Espada10:


exactly but I have seen grown men cry( it is not by muscle or brain oo) that shit hurts

but it depends on what form it comes

let me explain

if you discover it early or in your youth ..the emotion you will feel is anger..cutoff the woman from your life ( except you are one of our nairaland Martin ) ..you can afford to start over and move on with your life

but if discover it your old age ..that shit hurts like hell not necessary because of the cheating woman but of the time and investments ( both emotionally and physically ) you have already wasted on the bastard. It hurts more ( it is hurts more..it is not by muscle or brain or Alpha or Beta).

but whatever the circumstances never forgive such a woman.


but to your comment I say

pocohantas:


You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.

donstan18:


And that's a m'dafvcking point!

Yea, pain isn't about muscle, you are right, pains of emotion and psychology can be way more heavier than that of physical. It kills, just like you stanced.

But how do women do this? Like, live with you knowing you aren't training your child, and they'll be comfortable. It's absurd Just annoying

What if Martins is a strict Nigga in reality Social media appearance isn't reality

Espada10:



nahhh..donstan18 is a cool guy and one of the few guys I like here ...him and ubunja ( I know you hate that one with passion ).

they are not perfect but most of the time I like their reasonings and where they are coming from.

Donstan18 abeg , Come oo and explain

I thought that after everything and last last , you and poco na pady pady.

Espada10:


Guy I don't know..like ubunja will say ..It turns them on and one of their greatest revenge on a man.

As for matins..you may right..who knows with the guy.


As for me ..no matter the kind love I may be in...DNA test is a sure thing for me...That is one vow I gave myself.

Thank God they are many ways to it..no one even needs to know unless it goes south

Espada10:



nahhh..don stan18 is a cool guy and one of the few guys I like here ...him and ubu nja ( I know you hate that one with passion ).

they are not perfect but most of the time I like their reasonings and where they are coming from.

Don stan18 abeg , Come oo and explain

I thought that after everything and last last , you and poco na pady pady.

TheUpsetGirl1:


it's disgusting and scary... imagine the doctor using scissors to cut some stuffs out of the lady's vagina... he'll even put his fingers in there for some minutes... he'll stitch the vag**** after all that... blood will start ouzing out..

chai
women though

pocohantas:


Surprisingly, I like Ub.unja, for reasons I rather not state.

Actually, I am surprised to hear that and at the same time I am not ...That is because you are weird. I have a feeling ( lol) that normal straight sex no longer turns you on

but You are open to dabble into anything but The problem is getting someone that is reliable and trustworthy to do it with.

I don't hate anyone.

I Believe that or we won't be having any discussion but
That doesn't mean I trust you or you should to me.

AS for donstan18.. na your pady..you guys go still settle last last ...he is just not the asslicking type.
He won't agree with you in everything.

TheUpsetGirl1:


I hope he didn't get her the present?

TheUpsetGirl1:


that's rare..

donstan18:


When media-realized fact and truth is denied, it comes back to haunt

Just like there are two ways to be fooled, which is what MOST social media fellows does

One is to believe what isn't true and fact the other is to refuse to believe what is true.

pocohantas:


You really think it's about your truthful posts. If that makes you feel better, who am I am to spoil your shine?
Enjoy.

TheUpsetGirl1:


funny thing is.. naija men are the cause of all these entitlement mentality..

gift ko gift ni
After the 9 months you'll expect me to pay school fees and everything and you're still looking for gift.. even if I've 20m intact I won't give you single penny.

Noloss:


I Thot u r a girl

MissRaine69:


I do that for a living it’s no big deal after that I will go and have lunch or dinner with a clear mind.

MissRaine69:

No it’s not

TheUpsetGirl1:
never marry a broke lady..

2buffagain:


This is the long and short of it.

Avoid them like the plague out you will just be seen as an ATM nothing more.

Just picture the mentality of this foolish so called wife now. She obviously does not love the foolish man she is married to. He is nothing but an ATM she is training to produce money in unnecessary ways.

mrmrmister:


"Push present" refers to what the husband is supposed to buy his bride for pushing out their child(ren).

mrmrmister:


"Push present" refers to what the husband is supposed to buy his bride for pushing out their child(ren).

THE ONLY PUSH PRESENT SHE'LL GET FROM ME IF SHE EVER ASKS IS A DIVORCE.

BRIDE PRICE, WEDDING, HOUSEKEEP, IN-LAWS, BILLS AND CHILDREN.... NOW WE HAVE TO DROP GIFTS BECAUSE OF DELIVERY?
WE'RE BEING MANIPULATED HERE, AS IF WE DEMAND PENETRATION PRESENTS EACH TIME.

RIDICULOUS.

MissRaine69:

Let me elucidate the term. Some women now expect/demand/]want the man to acknowledge their labour hardworking which involves a lot of pushing and pain. This acknowledgement is in the form of a present this lady in question was given a necklacenbut from her reaction she wanted more and made it known.

pocohantas:


He penetrated her, she carried the pregnancy for 9mths and birthed the baby. I really don't know how the mind of a pregnant woman works, but I currently see nothing wrong in appreciating a new mom.

HOW ABOUT THE APPRECIATION FOR A NEW DAD?

donstan18:


And that's a m'dafvcking point!

Yea, pain isn't about muscle, you are right, pains of emotion and psychology can be way more heavier than that of physical. It kills, just like you stanced.

But how do women do this? Like, live with you knowing you aren't training your child, and they'll be comfortable. It's absurd Just annoying

What if Martins is a strict Nigga in reality Social media appearance isn't reality

2buffagain:


Most women don't really love men.
They just love the utilities and benefits that become available to them as a "wife".
Even though they might play the part of the good wife, deep down, they don't give 2 bleeps about the guy.
Sometimes this fact is even unknown to the women themselves. They will be there thinking that they love him, but let him come with a challenge. They will not be able to understand how their pussy dries up when they look at him in the middle of his challenges.

After all, he exists only to service her needs and he is not allowed to have issues. Only she can
So yes, I'm sure you can see that with a mentality like this, most women would think nothing of comfortably sitting down watching a man finance what isn't his. She sees all [the good things] he has as her own anyway, but not vice versa.

CAPSLOCKED:



HOW ABOUT THE APPRECIATION FOR A NEW DAD?

lefulefu:

for real? which country does such happen?

CAPSLOCKED:



OVER EXAGGERATED, THESE DAYS.

WOMEN SEE IT A BIG DEAL... JUST LIKE THEY SEE EVERYTHING ELSE. BIG DEAL.
A WOMAN SEES SHE'S WITH YOU AS A BIG DEAL. SHE COOKS AND CLEANS, BIG DEAL.
SHE CHANGES THE LIGHT BULB OR A FLAT TIRE AND THE WORLD NEEDS TO KNOW AND APPLAUD THAT.


IF MEN COULD GIVE BIRTH MANY MEN WOULD GET MARRIED TO MANY OTHER MEN.. AND WE'LL DO IT WITH SO MUCH EASE.

RuthDaniels:
[b] All these boys in men clothing everywhere will not let someone read in peace . See them screaming DNA/Divorce nonsense when most of them are still begging the women in their lives to manage with them in their one room apartments. Rich guys on Nairaland, Garri soakers in reality Yeye!

I am little baffled by it too to be honest but then there is a quote about empty vessels ....





Lol, If I'm to judge this woman, ignoring that the fact that she might be joking or pulling the childish stunt of a spoilt wife on her man,Then I will say she acted the wrong way. She shouldn't have monetized the pains of labour because nothing can ever equate that.
She has successfully sold her right over her baby.She is not different from a surrogate mother.

The man was kind enough to have given her something (a necklace ) That gesture should have been appreciated and acknowledged. Not everyone gets that, not in a patriarch society. Women these days though [/b]