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Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 7:39pm On Sep 10, 2020
peacefull:


This virus is affecting many people's work now.
Many peoples lost work.

I don't know if get work is easy or not.
But from my experience about my husband, I think language is important.
If you can speak, write and read Japanese, I think you can get work easy than someone who can't speak, write and read Japanese.

But some company don't need it.
Like Rakuten.
This company even have work for foreigners in abroad.
Very big and famous company.

I'm not migrating this year because of the Corona virus.
i can't speak Japanese though and I don't think it easy to learn Japanese
I was actually thinking if I could get a factory work in Japan. Getting a factory work will be easy.
But do you know the basic salary of a factory worker?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 3:13am On Sep 11, 2020
temitope23:
'Mi' means me or my in the Yoruba language.
Most of the languages we speak, we learn them either through interaction, family and school. Say for example you are born in a place like Lagos and your parents are Igbo there is a likelihood you will speak Igbo by learning from your parent, Yoruba from interaction with neighbours or classmates in school and then English language because you were taught in school. Pidgin is not formally learnt in school, but in some school, it could be the language most students use in communicating outside the class.

I understand why you mistake pidgin for pigeon, you know they have the same pronunciation but different spellings. Words that have the same pronunciation but different ways of spelling them are called homonym in the English language.

I am not angry, I will do the same if the situation is reversed. You are welcome.



Thank you so much for taking your time again!
I really really appreciate you!!
And I'm really sorry for disturbing you too much.

Mi is Yoruba language?
Oga mi is Igbo language and Yoruba language!
Wow!! I love this word!!
I can speak 2 language at same time!
I will say it for my husband.
I hope he don't know mi.
So I can teach him and I can make him surprise cheesy

Now I understand how Nigerian peoples learn many language.
Thank you so much!!
Really amazing!

Homonym?
I learned new English too!
Japanese also have it something like that.
Language is really interesting!

I learned many many English on this website.
When I learned word nagging, I told my husband and I said he is a nagging husband.
He was laughing and he told me there is no nagging husband.
I'm confusing.
I asked him about word nagging is only use for women?
He said no, I can use that word for both men and women.
But there is no nagging husband and he told me that nagging wife, not nagging husband.

I still can't get it well.
Very difficult and confusing.
What is meaning that?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:02am On Sep 11, 2020
Petyr1:
I'm not migrating this year because of the Corona virus.
i can't speak Japanese though and I don't think it easy to learn Japanese
I was actually thinking if I could get a factory work in Japan. Getting a factory work will be easy.
But do you know the basic salary of a factory worker?

Yes, Japanese is really difficult.
I was born in here, grew up in here and still living in here, yet sometimes still really difficult.

Some factory work also ask you about Japanese.

I think salary is depend on contract type, work hour, place etc.
But most important is your visa.
If you wanna work in Japan, you need working visa.
International students also can work.
But only part time work and have requirement.
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:16am On Sep 11, 2020
Petyr1:
I'm not migrating this year because of the Corona virus.
i can't speak Japanese though and I don't think it easy to learn Japanese
I was actually thinking if I could get a factory work in Japan. Getting a factory work will be easy.
But do you know the basic salary of a factory worker?

I wanna share this with you smiley

Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 9:28am On Sep 11, 2020
peacefull:


Yes, Japanese is really difficult.
I was born in here, grew up in here and still living in here, yet sometimes still really difficult.

Some factory work also ask you about Japanese.

I think salary is depend on contract type, work hour, place etc.
But most important is your visa.
If you wanna work in Japan, you need working visa.
International students also can work.
But only part time work and have requirement.

oops migrating to Japan is not a easy , including Korea or China. The requirements and discrimination is not funny at all.
You guys supposed to take English as part of your general languages to make things easier for foreigners
But i wonder why international student travel there to study since your major language is Japanese and I'm sure teaching will be in Japanese too
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 9:29am On Sep 11, 2020
peacefull:


I wanna share this with you smiley
thanks for this
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by LadySarah: 11:06am On Sep 11, 2020
peacefull:


Yes, Japanese is really difficult.
I was born in here, grew up in here and still living in here, yet sometimes still really difficult.

Some factory work also ask you about Japanese.

I think salary is depend on contract type, work hour, place etc.
But most important is your visa.
If you wanna work in Japan, you need working visa.
International students also can work.
But only part time work and have requirement.


Oga MI is Yoruba not Igbo.

Igbos say"Nna m Ukwu" for man and" Nne m Ukwu" for woman.

Which one is your husbands?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:22am On Sep 11, 2020
Petyr1:
oops migrating to Japan is not a easy , including Korea or China. The requirements and discrimination is not funny at all.
You guys supposed to take English as part of your general languages to make things easier for foreigners
But i wonder why international student travel there to study since your major language is Japanese and I'm sure teaching will be in Japanese too

We learn English in school.
At least Japan getting change it than before.
My generation started learn English in junior high school.
But my kid generation started learn English in elementary school.
If go to station and use train, there have English announcement etc.

But our language is Japanese.
If don't need to use English at work etc, we don't need to speak, read and write English.
If Japanese ask you to speak, read and write Japanese in Japan, foreigners think about that is discrimination?

I found out some university can learn in English.
I post picture on travel section before!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:23am On Sep 11, 2020
Petyr1:
thanks for this

You are welcome!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:34am On Sep 11, 2020
LadySarah:


Oga MI is Yoruba not Igbo.

Igbos say"Nna m Ukwu" for man and" Nne m Ukwu" for woman.

Which one is your husbands?

Oh! Oga mi is Yoruba language?
I thought Oga is Igbo language and mi is Yoruba language!
I misunderstood embarassed

Thank you so much for teaching me!
I appreciate you!!

My husband is Igbo man.
Nna m Ukwu is my boss for man in Igbo language?
And Nne m Ukwu is my boss for woman?

How do I pronounce m and Ukwu?
Mu? and Uku?
I heard many times Nna when my husband talking with somebody on the phone.
So I think I know how to pronounce Nna.
Nne is first time!
Nna is man and Nne is woman?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by LadySarah: 11:54am On Sep 11, 2020
peacefull:


Oh! Oga mi is Yoruba language?
I thought Oga is Igbo language and mi is Yoruba language!
I misunderstood embarassed

Thank you so much for teaching me!
I appreciate you!!

My husband is Igbo man.
Nna m Ukwu is my boss for man in Igbo language?
And Nne m Ukwu is my boss for woman?

How do I pronounce m and Ukwu?
Mu? and Uku?
I heard many times Nna when my husband talking with somebody on the phone.
So I think I know how to pronounce Nna.
Nne is first time!
Nna is man and Nne is woman?


Yes Mu and Ukwu. Kw like Que in queen

Nne means mother but Nnem Ukwu can be used for a female elder or your Female Boss or your husband can use it as a love name. .
Nna is father. Nnam is my father. Nnam Ukwu is a male elder, Your male Boss or as respect to your husband.

M is" my" in Igbo.
Di m=My husband.
Enyi m=my friend
Nne m=My mother
Nna m=My father
Nwa m=My child or my baby...
Imeela=thank you

And our greeting is "ndewo". at anytime. We pronounce the way they are spelt.
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 8:20pm On Sep 11, 2020
peacefull:


We learn English in school.
At least Japan getting change it than before.
My generation started learn English in junior high school.
But my kid generation started learn English in elementary school.
If go to station and use train, there have English announcement etc.

But our language is Japanese.
If don't need to use English at work etc, we don't need to speak, read and write English.
If Japanese ask you to speak, read and write Japanese in Japan, foreigners think about that is discrimination?

I found out some university can learn in English.
I post picture on travel section before!

that statement that I bold is very funny grin
Why should a Japanese ask me to speak Japanese in the first place ? When I don't look like Asians

Anyway thanks for your time. I really love your country and probably i will travel there for holiday someday even if I'm not migrating. I must experience Japan cool
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 3:47am On Sep 12, 2020
LadySarah:


Yes Mu and Ukwu. Kw like Que in queen

Nne means mother but Nnem Ukwu can be used for a female elder or your Female Boss or your husband can use it as a love name. .
Nna is father. Nnam is my father. Nnam Ukwu is a male elder, Your male Boss or as respect to your husband.

M is" my" in Igbo.
Di m=My husband.
Enyi m=my friend
Nne m=My mother
Nna m=My father
Nwa m=My child or my baby...
Imeela=thank you

And our greeting is "ndewo". at anytime. We pronounce the way they are spelt.


Thank you so much!!
I learned a lot from you.
Very very helpful.

Nnem Ukwu LadySarah!
I really really appreciate you!!
Imeela!

I will call to my husband today and I will try to say Nnam Ukwu to him.
And I will tell you if I could say it well or not!

Ndewo is no matter what time?
Anytime is day time and night time?
Anytime meet someone, I can say Ndewo?
Not How far?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by LadySarah: 4:21am On Sep 12, 2020
peacefull:

Thank you so much!! I learned a lot from you. Very very helpful.
Nnem Ukwu LadySarah! I really really appreciate you!! Imeela!
I will call to my husband today and I will try to say Nnam Ukwu to him. And I will tell you if I could say it well or not!
Ndewo is no matter what time? Anytime is day time and night time? Anytime meet someone, I can say Ndewo? Not How far?
You are very smart! I look forward to hearing from you. Yes ndewo is a general greeting for everytime How far is the pidgin
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:27am On Sep 12, 2020
Petyr1:
that statement that I bold is very funny grin
Why should a Japanese ask me to speak Japanese in the first place ? When I don't look like Asians

Anyway thanks for your time. I really love your country and probably i will travel there for holiday someday even if I'm not migrating. I must experience Japan cool

Oh! I maybe misunderstood?

I thought you think if Japanese company ask foreigners to speak, read and write Japanese, they feel like discrimination.
That's not good and very sad.
I just wanted to know.
But I maybe misunderstand.
I'm sorry.

You are welcome!
But no, I must say thank you to you.
Thank you so much!
I really appreciate you!!

I really hope you can have fun when you visit Japan!
And I love to know How is your travel in Japan smiley
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:50am On Sep 12, 2020
LadySarah:


You are very smart!
I look forward to hearing from you.
Yes ndewo is a general greeting for everytime
How far is the pidgin

Thank you sooooo much!!
I really really appreciate you!!
I really hope I'm smart person embarassed

I will tell you!!
I maybe can't pronounce well.
But I hope he can understand my Igbo language.

Now sometimes I call him Oga when we talk on the phone.
But his reaction is boring now to me sad
Like nothing happened.
No laugh, No surprised, Nothing.
So I wanna make him surprise and laugh smiley

When I learned Ew? Ewu? Ewo? Goat? from him, I said Ew? Ewo? husband.
He was laughing! And I also laughing with him.
I wanna hear his laugh or surprise!

Oh! How far is pidgin?!
Wow!!
I'm happy! At least I can speak one pidgin English cheesy
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 7:52am On Sep 12, 2020
peacefull:


Oh! I maybe misunderstood?

I thought you think if Japanese company ask foreigners to speak, read and write Japanese, they feel like discrimination.
That's not good and very sad.
I just wanted to know.
But I maybe misunderstand.
I'm sorry.

You are welcome!
But no, I must say thank you to you.
Thank you so much!
I really appreciate you!!

I really hope you can have fun when you visit Japan!
And I love to know How is your travel in Japan smiley
tell me some places to visit in Japan wink
Probably you can show me places when I travel down there
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by temitope23(m): 2:26pm On Sep 12, 2020
peacefull:


Thank you so much for taking your time again!
I really really appreciate you!!
And I'm really sorry for disturbing you too much.

Mi is Yoruba language?
Oga mi is Igbo language and Yoruba language!
Wow!! I love this word!!
I can speak 2 language at same time!
I will say it for my husband.
I hope he don't know mi.
So I can teach him and I can make him surprise cheesy

Now I understand how Nigerian peoples learn many language.
Thank you so much!!
Really amazing!

Homonym?
I learned new English too!
Japanese also have it something like that.
Language is really interesting!

I learned many many English on this website.
When I learned word nagging, I told my husband and I said he is a nagging husband.
He was laughing and he told me there is no nagging husband.
I'm confusing.
I asked him about word nagging is only use for women?
He said no, I can use that word for both men and women.
But there is no nagging husband and he told me that nagging wife, not nagging husband.

I still can't get it well.
Very difficult and confusing.
What is meaning that?

I replied to this yesterday and I was banned from commenting here for 24 hours.
This was because I was trying to direct you to a website in Japan where people learn English language and get to communicate with a teacher via video/webcam. I attach a screenshot from there so you can check the site out later. I have friends that teach English language on the website, you should check it out to see if it will work for you.

To your question husband nags too and since it is for both gender, then 'nagging husband' exist although some prefer to call it requesting or controlling husband.

Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 1:45am On Sep 13, 2020
Petyr1:
tell me some places to visit in Japan wink
Probably you can show me places when I travel down there

What kind of place do yo wanna go or see?
I like to go to Okinawa and Kobe!
Do you like watch football?
I really like to see Iniesta before he leave Japan.
That's why I wanna visit Kobe and I wanna watch Iniesta's game!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 1:57am On Sep 13, 2020
temitope23:


I replied to this yesterday and I was banned from commenting here for 24 hours.
This was because I was trying to direct you to a website in Japan where people learn English language and get to communicate with a teacher via video/webcam. I attach a screenshot from there so you can check the site out later. I have friends that teach English language on the website, you should check it out to see if it will work for you.

To your question husband nags too and since it is for both gender, then 'nagging husband' exist although some prefer to call it requesting or controlling husband.


Thank you so much!
I really really appreciate you!!

Nagging can use husband too?
My husband made me confusing embarassed

I still can't understand well about banned.
You are just helping me.
And I really appreciate you.
Very very helpful.
Why you banned?
Banned is something break rule?

Anyway, I will check it!
Thank you so much!!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:07am On Sep 13, 2020
LadySarah:


You are very smart!
I look forward to hearing from you.
Yes ndewo is a general greeting for everytime
How far is the pidgin

Nnem Ukwu LadySarah!
Ndewo!

I couldn't make him surprise embarassed
I asked him why he is not surprised, he said because Nnam Ukwu is everyday language embarassed
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by temitope23(m): 2:19am On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


Thank you so much!
I really really appreciate you!!

Nagging can use husband too?
My husband made me confusing embarassed

I still can't understand well about banned.
You are just helping me.
And I really appreciate you.
Very very helpful.
Why you banned?
Banned is something break rule?

Anyway, I will check it!
Thank you so much!!


I guess the link to the website that I included in the message was what made them ban me. It has nothing to do with you. I totally forgot I should not have written the link to the site the way I did.

Yes, husband nags too.
Yes ban is punishment for be raking rules, and nairaland has some rules that one must adhere to. Alright let me know what you think about native camp when you check it.
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 8:00am On Sep 13, 2020
temitope23:


I guess the link to the website that I included in the message was what made them ban me. It has nothing to do with you. I totally forgot I should not have written the link to the site the way I did.

Yes, husband nags too.
Yes ban is punishment for be raking rules, and nairaland has some rules that one must adhere to. Alright let me know what you think about native camp when you check it.

Oh! I understand now.
I'm also once banned before on culture section.
I didn't even know what is meaning banned.
So I checked it and I was very surprised!
I still don't know why I banned.
Maybe what I wrote in Japanese is bad meaning in Nigeria.
I'm not sure.

But if Japanese and Nigerian language have same word, but different meaning is very interesting!
I know one Igbo word and Japanese word is same but different meaning.
My husband taught me!

I checked about that English application.
Very good!!
Thank you so much!
But I have to ask my husband first.
If I join that application, I have to pay about 7,000yen every month.
If I wanna buy something, I wanna do something etc, I always ask my husband first.
Of course I will use my money.
But I must ask him first.

Before I wanted go to English school.
But when I asked him, he was not happy about that and told me wasting money.
Because I'm married with foreigner man, I can learn English free.
So he said nonsense.

He will not force me to stop it.
But if I will hear or see him like that, I can't ignore it.
I only can ignore him is when I wanna cut my hair cheesy

But I will ask him and tell him how much I wanna learn more English well.
Thank you so much!!
I really really appreciate you!!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 10:00am On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


What kind of place do yo wanna go or see?
I like to go to Okinawa and Kobe!
Do you like watch football?
I really like to see Iniesta before he leave Japan.
That's why I wanna visit Kobe and I wanna watch Iniesta's game!
although I don't like football but I believe Kobe is more beautiful than Okinawa based on pictures on internet
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by LadySarah: 10:35am On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


Nnem Ukwu LadySarah!
Ndewo!

I couldn't make him surprise embarassed
I asked him why he is not surprised, he said because Nnam Ukwu is everyday language embarassed

Don't mind him. Choose to make yourself happy.
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 10:54am On Sep 13, 2020
Petyr1:
although I don't like football but I believe Kobe is more beautiful than Okinawa based on pictures on internet

Oh! Really?!

What about Hokkaido or Izu Island?
Izu Island is Tokyo.
I had visit 2 Izu Island.
Both 2 Island is Very beautiful beach!

Or Kyoto and Nara.
Very famous!
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 10:56am On Sep 13, 2020
LadySarah:


Don't mind him. Choose to make yourself happy.


Thank you so much!
Imeela!!
I really appreciate you!!

I will not give up.
I told him I will continue to learn and I will make him surprise smiley
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 11:06am On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


Oh! Really?!

What about Hokkaido or Izu Island?
Izu Island is Tokyo.
I had visit 2 Izu Island.
Both 2 Island is Very beautiful beach!

Or Kyoto and Nara.
Very famous!
just checked both on Google now. Hokkaido is very cute wink I love Hokkaido vegetation.
But i noticed most of this Islands are volcanic
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by temitope23(m): 11:45am On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


Oh! I understand now.
I'm also once banned before on culture section.
I didn't even know what is meaning banned.
So I checked it and I was very surprised!
I still don't know why I banned.
Maybe what I wrote in Japanese is bad meaning in Nigeria.
I'm not sure.

But if Japanese and Nigerian language has the same word, but the different meaning is very interesting!
I know one Igbo word and Japanese word is the same but different meaning.
My husband taught me!

I checked about that English application.
Very good!!
Thank you so much!
But I have to ask my husband first.
If I join that application, I have to pay about 7,000yen every month.
If I wanna buy something, I wanna do something etc, I always ask my husband first.
Of course, I will use my money.
But I must ask him first.

Before I wanted to go to English school.
But when I asked him, he was not happy about that and told me about wasting money.
Because I'm married to a foreigner man, I can learn English free.
So he said nonsense.

He will not force me to stop it.
But if I will hear or see him like that, I can't ignore it.
I only can ignore him is when I wanna cut my hair cheesy

But I will ask him and tell him how much I wanna learn more English well.
Thank you so much!!
I really really appreciate you!!

I did not know it is that expensive to learn English on the site, I was supposed to work there sometime last year but I innocuously delayed my registration when I checked back later this year, they said Nigerians are no longer allowed to teach on the site since most Nigeria have issues with their internet connections.

Are you saying there are schools in Japan where you can learn English for free, but you cannot be allowed to learn for free because you are married to a foreigner?
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:23pm On Sep 13, 2020
Petyr1:
just checked both on Google now. Hokkaido is very cute wink I love Hokkaido vegetation.
But i noticed most of this Islands are volcanic

I'm happy now!
If you go to Hokkaido in winter, you can see beautiful snow!
Sapporo snow festival is famous.
If I had chance, I really wanna go and see that festival.
I have visited to Sapporo when I was a kid.
But I have never seen that festival.

Oh! Japan is disaster country.
Volcanic eruption, Earthquak, Typhoon etc.
Izu Island is maybe 8 or 9 Island.
Sorry, I forgot how many Island.
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Petyr1: 2:28pm On Sep 13, 2020
peacefull:


I'm happy now!
If you go to Hokkaido in winter, you can see beautiful snow!
Sapporo snow festival is famous.
If I had chance, I really wanna go and see that festival.
I have visited to Sapporo when I was a kid.
But I have never seen that festival.

Oh! Japan is disaster country.
Volcanic eruption, Earthquak, Typhoon etc.

Izu Island is maybe 8 or 9 Island.
Sorry, I forgot how many Island.
yeah that is true but even though it a disaster country the government over there knows how to recover and put the country back to normal condition. You guys are the best

About going to the snow festival, can't you create a time for it?

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