Ujujoan:

She's not silly, she's being startegic in her actions!   

And trust me, she doesn't love him . . . if she did, she would NEVER do that!

Ujujoan:

She's not silly, she's being startegic in her actions!   

And trust me, she doesn't love him . . . if she did, she would NEVER do that!

Acidosis:

could you pls interpret this interesting rubbish.

IyaBasira:

Is it?
So we are actually okay with letting our husbands deceive white women , sleep with them, and them leave them hanging after getting what they want ?

I know this comment may not be supported by anyone on this forum but I really don't care. For reasons like this a man will cheat on you later with another NIGERIAN woman and then you will have to bite your tongue because you supported it in the first place when he did it with a white woman.
And is anyone considering the impact this has on the lives of these women/ girls? Is this really fair on them considering that they are using their money, their bodies and potentially damaging their hearts?

I'm sorry, but for stuff like that, I really don't care what what the reasons are. How can I watch you do that to someone else? And with her probably thinking that I am the housemaid, only to later find out that I'm his wife! These women sometimes come to Nairaland and wail about some Nigerian man who they love and  who is acting funny once the papers came through.

I've noticed something about men and women. Men seem to understand the saying " United We Stand " better than women do. With guys there's this sense of solidarity cos they always support each other. But women just don't seem to get it. We do a lot of terrible things to each other in the name of LOVE and it's like someone sowed a seed of discord between us from day one.

IkeLike:

Being in love is the worst thing to happen to men in modern society filled wtih gold-digging women.

IyaBasira:

Is it?
So we are actually okay with letting our husbands deceive white women , sleep with them, and them leave them hanging after getting what they want ?

I know this comment may not be supported by anyone on this forum but I really don't care. For reasons like this a man will cheat on you later with another NIGERIAN woman and then you will have to bite your tongue because you supported it in the first place when he did it with a white woman.
And is anyone considering the impact this has on the lives of these women/ girls? Is this really fair on them considering that they are using their money, their bodies and potentially damaging their hearts?

I'm sorry, but for stuff like that, I really don't care what what the reasons are. How can I watch you do that to someone else? And with her probably thinking that I am the housemaid, only to later find out that I'm his wife! These women sometimes come to Nairaland and wail about some Nigerian man who they love and who is acting funny once the papers came through.

chardino:

Is this a Nigerian movie or what? but i trust 9ija baby and guys @ the end of the day they will either kidnap or dupe the white Girl. But 9ija baby can do any thing for LOVE

cashful:

All what these women did cannot and should not be attributed to love,

Theblessed:


You see, as this lady is an alibi to her husband's fraudulent acts eventually, it would turn round and bite her on the neck because, what goes round would come round three time for you. 

Covering up your husband's bigamous act in order to save your marriage is not an intelligent act and I query this woman's self-esteem/efficacy.  No independent woman that loves and values herself would allow herself to be marginalised this way, what an abuse? Do we really have to sympathise with her when she lives in a man's pocket, what does she expect? Of course, abuse and many of it!

Remember, habits can only change when you stop them and, you can only stop them by putting your foot on the breaks and say - look, time's up!!!! Until then, please, inform this woman to continue patching up this wretched marriage thinking she's got one, one day she'd wake up in a hot sweat.

LeoMax:

Love ke, In this Lagos ? Nigerian girls dont love, they lust after your income. Be careful, women are gold diggers, all of them

Theblessed:

[b]In your view, is this love? Is it how low this guy would stoop to be able to provide for his family? If so, he ain't worth a man. Disregarding your wife's feelings and brought home another woman for her to serve - what a cruel and selfish b a s t a r d. This is the kind of men I like to chew their 'balls' raw so that, at a mere mention of a woman in their next life, they kukuma turn gay by force.   Abusing your wife emotionally and psychologically is not fun therefore, when I finish with him the a Eunuch would be far better than him? If this is the definition of love to most people well, they can keep it. 

You see, as this lady is an alibi to her husband's fraudulent acts eventually, it would turn round and bite her on the neck because, what goes round would come round three time for you. 

Covering up your husband's bigamous act in order to save your marriage is not an intelligent act and I query this woman's self-esteem/efficacy.  No independent woman that loves and values herself would allow herself to be marginalised this way, what an abuse? Do we really have to sympathise with her when she lives in a man's pocket, what does she expect? Of course, abuse and many of it!

Remember, habits can only change when you stop them and, you can only stop them by putting your foot on the breaks and say - look, time's up!!!! Until then, please, inform this woman to continue patching up this wretched marriage thinking she's got one, one day she'd wake up in a hot sweat.[/b]

FEMARY:

You really hit the nail on the head."what goes around comes around."The law of Karma.They connived to use and cheat the white lady."

ITgurlie:

nope, they didn't connive to cheat the white lady  the naija wife didn't know about the whitey until after the marriage so when she found out she had to lie low cos she loved the guy and didn't want to lose him

Theblessed:



Just don't know when some Nigerian women would get a life.  Loving a man that disrespect you this way, what's inside your head if not stupidity and low self-esteem .  At her age, is she still playing school love? Please tell her to grow up!!!

remioshy:

i know f a woman here in naija with two kids, whose husband is in uk and wanted to marry a white woman for papers, begged the naija ( for the benefit of the family)woman to get a death certificate of herself which will make him a widower, and for "love" she did that, and the man was able to marry the white woman, after few year, th mn divorced the white woman after getting his papers, he now came to nigeria with another naja lady to get married in ibadan without the other woman ( who is supposed to have did) knowing about this. The woman was really traumatized , but God proved himself that oftr few years this woman met a man from america and got married, she now lives in florida, u.s.a

remioshy:

i know f a woman here in naija with two kids, whose husband is in uk and wanted to marry a white woman for papers, begged the naija ( for the benefit of the family)woman to get a death certificate of herself which will make him a widower, and for "love" she did that, and the man was able to marry the white woman, after few year, th mn divorced the white woman after getting his papers, he now came to nigeria with another naja lady to get married in ibadan without the other woman ( who is supposed to have did) knowing about this. The woman was really traumatized , but God proved himself that oftr few years this woman met a man from america and got married, she now lives in florida, u.s.a