This is the 21st century. No one should die in silence. That doesn't mean your approach should be loud and uncouth. Personally I wouldn't think less of any female who lets me know what's on her mind.

As long as it's kept classy Kenny

SA Goddess:

As long as it's kept classy Kenny

You and Rhein still cool? Your chit chat seems to have stopped and I have to say I enjoyed it immensely.

1759:

You and Rhein still cool? Your chit chat seems to have stopped and I have to say I enjoyed it immensely.

Glad you enjoyed it! Real life happened. . . .

SA Goddess:



Glad you enjoyed it! Real life happened. . . .

Spill it, I'm all ears.

1759:

Spill it, I'm all ears.

Life happens just about summarises it all I think. . . . . . .surely If you recall, we went private and have not chatted on this thread for ages so I won't bring it back to the forum! Rhein wouldn't so why should I!

hmmmm

Hey Sir Adu, how are you doing?

very well
you?

@SA Goddess:

YOUR RIGHT, I LOVE YOUR VIEW POINT, YOUR A DEMOCRATE, NOT ALL THIS PRETENDING LADIES IN THE HOUSE.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH A GIRL TELLING A GUY I LIKE YOU,OR LOVE YOU?

I am good Sir Adu!

Echidime:

@SA Goddess:

YOUR RIGHT, I LOVE YOUR VIEW POINT, YOUR A DEMOCRATE, NOT ALL THIS PRETENDING LADIES IN THE HOUSE.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH A GIRL TELLING A GUY I LIKE YOU,OR LOVE YOU?

As for me, i worship and adore a lady that can walk up to me and say hi man, i think i like you. I will sacrifice everything to make her happy

SA Goddess:

Life happens just about summarises it all I think. . . . . . .surely If you recall, we went private and have not chatted on this thread for ages so I won't bring it back to the forum! Rhein wouldn't so why should I!

Ok, just want to know if "real life" is still happening.

adusol:

hmmmm

hmmmmm indeed am still chasing you oga, r u ready to be caught

hmm, doesnt sound bad when you think of it one way but if i know most men, they will at least sleep with you a few times even when they are not interested before they open up to tell you that they are sorry but not interested. its a dangerous proposition for a woman if you ask me.

2 me she's a unique lady, aint nothin wrong, but like some one said its got to be in a classy way.

As far as I am concerned such ladies lack dignity,values and self respect.You don't cheapen yourself because you want love or you are on heat.

For God's sake ladies should be classic.If you have moral values and social abilities you will have more than enough of guys flying all around you begging to have a piece of you.

BE DIGNIFIED AND CLASSY

There is nothing wrong with a lady telling a guy she want them to hit it off!this is not ancient time for fun sake!!does it make sense for a lady to sit by and wait for a man who her heart is wildly racing for to make the"9ja move"and eventually lose him to the next woman?gurl,that may be your only chance to possess your possession!!!
Life is about your happiness,not what people would say.you own yourself the duty to be happy,don't hurt people but live your life to the fullest.
Ask yourselve's:should we hang on to the tradition that didn't benefit our forebearer's?

Hi house,
On my own perspective, i don"t feel there is anythin bad, but the bone of contention is the handling of the relationship by both parties and most especiall y the guy

but what pisses me up is when the madam wants to be in control of the relationship, (out of experience)

funny how we can just come up here and make comments on topics without actually fully understanding the reality of our suggestions, i made a comment on the first page of this topic "the second or third comment i think" about how ok it wld Be to be approached by a lady, little did i know it was going 2 come around 2 bite me on d a88. i was approached by this pretty lass a week back and she asked me out telling me how she's been gathering up d courage to come 4ward, she seems 9ce and decent & she's a miss independent "my kind of lady". only prob is i dont think i'm ready 4 a serious relationship and i dont know how to explain this 2 her. i dont want to break her heart & at d same time, i'm thinking "what if when i'm eventually ready? wld i find some1 as perfect as her?" kind of in a dilema here. some of my friends have adviced me to just string her on and see how serious things might get, that eventually her love 4 me might put me in a position 2 want a serious relationship with her. 

LOL, I got nothing to do with Lasgidi

It's absolutely normal

Hey SA!

I'm also from SA, I think there are lots of ways to get a guy to do what you want without ever having to open you mouth or your , other pne. I definitely would not ask, and I'd make sure that the guy likes me before i make like I wanna be friends. when we're "friends" and he still doesn't ask, move on, you were trying to make it easy for me because there are men who faint at the prospect of asking a woman out believe it or not.