pocohantas:


Your choice dear. Some of us do not care...

Naija men are not altruistic anyway. Most give for reasons that are not in anyway 100% genuine.

TheUpsetGirl1:
Pocohantas the moment of giving birth to child is very painful and disgusting though...
A friend showed me a video of how women put to birth.
Chai, I thank God I'm not a lady..

When I even saw what the doctor was doing, I wonder the kind of pain the lady will be experiencing

pocohantas:


I have watched a friend give birth. Scariest thing I have seen in my life, took me a lot not to shout when I saw the baby's head.

TheUpsetGirl1:


I wonder the kind of hell they go through...

the doctor was even cutting some stuffs in her vag***.

I really felt pity for ladies.... even when the kid is coming out


so you were in the labour room when your friend gave birth?

pocohantas:


Yea, she told me she wanted to poo, I ran to go inform the nurse and they shouted that's the baby... They ran faster than me.

I watched the whole process and excused myself when they were stitching her v****a. That one was too much for me to behold.

So, when she told me to buy her something when coming in the evening, I bought double. On my way home the next day, I bought my mum her favourite fish, she was asking if I am celebrating something. She no go understand

pocohantas:


Yea, she told me she wanted to poo, I ran to go inform the nurse and they shouted that's the baby... They ran faster than me.

I watched the whole process and excused myself when they were stitching her v****a. That one was too much for me to behold.

So, when she told me to buy her something when coming in the evening, I bought double. On my way home the next day, I bought my mum her favourite fish, she was asking if I am celebrating something. She no go understand

CosmicJames:

Tell me something
Is the baby not her own as well?
Like seriously, was she hired to push the baby?
I'm not understanding

Espada10:
My own is that. . The husband better use that money for push present ( whatever the hell that means) and do a DNA test

greiboy:
It is not entirely new in the Nigerian society though, I have seen certain rich men buy expensive gifts such as the latest vehicle for their wives for giving birth to a male child.

My only concern now is the entitlement mentality that might come with it as the word and its meaning spreads among Nigerians.

You know how our women are with these things

donstan18:

If husbands start doing that Marriages will crash.

oyb:


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you see why this one na small tin for women

Espada10:


That is even better
infact it should be made a law and mandatory for every hospital.

of course it will hurt ...you will even cry but

It is better to discover that kid is not yours on time( so you cand be able to move on as early as possible) than when you are old

and you discovered that you invested your money on one or two random bastard.

because make no mistake....in this day and age , one day you must surely know.

that is enough to send any man to an early grave

or don't you prefer it.

Espada10:
My own is that. . The husband better use that money for push present ( whatever the hell that means) and do a DNA test

TheUpsetGirl1:
Pocohantas the moment of giving birth to child is very painful and disgusting though...
A friend showed me a video of how women put to birth.
Chai, I thank God I'm not a lady..

When I even saw what the doctor was doing, I wonder the kind of pain the lady will be experiencing

JasonScoolari:
Lol ...Seriously Raine, I don't understand the "push present" but whatever it is, she should accept the "push present" and be grateful.

MissRaine69:


It’s not disgusting that’s how you came into this world!
I usually ask fathers to stay away from the vagina area as for most it has killed the sex life. Killed it dead!
So it’s best if they stay up top and support the mother.

MissRaine69:

It’s uncomfortable when you have to get involved in a domestic situation. Rather than focus on the fact that labour was relatively straight forward, the child was health and she recovered well. She was making a scene because she wanted a present for pushing the baby out.

MissRaine69:

Let me elucidate the term. Some women now expect/demand/]want the man to acknowledge their labour hardworking which involves a lot of pushing and pain. This acknowledgement is in the form of a present this lady in question was given a necklacenbut from her reaction she wanted more and made it known.

pocohantas:


LOL. Yea, a really small thing.

MissRaine69:

It’s uncomfortable when you have to get involved in a domestic situation. Rather than focus on the fact that labour was relatively straight forward, the child was health and she recovered well. She was making a scene because she wanted a present for pushing the baby out.

pocohantas:

Why are you both always in hurry to quote each other?

That's aside other observations.
Oh well,what do I know...

pocohantas:


I can come in any form anyways.

If you know my main account ..you will be very shocked

Espada10:


That is even better
infact it should be made a law and mandatory for every hospital.

of course it will hurt ...you will even cry but

It is better to discover that kid is not yours on time( so you cand be able to move on as early as possible) than when you are old

and you discovered that you invested your money on one or two random bastard.

because make no mistake....in this day and age , one day you must surely know.

that is enough to send any man to an early grave

or don't you prefer it.

Espada10:


lol..it is like this my comment dey toy with your brain



relax..my main rarely visit romance section..I use it mainly on properties auto etc

But it is like donstan18 is one of those few guys you said you trust?

Espada10:


lol..it is like this my comment dey toy with your brain

relax..my main rarely visit romance section..I use it mainly on properties auto etc But it is like donsta n18 is one of those few guys you said you trust?

donstan18:


You'v got a point bro, a very good point.

Some ladies of these day are something else, no loyalty and respect for the preeq that paid their bride price, most of them be hopping into marriages just for "Mrs" when they'v got no love for the man, hereby punishing and giving themselves reasons to cheat

Oh! well, what do we know, they'll still blame the society for that.

Cry? Did you say cry? Like, who d'fvck does that? Cry for a cheat

Well, it's a fvcked world, DNA should be mandatory to save unforeseen emotional traumas.

pocohantas:

Not at all. I just had to state an observation. And something I saw him do last night, reinforced my observation. Maybe you're doing what he wishes he could do.



Trust donstan? Hahahaha, I rather spend a night in a lion's den
Not like it matters anyway. He is the only NLDER who wa^ks to every vile comment and still laughs with you. don't know how he does it, but it's not easy.

donstan18:


It can only be difficult to do with a fellow who despises and hate because of social media comments.

If free, you'll be free.

You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.

pocohantas:

Not at all. I just had to state an observation. And something I saw him do last night, reinforced my observation. Maybe you're doing what he wishes he could do.



Trust donstan? Hahahaha, I rather spend a night in a lion's den
Not like it matters anyway. He is the only NLDER who wa^ks to every vile comment and still laughs with you. I don't know how he does it, but it's not easy.