Amarabae:

You are not making any sense.
Read the thread again slowly and gently

Chikita66:
A guy can do all that and still not have genuine intention for the lady.
That's how some guys are and the length they go just to get the sex and when they are tired, the look for a reason to break up and marry the lady the want to marry. Ladies have to be very smart these days.

Chikita66:
The lord have already answered my prayers, I don't need to go to Shiloh cos I can see where you are driving to.

DrinkLimca:
100% correct..

she should be talking on how to keep a relationship successful as a productive lady..

She has a misplaced priority..

marriage is an important aspect in Every Lady's life..

lefulefu:
true sha but then among those number of men running after the girl there must be at least two or three men that have genuine intention towards her.u can easily know a guy who just wants sex with u..he's urgently wants u to spend a night in his pad or hotel just after the first meeting..then dat one na sex he just want. But a guy who wants to get to know u...he calls u regularly...he always asks about ur family,he always wants to know how u faring etc..dat sort of man get genuine interest na. But then some ladies go use such guys dey play scam and dey chop money from their head.

lefulefu:
its like u don sabi men psychology but then there are lots of genuine men who open up for genuine relationship.a man cant go the extra mile for a woman just because of ordinary sex.sex is cheap my sister. A guy would sponsor a lady that he loves in school and after she graduate she will dump d man and run after another one. The one she runs after might not be d serious type and in some cases might even dump her after having his fill. The lady now returns to square one.so u see how babes dey overlay their hands.

DrinkLimca:
well I'm just giving you the right advice..

hope you know I'm a good guy?

Chikita66:
Same reason why I said ladies need to be smart. And yes I know guys psychology very well and I know how to follow guys cos I have studied them.

DrinkLimca:
lol i know your type..
The type that praised their husbands publicly and secretly invest in one young sugar guy..

well it's alright.. wink..

Chikita66:
Advising me to go to Shiloh 2018 cos am not yet married is an advice? I take it as an insult.

DrinkLimca:
hmmm woya I'm sorry.. can you forgive me?

donstan18:


Smh

Amarabae:
Next time read a thread before commenting, You are just trying out a damage control, The post is about choosing and waiting for the right partner. Mr limca

highqueen:

my dear,a guy that wants to bed you the first time he saw you might actually have good intentions unlike the one that will wait till he gets you mad over him,then beds you and dump you.there's no specific route in knowing someone that wants to take you to the alter immediately.

Safiaa:
I agree. I read somewhere on the front page that a woman is allowing a young boy of 24 to live in her house, spending money on him all in the bid of getting married and she’s 29. She’s become this young mans sugar mummy, it’s honestly quite sad. It doesn’t help that when you’re of age and not married ‘they’ began to think something is seriously wrong with you. We also have a biological clock, so there’s so many things working against us.

All I can say is live your life, be the best version of yourself and put yourself in places to meet people and you Will definitely find someone with quality. They’re 7 billion people in the world, deep it. There has to be at least 1 person out there for you. Be patient ladies, he will come.

Chikita66:
Same reason why I said ladies need to be smart. And yes I know guys psychology very well and I know how to follow guys cos I have studied them.

Chikita66:
What's so funny ?

Chikita66:
Lemme see .

donstan18:


I didn't laugh, but had to smile at your impossible claims.

Don't be deceived, you CANNOT study men, not even your dad

Chikita66:
Like a course, I have studied them and I know how to manipulate them.

DrinkLimca:
hmm what will it take?

Dpussyhunter:



oh!......................cool.


so how many have you manipulated so far?

Chikita66:
My own is that I always get what I want, one way or the other, you can say am manipulative, to be manipulative, you have to study people.

planetx13:


It doesn't matter how many people she manipulates, what matters is the class of people she manipulates??.... you know that s.hit attracts flies

donstan18:


You are not manipulative my dear, drop the formings

The only tool a woman can use to manipulate a weak guy is her pussy, and I can authoritatively tell you that most guyz can deal with such manipulative attempts from ladies.

A guy may laugh and pretend to be a fool and make you feel that you are manipulating him, but you'll be surprised with who will end up being hurt


Fear MEN, especially the weak looking ones.

CAPSLOCKED:




I THOUGHT THEY SAID "AGE IS JUST A NUMBER", AND LOVE DOESN'T CARE?

TWO PEOPLE ARE HAPPY WITH EACH OTHER DESPITE THE AGE GAP AND YOU'RE BITTER ABOUT IT.


HE HAS A JOB AND HIS OWN MONEY. SHE'S RICHER AND OWNS AN APARTMENT. HOW IS IT YOUR BUSINESS IF THEY PREFER TO LIVE TOGETHER INSTEAD OF SEPARATELY? DOES IT MAKE SENSE THAT HE GETS A PLACE SO SHE CAN ABANDON HERS AND MOVE IN WITH HIM?

HOW IS IT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO LIVE IN WOMEN'S HOUSE, BUT PERFECT FOR WOMEN TO LIVE IN MEN'S HOUSE?


GET YOUR HEADS STRAIGHT, FEMINISTS.

Chikita66:
Like a course, I have studied them and I know how to manipulate them.

planetx13:
I asked this in a previous thread and I will still ask again... is men the only thing women have to talk about now. It's getting rather scary .... all they talk about is centred around men, be it love, relationships and what have you. Will their vocal cords rust if they talk about business ideas , politics and other progressive things??.... men are this , men are that ..... but still you won't let them be.

Secondly I think it will be better to try and work on yourself to be a better person not just expecting someone to accept s.hit just because you want someone to accept you for who you are .( would you advice your fellow lady to remain with a woman beater because she has to accept him for who he is ?? .. I think not). ..

Marriage is about compromise and sacrifice. To be happily married you just have to let something go and understand that things must not always go your way. As I always say, if you want anything good in life , you have to work for it .... if you want a good husband, you must prove that you are worth it, if not your waiting might be longer than 3rd mainland bridge.

Ciao

prechbills1:


my brother ask her for me
she said she would move into her husband's house, but she can't respect a man that moves into her house

isn't that backwards mentality?

TALK ABOUT THE DEVIL.

I THINK SHE'S FRUSTRATED THAT A WOMAN LIKE HER IS UP AND DOING VERY WELL, WITH PROPERTIES AND MONEY.. AND WELL ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF AND HER MAN.

SHE'S BITTER ABOUT THAT BECAUSE HER GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT IS OWNING A NAIRALAND ACCOUNT.

Safiaa:
I agree. I read somewhere on the front page that a woman is allowing a young boy of 24 to live in her house, spending money on him all in the bid of getting married and she’s 29. She’s become this young mans sugar mummy, it’s honestly quite sad. It doesn’t help that when you’re of age and not married ‘they’ began to think something is seriously wrong with you. We also have a biological clock, so there’s so many things working against us.

All I can say is live your life, be the best version of yourself and put yourself in places to meet people and you Will definitely find someone with quality. They’re 7 billion people in the world, deep it. There has to be at least 1 person out there for you. Be patient ladies, he will come.