Dumb girl!

Purebeerry:
Bros, dump that girl, never forgive a cheat cos a cheat will always be a cheat.

She will still cheat on you tomorrow, after all you will forgive her.

This is nice one coming from you as a lady.

Its a two at thing. Forgive and stay in the relationship or forgive and move one. If she can cheat on you when dating what's gonna stop her from cheating on you when married

goodoc:
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you ar very wrong ds time bcs
u lack the understanding why she sheat


.. look beyond the cheat and blame.. u as a girl has no right to pass judgement on ur felow woman...

She cheated because of money, that's the worst reason to cheat, and am not judging her, am giving him an advice

Sammy555:
Alaye she go still do am again........ I get one broke friend wey him girlfriend dey always come beg am every time she cheat she go dey talk say na because she need money naso she dey talk o over 1 year. now she dey do the same thing and no be say my guy no dey try him best for am......girls are poo

That Ur Frnd Babe No Won Just Repent... Some People Are Sincere. If U Say Gals Are Poo Then Guys Are Poopoo..

Northernonyenku:
Both of u should forgive each other cos am 99.9% sure u'v cheated too..everybody dey steal but person wey dem catch na him be thief.

you are wise bro

I wud hv said u shud forgive her bt d reason for d cheating wudnt let me,because of money....with a man for dat matter nt a yound guy...op use ur brain.period

Oops what a cheap girl...i hate Hoes that thinks they can use pussy to get anything they want. Thank God she is nt your wife. Find a girl that will stand by you no matter what and will never be sway by material things even big prick. Ditch her for playing with your Love, trust and situation. Wtf.

Tomorrow, she go come again say she fawk another man for money because you're broke and ask for forgiveness.
My brother, she be natural OLOSHO***

Uhmm Brb. both of you dey crazy!!!

Ctrlsolutn:


Most of us prolly forge ahead wit cheating partners n only few wl confess or admit it wen caught, so GROW UP PLZ.

Heartbreak n cheating partners are two painful and almost inevitable incidents we are bound to encounter wen preparing to settle down.

I would say you should forgive if YOU ARE CONVINCED THAT SHE LOVES YOU. Then ask her to say it by herself what you should do if it ever repeat itself in the nearest future.

You must discourage your wife from cheating at all cost. This is a very wrong mentality. It would encourage the girl to cheat. Moreover, they are not even married.

Purebeerry:
Bros, dump that girl, never forgive a cheat cos a cheat will always be a cheat.

She will still cheat on you tomorrow, after all you will forgive her.

Will u take this decision if you are the one in his shoes. Some ppl will just come and start saying, "if it's me, if it's me...i will do dis, i will do dat". When they find demslfs is dat condition, they will be confused on what to do or may not even have the heart to take the strict decision.

I beliv OP must have once advised someone in this his condition to send a cheat packing. So wen u are giving advice be careful pls.

CorGier:
Its what they do brah, they fūck around - every single one of them. Do as you please with her. But hey, go get yourself tested for STIs, Lord knows what else she's been keeping from you.

Girls have no sense of loyalty, smh.

Dude, who broke ur heart and got u all twisted up?

she will still do it again.get yourself a plan b

Psoul:


Will u take this decision if you are the one in his shoes. Some ppl will just come and start saying, "if it's me, if it's me...i will do dis, i will do dat". When they find demslfs is dat condition, they will be confused on what to do or may not even have the heart to take the strict decision.

I beliv OP must have once advised someone in this his condition to send a cheat packing. So wen u are giving advice be careful pls.

My ex cheated on me, I left him, I don't say what I can't do.

If she breathes, she's a potential hoe

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

If I were a betting man, which I am, I would bet that if the case was reversed(you would even do the girl for free) you would expect her to forgive you. In view of this, forgive and move on with your life.

femijay8271:
Just forgive her and then warn her seriously that if such should repeat itself, that's bye-bye.

my ex gf kafilat by name told me she commit abortions 3 times 4 her bf,wch i stupid accept d idiot because of money d idiot later went ahead and had sex with d guy twice i stil didnt complain,nw she is fucking any yahoo boy that is mapoly ladies 4 u,she wont have a happy home except if i didnt ave a gud intention 4 her

victorakpabome:


Guy pursue that bitch. Get another one. They are many

Pursue her, get anoda one. If that one still do it, he pursue her and get anoda one. I beliv dat is what u mean. What will happen if the guys sleeps wt another man?

For the girl to have accepted her fault means that there is still a little good part of her. She can still be amended. So be careful wt ur advise.

Ur advise may be reserved for all these small small boys that don't kw what love and relationship are all about

archdon:


Dude, who broke ur heart and got u all twisted up?

why would you say that brah?
there is nothing I said on there that isn't true.

You will never forget what she did, even after marrying her. What she did may also disrupt and destroy the future marriage. Leave that girl before it's too late. May God help you.

I will advice you to forgive her since she confessed. She realised her mistake made her confess. Assuming you discovered it ursef, its a different case.
Again, her attitude will determine if you will forgive her. Does she have a behaviour of cheat before? If no please forgive her

gabolak:


What will you say if this happened in a marriage? let's say you mistakingly stumbled on dirty stuffs on your wife's phone & along the lines, you are able to force her into confession. After that she swore to an oath right in the presence of her relatives that such won't happen again. will you still advise that the man go for a divorce?

(Laughs and shakes head).

Like I said, the circumstance does not make the man but reveals the man to his true self. Dirty stuff on your wife's phone? Confession in presence of relatives?

Understand this, what could have birthed the dirty stuff on your wife's phone (note that you didn't explain what the "dirty stuff" was. Was it porn, nude pictures, pictures of sexual activity etc)? While I do not have the answer to that, I can tell you for free that once the mind hold on to an idea, is tuned towards the reception of stimulus from a predetermined source, believes in an ideology, then, it is just a matter of time before reliving it, before seeking release. And you know what? The universe operates in a weird way as it will do all in its power to make sure the mind is presented with an.opportunity to realise its cravings, act out its yearnings whether good or bad. The cosmos is amoral.

Now, your example is so incomplete for proper analysis but judging from what you said, if you've the fortitude and presence of mind to forgive her then do, but know that until a craving is sated even a confession before popes won't hold back a mind bent on satisfying that which it hungers for.

Should you divorce her? Your call as your info is not explicit enough.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Naso my gal wake up one money dey ask me say she see me for her dream say I dey blow anoda gal for work station, na so I deny am sharply as a sharp guy wey I be. Bro u ma try cheat on her too, make u apologies sheikena. We all lead a life of deceit...

Back then i would advice u to use her & pretend u still love her... But guy do urself a favour, let go man... She's not worth it.

ma broda she will do it again, real girls are hard working self-independence, she can be tempted even when u guys get married cos she is a motherfucking Hoe

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

and the most annoying part is that she did it cos of money Smh some girls sha

hmmmm. brah be wise, she is keeping a secret from u... brah forgive her n breake up with her

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

GET A BACKUP...
She will repeat it again...

CorGier:
Its what they do brah, they fūck around - every single one of them. Do as you please with her. But hey, go get yourself tested for STIs, Lord knows what else she's been keeping from you.

Girls have no sense of loyalty, smh.

You're spot on.

A cheat is not always a cheat.. People take it easy on girl boy issue.. You can sin on GOD seeing how much you love him so it might happen you cheating on a bf it depends alot pls easy oo.