if i toast you, proporse marrriage, pay the bride price and pay for the wedding then obvious u are just another thing i bought. like the TV.
if i pay the bills, clothe you and feed you then its obvious i've taken over your father's duties- and deep down u know thats true thats why during sex u call me Daddy.
but if u work and we share the bills half-way then we are equals. when i feel like making u an equal.remember im older and taller than you. and i also have natural beauty which u dont have since u rely on makeup and fake hair.and lets not forget i get more attractive as i age but u get uglier as u age. so im the Boss.
if i talked sh!t the door is open.i can replace u.
and u can also replace me. so no worries. win win.

I know this is a reaction to an earlier thread here!

Sighs . . .

Nigerians and Reactions are like . . .

ubunja:
if i toast you, proporse marrriage, pay the bride price and pay for the wedding then obvious u are just another thing i bought. like the TV.
if i pay the bills, clothe you and feed you then its obvious i've taken over your father's duties- and deep down u know thats true thats why during sex u call me Daddy.
but if u work and we share the bills half-way then we are equals. when i feel like making u an equal.remember im older and taller than you. and i also have natural beauty which u dont have since u rely on makeup and fake hair.and lets not forget i get more attractive as i age but u get uglier as u age. so im the Boss.
if i talked sh!t the door is open.i can replace u.
and u can also replace me. so no worries. win win.

lol. Ubunja

Jupxter:



Nope. That's not the issue. That's not how guys are wired. The i don't want a man's money ticks off a man somehow, it leaves an unsettling feeling !It should be give and take, why marry me for example if you won't accept my money, it hurts, i've heard those statements a few times, and it makes us feel un-needed or how do i put it....

If I won't accept your money??... naw dear... I can accept your money ..it will be seen as a gift .....

Nobodys:
If I won't accept your money??... naw dear... I can accept your money ..it will be seen as a gift .....

That's an insult to marital instituition. You see why we complain, individualism is the killer in relationships. The My, Her,His... The mindset is faulty

Jupxter:




That's an insult to marital instituition. You see why we complain, individualism is the killer in relationships. The My, Her,His... The mindset is faulty

insult to marital institution??.. I would say that's your own view of thought.... now tell me... What do you want?.. What's your perfect woman??.

Jupxter:



This is a revolt and we reject it !

There is nothing you can do about the revolt it has already started.

nezzar:

U say wah.....A person's past shouldn't be used to judge the person.....we ain't God sa

Yes that is exactly my point. The op is trying to judge ladies and I simply said he shouldn't do that. We are all humans and full of flaws, only God is flawless

Ladyhippolyta88:
There is nothing you can do about the revolt it has already started.

Lol

Nobodys:
insult to marital institution??.. I would say that's your own view of thought.... now tell me... What do you want?.. What's your perfect woman??.

A perfect woman doesn't exist, but saying you would not take a husband/man's money or would see it only as a gift is unfair, very very unfair

greiboy:
Yes that is exactly my point. The op is trying to judge ladies and I simply said he shouldn't do that. We are all humans and full of flaws, only God is flawless

That's for u oooo......The gal must av a good past before I can marry her

if women were revolting for real they would be turning lesbian.
u cant declare a revolt from something you want more of

nezzar:

That's for u oooo......The gal must av a good past before I can marry her

Then you are taking the position of God.

Even some of the most strongest men of God had a past. Remember Saul/Paul in the bible.

greiboy:
Then you are taking the position of God.

Even some of the most strongest men of God had a past. Remember Saul/Paul in the bible.

Unless she's a virgin

see attack, lift, right, centre. op, hide your head o

Jupxter:



The young generation of guys/men are like this. Be careful not to judge us before you endeavor to enter a relationship. I treated my last this way, with deep respect,love and care. We want peace, so we must sow peace to yield a bountiful harvest !

Okay sir.

see attack, lift, right, centre. Op hide your head o.

Jupxter:



A perfect woman doesn't exist, but saying you would not take a husband/man's money or would see it only as a gift is unfair, very very unfair

I didn't say I won't take it.... well you couldn't answer my question......it's assumed you guys don't know what you want.....am out...

Ladyhippolyta88:
There is nothing you can do about the revolt it has already started.

The actual movement for women libration started in 1800s. The origin of the movement can be traced to the British society. The British laws have some of the most impressive protection for the right of women in world.

Yet, just last night I couldn't help but notice you citing a report on the wage disparity at the British broadcasting cooperation (BBC) between male and female workers. Your main point being the male workers earning way more than female workers. This is Britain the origin of feminism


Do you still really think there is a revolt?

nezzar:
Unless she's a virgin

What if she is murderer, but still a virgin

Mtcheeeew

The first five comments are useless and unneccessaty. . .
If @Op is wrong, be constructive rather than useless emotional bursts!!
Typical of women when the truth is thrown @their face

The first five comments are useless and unneccessaty. . .
If @Op is wrong, be constructive rather than useless emotional bursts!!
Typical of women when the truth is thrown @their face

greiboy:


The actual movement for women libration started in 1800s. The origin of the movement can be traced to the British society. The British laws have one of the most impressive protection for the right of women in world.

Yet, just last night I couldn't help but notice you citing a report on the wage disparity at the British broadcasting cooperation (BBC) between male and female workers. Your main point being the male workers earning way more than female workers. This is Britain the origin of feminism


Do you still really think there is a revolt?

I know these already and it is still on.

greiboy:
Yes that is exactly my point. The op is trying to judge ladies and I simply said he shouldn't do that. We are all humans and full of flaws, only God is flawless

We shouldn't judge? Haba!
I just simply stated the facts.

nezzar:

That's for u oooo......The gal must av a good past before I can marry her

how do to know a girl with good past ..

na your type deh end up with the unthinkable

MEGA4BILLION:
see attack, lift, right, centre. op, hide your head o

Hehehehehe! I am actually enjoying it. . Truth hurts bro.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I know these already and it is still on.

Yes, I know you are aware of the report.

So how long do you think it will take before the results of the revolt will be fully felt?

The northern part of Nigeria has one the lowest numbers of female child enrollment in to school. Yet, it is increase in female sexuality that our social media feminist are advocating for

There are lots of women forced to have unwanted child because they were denied contraceptives, some even die as a result of still birth. Yet, it is more control over men that our social media feminist are fighting for.

Many ladies work under terrible conditions and still get shitty salaries, yet the priority of our social media feminist is how to get more money from their boyfriends and slay new wears


Sometimes I wonder why there is a great disconnect between the needs of the female gender and social media feminism in Nigeria, why don't we see threads advocating for the aforementioned issues on nairaland

Then I realize GREED and Selfishness is the problem...


Many ladies are just fighting personal battles under the umbrella of women libration movement

Nobodys:
I didn't say I won't take it.... well you couldn't answer my question......it's assumed you guys don't know what you want.....am out...

Also out, chat later

richythePH:
We feminists do not in any way agree to and with this


TRASH!!!

NEXT!!

One minute you are claiming girl, the next minute you are claiming guy, are you a hermaphrodite?

Donjazzy12:

Hehehehehe! I am actually enjoying it. . Truth hurts bro.

Baby, you saw how safari answered question yesterday?
I wish you were smart enough to give a good retort.

ReinaFarine:


Baby, you saw how safari answered question yesterday?
I wish you were smart enough to give a good retort.

You don't just get it do you? I only respond to intelligent posts, not that yours qualifies as one though.