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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by bitingcool: 11:44am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Grow up. So because she has an ex...she cannot communicate with him again? My ex has helped me get interviews into top Nigerian companies of which my family and I were grateful Being an ex doesn't mean enemity or you must sleep with each other when you meet anytime Some people are mature enough to develop great friendship with ex-es and it remains so. If U think staying away from people that you have dated is the norm, then you still have some growing up to do. Every one you have met is as network link. Useful or unuseful in the future. She has done no wrong. Sleeping in his house may be frowned upon. That's where trust comes in. If she slept with him, do U think she will tell you she got the job through him? Be your judge. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by bitingcool: 11:46am On Aug 04, 2018 |
CASTOSVILLA: Aswear to God bro. You're right |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Rhozabeth(m): 11:54am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Ur girlfriend going to crash in her ex's place in d name of helping her get a job and people think that is not a red flag! I can't believe what am reading here! 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by cbrass(m): 12:07pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: But the ex is screwing her now, did you just say he should be happy that his babe is screwing her ex? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:isn't it obvious you are dating a dumb chic. What advice are you still waiting for yourself??y you couldn't get her a job and she helped herself in a way which you are not cool with. Some people won't have a problem with what she did. For you, you have a problem. Different values.. so what advice do you want really. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SexytorresE(f): 12:40pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Temptee101:if u aren't foolish enough, u would have follow up my comments and replies to know if I read it or not. And the last time I checked u have blocked brain cos I never introduced myself as relationship expert, neither did my profile says. Omale, Oloshi jati jati |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by NnamdiN: 1:12pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Respect55:at that point it didn't matter anymore, whatever it was would have remained that way if he didn't ask |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Respect55(m): 1:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
NnamdiN:U ask to know. He didn't do any wrong by asking. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SenorFax(m): 1:28pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
1stolax:One of them actually, I spent the night on the couch, while she and my wife used the bed. Any question? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Pricelessangel0(f): 1:37pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
The question i want to ask are, is she living with the ex or it was a one time thing? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SenorFax(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
1stolax:A bedroom self contain actually. My wife knew her as my ex, we have the same heart and it has never failed us from helping anybody regardless who he or she is or was. Is that all? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SenorFax:No. You should have slept in the same room with her in your wife's absence 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by omeiza2live(m): 1:52pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
hummm... a night with ex without something between them... chai... ex for that matter |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by lereinter(m): 1:57pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
VampireeM: its words like this that make men belittle ladies... do u know how damaging this would cause 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SenorFax(m): 1:58pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
1stolax:When you are married, you can do that. 1 Like
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by lereinter(m): 2:07pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
cos of job your fiancee girl u want to marry went to sleep in her ex house without telling u she has failed u can even follow her, or even rebt an hotel room close to the office your ex is unfaithful cut the relationship wt her and find another lady 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by olufolarin2222: 2:07pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
a dog should not go back to his vomit. there is not need for her to still connect with an ex since in.the first place to the extent of the ex helping him.to secure a job. that means she is still having connection with her ex. my opinion |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Rajosh(m): 2:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
her receiving help from her ex is not a bad thing but spending the night with her ex hmmm. bro I leave that to you to judge. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by NnamdiN: 2:16pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Respect55:which is my point, he asked and he was answered. Why vex? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by nandyz(m): 2:18pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bros most ladies are guys ex, but they still maintain their friendship.. Taking myself as an example, most of my ex are very friendly with me,, same as I to them,,, we communicate, we connect, most contract I handle comes from them.. She keep in touch with her ex or communicate with him doesn't make her to cheat on u or there about. All u need to do is to keep ur eyes on her study her, get updates from her and know what so take u for.. Treat her as a woman, one-day u will know her stand n her wing |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Respect55(m): 2:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
NnamdiN:Was he supposed to be happy? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by bencarson007(m): 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SenorFax: The sun stood still the day you were born... you have indeed spoken like a man... a true son of your father.. #Respects 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Bullhari: 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz: please get out of this girl's life. she doesn't deserve a low thinking ijiot. so you have been strafing all you ex that reached out to you? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by banio: 3:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SenorFax: You are a senior man. Nice reasoning and straight up. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by jewelpeter(f): 3:18pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
I know its disheartening to you but try to understand that she needed to work so she won't be a liability to you.I had a similar experience but we sorted it out cause my fiance trust that I can't cheat on him worst still my ex.so if she could open up to you just forgive her and try to communicate more to know your kind of woman.it will show maturity on your part. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Mjshexy(f): 3:29pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
First she did bad by sleeping over in her ex's crib without your knowledge, but OP are you also saying she has been sleeping in her ex's apartment for the past 2weeks? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by wirinet(m): 3:34pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
jewelpeter: Understand what exactly? Sleeping in your ex's house without my knowledge or permission? I do not understand how maturity comes into play here. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by wirinet(m): 3:39pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bullhari: I hope your wife or fiancée sleeps over at her ex's room and then you find out months later, and I hope that you thank her for being very matured to show you are not ijiot. Who is talking about reaching out to ex's? I hope to you reaching out does not mean sleeping in the same room with them? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by wirinet(m): 3:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
nandyz: Most kids here are just trying to sound matured. Why would someone still maintain relationships with ex's after marriage? It doesn't make sense. If you still need friendship and emotional support from your ex's after marriage, why marry at all? There is something called emotional cheating. Cheating does not always have to be sexual I had a fair number of ex's in my heydays, but as soon as I said I do before God and the law, I deleted all their contacts and blocked them all on social media. I explained to them why I had to do that. One of them even tried to destroy my marriage and called my wife saying all sorts of rubbish. I had to change that line to stop the harassment. The lady did wrong by engaging in relationship with the ex without the knowledge of her fiancée, and had the audacity to sleep (or be sleeping) at his place. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by BJ0SE(m): 5:21pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Why would she pass the night at her ex. What Audacity and you telling me to my face. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by BJ0SE(m): 5:26pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SenorFax:You underestimate a woman. |
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