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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 9:14am On Jul 12, 2018
Newbielearner:
The purpose of this thread is for men to raise the standard so that people like op whose sexual drive appears to be very high can get sex for free. Right?
If that's the case, then op, you are among the men giving the women undeserved power, and the change can only start from you.

Learn to have balance in life. Raise your standards such that it would be a privilege for a lady to spend time with you. Divert about 70% of your sexual urge into creative works. Have fun hanging out with matured and well to do ladies, without you intending to have sex with any. If you're to have sex, it should just be spontaneous or planned (if you eventually chose to get married). Just like my own way of balance is checking Nairaland by midnight and working during the day. Lol.

Women deserve respect just like men. But a wise man would avoid the manipulative ones: They always talk about money and are never straight forward.
Na the first Adam cause the wahala. The first day he allowed the woman to lead was the day man fell!


Bro you are right..

You are valuable when you are scarce.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 9:16am On Jul 12, 2018
MariaLavina:
grin grin grin grin
Who run the world? Girls, girls cheesy
Girls run the world.
Money makes the world goes round.
But guess what!
Men own them all..
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by KingTugreat: 9:20am On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:


Well I have like 3 girlfriends, they come around, cook, clean and fúck me. And all I give them is transport fare and a promise of good things to come. That's cheaper than spending 5k everytime I want to bust a nut like wtf? To be honest I'd rather masturbate than spend so much. No be fûck bring me come dis world na. Something that should be free.
I dont like what is free what is free comes with a lot of payback directly or indirectly,knowingly or unknowingly.According to the laws of power "Despise the free Gift"

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by KingTugreat: 9:23am On Jul 12, 2018
lereinter:



those gals u spend 5k on are also your gfs

they wont even satisfy u well

spend such on a gal u toast and see magic




According to the laws of power "Despise the Free Gift"i always choose to pay so that tommorrow you cant blab your mouth against me.I keep my pride intact and keep your mouth shut for life,you cant use anything against me

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by uckennety(m): 9:50am On Jul 12, 2018
okwabayi:
I thought you already had a girlfriend in addition to your brothel runs?

The truth is, you picked the best policy. What is happening to you is the grass looking greener syndrome. When you catch a girlfriend you'll eventually see the life you're living now is the better option. Girls too get wahala -- f-ucking and running naim sweet pass.

You're attractive, yes but it doesn't mean you should lock yourself down to one woman. I suggest you try and put in the work to get a girlfriend. By the time you see how frustrating it is you'll settle back into visiting brothels again. When one mumu girl puts you in her friendzone for two years only for you to later find out she was distributing it about for free without you knowing naim your brain go reset.

Also, take all this olosho prakking time as practice for your future girlfriend. Men like you when them handle woman she go disown her whole generation.




Baba tuale

You said it all

You DA MVP
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by ImaIma1(f): 10:35am On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


You just heard?

Ain't you in Nigeria again?

Now know this... Every lady in Nigeria (including the married ones) tax their men for sex directly or indirectly..

At your Last sentence, that's fairy tale.


Yes! I heard!!! Deal with it.

If the last sentence is a fairy tale to you, that is your problem and not mine
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 11:44am On Jul 12, 2018
KingTugreat:

I dont like what is free what is free comes with a lot of payback directly or indirectly,knowingly or unknowingly.According to the laws of power "Despise the free Gift"

And yet the OP is wishing he didn't have to spend so much to have sex. Diff strokes for diff folks I guess.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 11:53am On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


Spending 5k on a hole is expensive?

Don't worry I gottcha.

A time will come you will spend 200k on a cooch and you don't feel it.

A poor man says trekking is exercise..

Lol so everytime you need to have sex you count money to give to someone? How does that make you feel? It is financial leakages like this that make people not to progress in life even when they are seeing small change. So assuming you have sex 3 times a week you're gonna pay let's say 15k? Multiply that by 4 weeks in a month, and then a year, and see how much you throw away because of that thing you call a pènis. Do you feel smarter now?

Of course, this is the part where you form baba olowo and claim it's nothing. A sensibile person won't just dole out cash because he wants to release sperm. It's demeaning. To me at least. The only people that pay back to back for sex are those people that can't seem to get a regular girl to have sex with them. It's a little pathetic, but whatever rocks you guys' boat.

PS - I wouldn't pay someone 200k to fúck me. Why? Because I am not stewpid.

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 12, 2018
OP in your post, you admitted to paying money for sex and in that same post, you are condemning men who pay for sex. How old are you?

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


Spending 5k on a hole is expensive?

Don't worry I gottcha.

A time will come you will spend 200k on a cooch and you don't feel it.

A poor man says trekking is exercise..
Do you look like vomit? why pay so much for a women' s attention?
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 3:53pm On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:


Lol so everytime you need to have sex you count money to give to someone? How does that make you feel? It is financial leakages like this that make people not to progress in life even when they are seeing small change. So assuming you have sex 3 times a week you're gonna pay let's say 15k? Multiply that by 4 weeks in a month, and then a year, and see how much you throw away because of that thing you call a pènis. Do you feel smarter now?

Of course, this is the part where you form baba olowo and claim it's nothing. A sensibile person won't just dole out cash because he wants to release sperm. It's demeaning. To me at least. The only people that pay back to back for sex are those people that can't seem to get a regular girl to have sex with them. It's a little pathetic, but whatever rocks you guys' boat.

PS - I wouldn't pay someone 200k to fúck me. Why? Because I am not stewpid.

Won't u rather pay 5k for sex and have peace than keep a girlfriend and have heartbrk?


Heart break is quite expensive and some times u pay with ur life.


P:S- If it cost you your peace, then it's too expensive.

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 3:57pm On Jul 12, 2018
Dudeweedlmao:
Do you look like vomit? why pay so much for a women' s attention?

Bruv I don't pay for a lady's attention I pay for her cooch. And once I cum, I am done with her and I move on. Nobody gets hurt.

No heartbreak..
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 4:12pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


Won't u rather pay 5k for sex and have peace than keep a girlfriend and have heartbrk?


Heart break is quite expensive and some times u pay with ur life.


P:S- If it cost you your peace, then it's too expensive.

What is heartbreak? Are you still a child? As a man, you are entitled to one or two heartbreaks. One from your first love and maybe one from some other girl you were foolish enough to fall in love with. After that, you ought to learn how to just go with the flow and not take them so seriously. They should be the ones struggling to prove themselves to you that they are different from other girls.

If you haven't learnt this by now, especially after having read your thread, I don't know what else to tell you. Keep doling out 5k while your mates are getting the coochie and even billing the babes. Sometimes I act broke and have them stock my fridge. When you get a lady to spend money on you, or cook and clean, you are getting her invested in YOU.

This is my own philosophy anyway, you guys don't have to agree with me.

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 4:29pm On Jul 12, 2018
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

mimimile93, I can tell you are a very emotional guy, but if you have been heartbroken before, learn from it and take necessary precautions to ensure that such a thing never happens again. That's how to grow.

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 4:32pm On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:


What is heartbreak? Are you still a child? As a man, you are entitled to one or two heartbreaks. One from your first love and maybe one from some other girl you were foolish enough to fall in love with. After that, you ought to learn how to just go with the flow and not take them so seriously. They should be the ones struggling to prove themselves to you that they are different from other girls.

If you haven't learnt this by now, especially after having read your thread, I don't know what else to tell you. Keep doling out 5k while your mates are getting the coochie and even billing the babes. Sometimes I act broke and have them stock my fridge. When you get a lady to spend money on you, or cook and clean, you are getting her invested in YOU.

This is my own philosophy anyway, you guys don't have to agree with me.

oh bro as it pleases u.


From what I've been through I can never have these leeches come close.


I am the kind of person that when I fall I fall deep even deeper..


The moment I say let me start keepin a girl I will find myself giving her my all.


I don't really know how to love with my head I love with my heart and I give all.

I love with everytin I have.


Since no girl deserves such love let me be payin for the cooch.


I plan gettin a doll.

I was one of the happiest people when I heard abt the invention of sexdoll.

I am saving up for a doll.

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 4:35pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


oh bro as it pleases u.


From what I've been through I can never have these leeches come close.


I am the kind of person that when I fall I fall deep even deeper..


The moment I say let me start keepin a girl I will find myself giving her my all.


I don't really know how to love with my head I love with my heart and I give all.

I love with everytin I have.


Since no girl deserves such love let me be payin for the cooch.


I plan gettin a doll.

I was one of the happiest people when I heard abt the invention of sexdoll.

I am saving up for a doll.

That's also not a bad idea, especially if you are okay with being by yourself. Saves you all the drama.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 5:02pm On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

mimimile93, I can tell you are a very emotional guy, but if you have been heartbroken before, learn from it and take necessary precautions to ensure that such a thing never happens again. That's how to grow.

I love this piece..

Thanks bro.. Grateful

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by fancy4eve(f): 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


Are you indirectly telling my bro to opt for a girlfriend? When we all know y'all are prostitutes..


Y'all are all prostitutes only few decide to work at brothels while others like you disguised as girlfriends.

Fvck all y'all!
I can see u re sick in d brain, ur statement shows dat all of u in ur family are prostitutes excluding ur parents, am not surprise bruv, cus I know dat OLOSHOLISN runs in d lineage nd ONA EFE FE........OP pls run for ur dear lyf oh, cus frwnds lyk dis re devil in human form.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 5:20pm On Jul 12, 2018
fancy4eve:
I can see u re sick in brain, dis ur statement shows dat all of u in ur family are prostitutes excluding ur parents, am not surprise bruv, cus I know dat OLOSHOLISN runs in d lineage nd ONA EFE FE........OP pls run for ur dear lyf oh, cus frwnds lyk dis re devil in human form.


What was wrong about my post?

Speaking the obvious truth is what you get mad at?
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by fancy4eve(f): 5:23pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:



What was wrong about my post?

Speaking the obvious truth is what you get mad at?

u don't just call pple u don't know names, if u re pained by my mention, y not Bleep off
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by fancy4eve(f): 5:23pm On Jul 12, 2018
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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by ItzBIM(m): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:


Well I have like 3 girlfriends, they come around, cook, clean and fúck me. And all I give them is transport fare and a promise of good things to come. That's cheaper than spending 5k everytime I want to bust a nut like wtf? To be honest I'd rather masturbate than spend so much. No be fûck bring me come dis world na. Something that should be free.

So you are saying you don’t spend on any of dem like taking them out once in a while. Even before they became ur gf didn’t u spend on them.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 5:29pm On Jul 12, 2018
fancy4eve:
u don't just call pple u don't know names, if u re pained by my mention, y not Bleep off

Give me the preferred name to call someone who collects money from another in exchange for sex..


Because that's what Nigerian ladies do

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by ItzBIM(m): 5:31pm On Jul 12, 2018
ImaIma1:


Yes! I heard!!! Deal with it.

If the last sentence is a fairy tale to you, that is your problem and not mine

Why are u so aggressive he was only just trying to have a civilised conversation. Your blood dey hot oo
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 5:32pm On Jul 12, 2018
ItzBIM:


So you are saying you don’t spend on any of dem like taking them out once in a while. Even before they became ur gf didn’t u spend on them.

Before getting them to go out with you it's advisable you take them out to seal the deal. Infact, you must take them out. I call it "Subscription Fee". Maybe to the beach or the cinema. Budget like 10 to 20k and just have a good time. It's called making a great first impression. After that, you turn to a story teller. However, during the course of the relationship if you feel like going out and you want her to tag along, nothing spoil. It's more brownie points to you.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by Peterosky(m): 5:33pm On Jul 12, 2018
fancy4eve:
no doubt about dat, but how will u know d true definition of beauty wen u don't even luv ur pretty self or even appreciate odas, beauty my frwnd is in d eyes of d beholder.
.Darling you are beautiful, don't let that guy run down your levels. Just pretty.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by ItzBIM(m): 5:37pm On Jul 12, 2018
mgtow:


Before getting them to go out with you it's advisable you take them out to seal the deal. Infact, you must take them out. I call it "Subscription Fee". Maybe to the beach or the cinema. Budget like 10 to 20k and just have a good time. It's called making a great first impression. After that, you turn to a story teller. However, during the course of the relationship if you feel like going out and you want her to tag along, nothing spoil. It's more brownie points to you.

So at the end of the day both gf and runs girls nah the same thing

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Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by fancy4eve(f): 5:39pm On Jul 12, 2018
mimimile93:


Give me the preferred name to call someone who collects money from another in exchange for sex..


Because that's what Nigerian ladies do
we don't fuckn collect money from anyone 4 whateva, if ur gal frwnd does same 2 u does not mean ladies in general do same,most of our ladies are hard working nd if u tink we are not, den daz ur business , but don't 4get 2 include ur sisters.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by fancy4eve(f): 5:42pm On Jul 12, 2018
Peterosky:
.Darling you are beautiful, don't let that guy run down your levels. Just pretty.
shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mimimile93: 5:46pm On Jul 12, 2018
fancy4eve:
we don't fuckn collect money from anyone 4 whateva, if ur gal frwnd does same 2 u does not mean ladies in general do same,most of our ladies are hard working nd if u tink we are not, den daz ur business , but don't 4get 2 include ur sisters.

Am sorry...
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by mgtow: 5:56pm On Jul 12, 2018
ItzBIM:


So at the end of the day both gf and runs girls nah the same thing

If that's your takeaway. You can't claim you care for someone if you're not willing to spend at the very least. Just make sure she pulls her own weight that's all.
Re: I Want To Stop Paying For Sex! by ImaIma1(f): 6:07pm On Jul 12, 2018
ItzBIM:


Why are u so aggressive he was only just trying to have a civilised conversation. Your blood dey hot oo

Stay out of this. It wasn't you he called useless.

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