hello nairalanders. I need some advice from y'all. I got many siblings (though not from same mother) and they're more older dan me, I'm d last born, and one of my sister has a daughter. she's her first child and I'm her brother, but what I'm facing now is that her daughter always like to stay around me. she do come to me, I mean our house (her grandpas' house) whenever no 1 is around. right now everyone has traveled and I'm alone for the past weeks. she came about 2 weeks ago, tempting, so many things coming to my mind
now she called me that she wanna spent days with me, and I know her mum will surely release her coz she knows we are both close... like brother and sister, but I don't know how to reject her.
please what can I do
should I tell her not to come or how can I escape. I don't know what can happen if she spent days with me because I believe she might tempt me.

dierich:
hello nairalanders. I need some advice from y'all. I got many siblings (though not from same mother) and they're more older dan me, I'm d last born, and one of my sister has a daughter. she's her first child and I'm her brother, but what I'm facing now is that her daughter always like to stay around me. she do come to me, I mean our house (her grandpas' house) whenever no 1 is around. right now everyone has traveled and I'm alone for the past weeks. she came about 2 weeks ago, tempting, so many things coming to my mind
now she called me that she wanna spent days with me, and I know her mum will surely release her coz she knows we are both close... like brother and sister, but I don't know how to reject her.
please what can I do
should I tell her not to come or how can I escape. I don't know what can happen if she spent days with me because I believe she might tempt me.

Hello bro. This is my own advice. "What you don't plan to eat should not be brought close to your nose." Since she is tempting you, then the idea of only you and her alone should be avoided. Try everything possible to ensure that she never convinces you guys to have an alone time because she might make your defences vulnerable and a terrible deed might happen. So for now, just make up an excuse to her on why she won't be able to come and spend some time with you. Thanks and God bless!

fvck her jare... notin dey sup
there's notin new under d sun.
wise up and grab ur chance

dierich:
hello nairalanders. I need some advice from y'all. I got many siblings (though not from same mother) and they're more older dan me, I'm d last born, and one of my sister has a daughter. she's her first child and I'm her brother, but what I'm facing now is that her daughter always like to stay around me. she do come to me, I mean our house (her grandpas' house) whenever no 1 is around. right now everyone has traveled and I'm alone for the past weeks. she came about 2 weeks ago, tempting, so many things coming to my mind
now she called me that she wanna spent days with me, and I know her mum will surely release her coz she knows we are both close... like brother and sister, but I don't know how to reject her.
please what can I do
should I tell her not to come or how can I escape. I don't know what can happen if she spent days with me because I believe she might tempt me.

Uncle I believe the most appropriate response to this is 'Flee from all appearances of evil' Oga the fact that she is young and impressionable is the more reason why you should stay away ah an Haba with all the rape, incest and abuse cases going around you're still contemplating letting her come to stay with you when body is nuh firewood Oga oh... If you want to do abeg find an age appropriate girl who is not in any way biologically related to you oh because this her mother who is willing to let her come to visit you will nuh be willing to let you go just like that if anything should happen to her daughter oh... Please hear word... I have said my own

How would you even find a close blood relative sexually attractive?

You must have a very sick mind!

If I say you don't have sense now, mods will ban me, so I won't. I don't see how an Uncle will suddenly lose his sense of reasoning because of one small girl, and a blood relative at that. Unku, give yasef small brain abeg.

thanks to everyone for your advice. I really appreciate.
like the bro above me.. it's not that I've a sick mind, she's just trying to seduce. I don't fu*k around.

If I get u right, you are her uncle? If yes.. You need to see your pastor and doctor for treatments and deliverance.

OneCorner:
fvck her jare... notin dey sup there's notin new under d sun. wise up and grab ur chance

smh

Sick people everywhere, an innocent girl love to spend time with her uncle and you are busy thinking dirty. psycho!

Chikita66:
Sick people everywhere, an innocent girl love to spend time with her uncle and you are busy thinking dirty. psycho!

I know people will criticize me but it's not what u think. we used to spend time together which I see nothing wrong in that but this days it's not like the norm thing again. she has changed and the way she do things with me is alarming.
sometimes make an attempt to kiss me. I just ignore and do as if I don't see what she's trying to do.
it's not that I've feelings or having it in mind to do dirty with her but she's like seducing me.
don't see me as an insane guy, it's coz u don't understand

Chikita66:
Sick people everywhere, an innocent girl love to spend time with her uncle and you are busy thinking dirty. psycho!

Haba madam, is it that you did not read what the guy wrote??,forget that dirty mind talk o, a similar thing happened to me about 10 years ago, but with a family friend, the small girl wrote a love letter and one period we were at their place to spend some days,she came close to me and was rubbing my thighs, fear catch me, gave her the warning of her life and threatened to tell her mum, she beg and cried her eyes out, and it never repeated itself, she has grown into a very beautiful young lady but that respect still dey.My problem with the OP is that he even allowed things fester for this long without seriously reprimanding her.

You want to commit abomination and bring intense hatred on your self or probably go to jail and you want us to advise you because you don't have self control.

There are witches and wizards on the internet that can give you the advise that you so desire.

dierich:



I know people will criticize me but it's not what u think. we used to spend time together which I see nothing wrong in that but this days it's not like the norm thing again. she has changed and the way she do things with me is alarming.
sometimes make an attempt to kiss me. I just ignore and do as if I don't see what she's trying to do.
it's not that I've feelings or having it in mind to do dirty with her but she's like seducing me.
don't see me as an insane guy, it's coz u don't understand

If what ur saying is true then tell her point blank u dnt fly like that.. If she's old enough to be dating encourage her to go out more with her friends & meet guys her own age... Similar tging happened to me but it was my friend's 14 year old cousin that i have been playfully calling my wife since she was little & she became close to me. One day i got to the house no one in but my friend told me to wait that he was close by.. So there i was with this little girl watching tv, she sat very close to me which is nothing but b4 i knew it she kissed me & i was shocked.. I had to warn her about what she just did & left the house that day. She started keeping malice with me but after sometime she got to understand what i did that day.. Now she respects me even more.. Not to talk of ur niece ur suppose to guide & protect & even educate on things she should expect from life.. You want to allow her tempt u abi u are playing games with her already? Na u sabi

OP!!! Your tale is boring! Tell us what she use to do that makes it look like she is tempting you. She dey wear only pant and bra cum ya house

tempt her back

dierich:



I know people will criticize me but it's not what u think. we used to spend time together which I see nothing wrong in that but this days it's not like the norm thing again. she has changed and the way she do things with me is alarming.
sometimes make an attempt to kiss me. I just ignore and do as if I don't see what she's trying to do.
it's not that I've feelings or having it in mind to do dirty with her but she's like seducing me.
don't see me as an insane guy, it's coz u don't understand

You are her UNCLE. That's the only reason why your sister is giving you unsupervised access to her daughter. She trusts you. And you would be the last fool if you ever abused that trust. It's normal for a young girl to develop a crush on a guy slightly older, easily accessible, probably within her social class. He's the one she could experiment with; especially, at an age where unfamiliar hormones have started acting up.

But you are her UNCLE. And you should be the adult here. Since you seem to have such a close relationship with her, you could have spoken to her about it when she tried to kiss you: you could have asked her what that was about (kindly, to avoid embarrassing her). And then you could have set her head straight regarding your relationship, by telling her you love her (as an uncle), you understand why she would be fascinated by you (but how ill conceived it is), and how inappropriate it is to try to kiss a relative. And you could even take it a step further by educating her about a few things, so that she doesn't become easy prey for guys around.

If she becomes aggressive and starts grabbing "stuff", you might want to tell your sister about it. So, she can pay attention to that.

Which kind fuckery be dis!

Ur solution is to grt urself busy with work and a fine girlfriend.

What! The end don dey close oooo!

*spits*

dierich:
hello nairalanders. I need some advice from y'all. I got many siblings (though not from same mother) and they're more older dan me, I'm d last born, and one of my sister has a daughter. she's her first child and I'm her brother, but what I'm facing now is that her daughter always like to stay around me. she do come to me, I mean our house (her grandpas' house) whenever no 1 is around. right now everyone has traveled and I'm alone for the past weeks. she came about 2 weeks ago, tempting, so many things coming to my mind
now she called me that she wanna spent days with me, and I know her mum will surely release her coz she knows we are both close... like brother and sister, but I don't know how to reject her.
please what can I do
should I tell her not to come or how can I escape. I don't know what can happen if she spent days with me because I believe she might tempt me.

Firstly, how old is your niece?

I don't believe she's actually tempting you or has any immoral intentions towards you. I think you're the one thinking improperly about her innocent interest in you. She probably just likes you as a big uncle and likes being around you in a free, playful, innocent and trusting manner, but you take it in a wrong way as amorous interest. Be careful that you don't hurt the poor girls good heart with your own wrong thoughts. Don't even think of getting physical with her because that's one of the worst of sexual sacrileges. The stigma of it will follow you to the grave

Thanks to everyone that give meaningful advice and also those who criticize. I know it's because don't really understand me and to those that understand and give advice, I really appreciate you all. God bless.
I've learnt a lot in this thread I created and I've understood more.
thanks so much. God bless us all

Don't have sex with her, don't let your sister be a fool by trusting you.

OneCorner:
fvck her jare... notin dey sup
there's notin new under d sun.
wise up and grab ur chance

God go forgive you guys

Make she no go commot ur prick for boxers dey suck when you're asleep..

My advice is buy big padlock to lock your room before bed time and always be at alert.

dierich:
thanks to everyone for your advice. I really appreciate.
like the bro above me.. it's not that I've a sick mind, she's just trying to seduce. I don't fu*k around.

Tell her you are not at home.

Chikita66:
Sick people everywhere, an innocent girl love to spend time with her uncle and you are busy thinking dirty. psycho!

As in ehn, now blaming the poor girl...
Ask him how she tempt him na, you'll start hearing stories that touch

from all indications, you also have feelings for her.

The Decision lies within you.

but don't come back here with a different thread like, ''I got my niece pregnant pls i need advice''

While I can see that OP has some immoral feelings towards the girl, I won't absorb the girl and her parents of any blame. You will be surprised how very little girls has been exposed to sex and willing to indulge. Who thought them? I don't know.

Op, you're an adult and you MUST be one here. Remember she is just a kid and your niece. It's forbidden, play the big brother role instead.

Lmao. You only need deliverance.

But before you get it, always consult porn hub. com whenever you feel like getting down and take your eyes off your niece OK?

Anum.