the north the low level of education not only for the females but also for the male concerns government,we can have NGO's that are ready and willing to assist but this is government's priority,even the need for birth control needs government involvement.The entire northern part of the country need reorientation both with government assistance and private agencies.The push and fight for a lot of issues concerning the female gender has started and it is yielding result.Social media feminism is different from reality feminism.Everyone has what feminism means to them and if you feel that social media feminist has personal interest it could be as a result of their life experiences.When the need for female education came to light it took some women the courage to demand for women's right and it can be said as well for the north until some people begin to bring all these to public attention and bring in the government it will still go on.Although we have agencies from the UN that are already trying their best in solving this issue.Yes women work under terrible conditions it is not just the women alone and serious minded governments would look into the issue. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:. You see your excuse, you ALL have PERSONAL Interest in feminism. So inesssence you pick and choose your advocacy in feminism, Aren't you in libertarian movement, aren't you suppose to have common interests Some of the issues I raised like education are being addressed in other countries. I am talking about some of the most conservative of countries like Saudi Arabia and the emirates because women in those countries took a stand However, for some reason(s) Nigerian "feminist" will rather promote unreasonable and utopian ideas on social media. Some even going as far as endorsing prostitution as a form of women empowerment. I understand we have ngos and united nations agencies responsible for some of this issues, but aren't those issues part of feminism. So I ask again, why the disconnect? Why not focus on the real issues? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
ReinaFarine: You called out the OP for not backing up his statistics but here you are pulling another figure out your ass. This is why we don't take what you lots say seriously. Here you're absolving ladies of any blame in the part they play in ruining the matrimonial homes of their fellow women. When will you people ever be accountable for your actions? If your hubby cheated on you, would you go after him or the b!tch who stole his attention from you in the first place? The ladies have no idea that they f*cking with married men, are you kidding me?! |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Sierusvirus(m): 4:38pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:A bitter truth comes with insults from those girls into the act or having such mentality towards life. OP, they will surely come for you but be assured your point is clear and made known to all the girls. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:42pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:To you the issues they are focusing on is not a real issue but to them it is everyone's experience would be their own reason for accepting feminism and what concerns them.Don't bring Saudi Arabia here it was only the crown prince and the king simple and even in Saudi Arabia some people are against it.And they all have a common interest women's right as it matter's to them I said it before that if women don't like the way they are being they alone can take a stand in the north.The proto feminist had what they stood for and other feminist have what they are standing for. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Cuteamigo1(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Nobodys:A billion likes for you. you are beautiful too. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 4:53pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Again, picking and choosing Those issues I have raised are real issues within our society. Are you saying they should fight their own battles, even though they are voiceless. While you continue to pursue your own personal interest? '''great libration tactics"""" ok let me ask you a question if the first generation feminist didn't advocate for the right to vote for women in America, Do you think you will be afforded the same privilege in Nigeria? if the second generation feminist didn't fight for equal working conditions for both sexes, do you think you be afforded the same privilege. and so on and so forth So why does the new brand of feminism want to be self centered? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:55pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:It is the ones you have seen. |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 5:01pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Ok have you done anything to advocate for those voiceless girls/ladies in the past? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:13pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:No,I am still in school(university) and I have plans for myself I would like to open an NGO when I am ready but it won't be about women.What I believe in advocacy for women and girls right is believing that women's right are human right and the advocates on this issue are not sleeping.My own advocacy is this let the door be opened for everybody and not limited to gender but to who is capable.I believe in meritocracy so I would not advocate for quota system for any gender, prove yourself and be given.Everybody is a voice for themselves I really don't see myself advocating for anybody but if I see a woman being oppressed I would talk and maybe partake on issues concerning women but my own advocacy has nothing to do with women but the physically challenged which the Nigerian government is neglecting. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:So you aren't a feminist. You are more of an egalitarian(those who believe in equal rights for all). At least until you are through with your studies. Good luck with the physically challenged thing |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:37pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
greiboy:Thank you but I believe in feminism but that does not mean I would support a woman that is wrong or give special privileges to them.I support feminism. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by ReinaFarine: 8:43pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
CorGier: My statistics is fact I read on a college magazine couple of months ago. His is unrealistically stupid. 50% of girls are lesbians... C'mon... When I get the link to that, I'll send it to you. I'm not absolving them of the blame. Home wreckers have a special place in hell to me because of the cry of children from broken home. But the practice of a woman leaving her cheating slut of a husband to confront the woman outside rather than divorce his cheating ass, or go for couple's counselling is stupid. A person that will cheat will cheat whether he was seduced or not. So if a married man cheats on his woman, he is note culpable to the crime than the woman he is boning doesn't matter what he says. If I cheat on my husband, do you think it sensible for my husband to go and beg the little fucktoy I'm didling with or to divorce my cheating ass? If he truly loved me , he won't cheat even if a stripper spends the whole night gyrating on his dick. I will never ever listen to me add it ever confront a woman because my husband decided to throw away commitments he made to me. He is the one that knows me, knows how I feel about him, knows what we went through to get to what we are, knows what our family is, knows whatvi expected of him. He was my freaking partner. And he threw all we were away because of a woman outside. It is because he thought her worth it. I know he is a great man. That's why I fell in love with him. So her trying to catch HIM is not such a big surprise to me. And if he picks her over me and the family then he should go and have a very happy future with her no hard feelings. But one thing I know for sure is, once a cheat, always a cheat. If he threw me away for her, then he will definitely throw her for the next model and on and on... And if she knowingly bones a married man because of the power trip, then he is stupid for going for a shallow girl with the worst kind of character there can be. And honestly, they deserve each other and karma is a bitch! I know who I am as a woman, and what I have to offer, it is rare to get it outside. And women with what I have, don't struggle for married men. Please do a survey of girls that actually know they are fucking an unrepentant cheat. It is either they don't know at all, he said she's a heartless barren bitch he is going to leave soon for them. 2 in five are fully aware they are fucking an unavailable married man. And these kind of girls are not in the market for love, family or other emotional ecumberance |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Thegeneralqueen:The comments people make show their exposure and upbringing. I can imagine the kind of home you must've grown up in. A man doing chores is not a big deal anymore. Gone are those days when women were basically baby-churching house girls in their "ogas" house. These days men participate in domestic family life, from cooking to cleaning to taking care of the baby etc. I'm sure this sounds shocking to you, you must've grown up in a house where daddy is essentially a couch potato and everybody under his roof relies on him for money. Things have changed, now women are expected to make something of their lives and men help out in domestic chores whether or not he's the sole provider or the woman has a job/business. Its his home too, why should taking care of your house be strange? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
pocohantas:Do you mean "broke"or " poor"? So you wouldn't mind a trustable poor guy that isn't guilty of the things you listed? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 9:31pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Nobodys:Is it pride, or you have first hand experience of men being cruel to women who depend on them financially and you want to avoid that fate? |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Nobodys:Oh ok I get you now, you're not averse to a guy spending on you, you just don't like depending on him. That's good, just remember that guys feel the urge to "provide". That's why it can be frustrating when the guy doesn't have the means and the girl has expectations/demands. Its not so much that guys are stingy, its that the money isn't available. If it were the average guy would love to spoil his woman |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 10:47pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
BenShammer:Its not pride ...it's who I am.... INDEPENDENT... Wait now am confused..isn't that what you guys want...you all complaining about girls depending on guys for hair and recharge cards....for real..Men are confused..... |
Re: Dear Nigerian Women You Are Confused by Nobodys(f): 10:50pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
BenShammer:I would love my man to spoil me also and I will also spoil him more....... I really pray I meet a man that understands my point of view... |
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