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Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Reader530: You really have a big heart woh, people like me HATE shearing personal space, unless you are a blood relative. Don't have a girlfriend( I hate responsibilities at this stage), so this arrangement is good for me. All my friends no am blunt, don't like freeloaders who stay more than 48 hours, I make sure I make that very clear, of course I will feed you well for that 48 hours & even dash my room while I sleep for parlour, after that 48 hours you must leave( I will provide transportation fare), unless you have a very good explanation & prepared to feed urself, YOU WILL NOT STAY 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by grandstar(m): 10:53pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
kimbraa: A friend that comes to you home with only the shirt he has on to stay should give anyone worries. Best he can do is to be open with his friend and give him a deadline. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by ridbell01(m): 10:56pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
tell him you are travelling if you are in ikorodu tell him you are going to SEME and you are going to sleep a week just go out and come back the second day in the evening you would not meet him |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by marvinsync(m): 10:58pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Reader530: he should already know that he has overstayed his welcome , but if he hasn't then he is a bad friend and my mum always told me to throw bad things away which is what I will tell u if he is truly just ur friend then u should simply tell him. " guy pls fvck off" and he'll understand no seriously just tell him ! ur not I'm a gay relationship here not only are u accommodating him but feeding him tooo!, dude ur too much already ,one in a million friend just tell him like I said and all will be well , with u ! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by hajimutex1: 11:02pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Those said you tell her to go, it depend on the level of your boldness, but there is a way of killing rat without shade the Blood, use gesture to tell her that you her broke where as you you find something to eat outside rather than buying food for her to eat with that she we just tell you that she wanted to travel else where. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by georgeceekay: 11:03pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Just keep farting every 5 minutes. I'm sure he will run away. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Abfinest007(m): 11:03pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
tell him something came up u want to travel or u tell him one of ur relation maybe ur niece any female person is comin to live with u |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by lolaluv1(f): 11:03pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Lesson to all: An unwanted visitor, like bad fish, starts to stink after 3 days (African proverb). 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by charlieLegend(m): 11:05pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
quite simple. tell him your landlady has started complaining that you are violating your tenancy agreement to stay alone. had a similar case, a friend of mine came to my base withh the idea to stay for 4days Bt ended up staying for 3Weeks and was looking forward to stay more. i used the same landlady method. he left that day. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Ifeoluwagoldoo1: 11:05pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
OneCorner:Shea u no hear say nah one cloth the guy bring ni |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Akexstinger(m): 11:05pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Please don't ask him to leave....don't create enmity or create any memory in him that you drove him out in his trying times. He will never forget that. I have been in this situation before....I came to stay with my good friend and was forming good boy sweeping the living room and washing the dishes...though i came for a purpose, after finishing what I came for, he asked me to stay with him that the house was kinda quiet and not lively, I agreed based on normal guy wey i be too, trying to find a place and look for better job. Just after 3 days, his countenance changed , I already knew something was up , as I was packing my things, he told me to leave. I told him no problem. As I was packing my stuffs, a text message entered my phone. Lo and behold it was an interview invite for a job in another state. I told him about it, and he gave me money, I travelled immediately to the company and passed a night with a friend. The following day we were 10 that came for the interview. The interviewers were up to 8. When it got to my turn, questions from different angles were coming in, then the CEO said something " I need this boy to work for my company. HR , please pen down his name and finalize with him" . The one that shocked me was " we will give you apartment "...And since then I have moved on. My friend is a good guy, a nice guy. We talk always as if nothing happened between us but the memory is always there. If people come to stay with Me, I always picture their situation with the situation I was facing back then. If you are going broke, just open up to him that you are going broke and he should also augment. He will understand and can make calls to people to send him money . He will surely restock the food store. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by lolaluv1(f): 11:06pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Goldminceo: Funny. But makes plenty sense. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by talktimi(m): 11:07pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Reader530:hire a girl that'll come and harass you for the "100k you borrowed" two months ago, she'll promise to arrest you and "your brother" within 48 hours if she doesn't see her money. Tell oga to move his things that you're travelling the next day and you want to lock your door 10 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Rollitout: 11:11pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Show him the head of a yam 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by columbus007(m): 11:13pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Quiescere:na small boy,don't let him prank you. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Acidosis:Many will do, don't underestimate them |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Raylight2(m): 11:16pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
cook once a day while you eat outside, tell him no show from Npower
he'll run and leave you. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Adebowale89(m): 11:21pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
staged a short piece of drama. receive an emergency call in his presence and give him a day that you would travel, he won't be left with any choice when you tell him you're leaving and he can go and visit when you're back you don't need to tell him straight like that because no condition is permanent, he might be the only person you will need perhaps in the future. so in such decision, wisdom is needed I understand that you're tired of him but apply wisdom, don't be too direct 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Afamed: 11:25pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
expert234:Ignore the 419 |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by chelsea2014: 11:28pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
In such a situation it take wisdom,you need to apply wisdom because this life hmmm thing change such a things happen to me when i was in school,my roomate don't use to contribute to buy provision due to lack of money the burden to heavy for me to carry,i just told him guy i can't continue like this find something do to this situation on ground i dont know may be he borrow money next day we buy provision.but after our graduation he secure a job in one big company his now a millionaire although he use to assist me financial now but anytime i remember the day i feel sad.just tell him in the way he will not feel somehow use wisdom 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by notoriousbabe: 11:29pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Give am snipper drink now |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Aarenasbaba(m): 11:29pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Tell him your fiancé is coming home |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:29pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
denjjy:He will ask you to show him the way 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Platony(m): 11:32pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Bro,...If u cn apply dis tactics it wil help u though i dnt knw hw ur relationship wit ur frnd is or hw trustworthy he is bt,...plan wit ur girl if u av any, tel her to cm n visit u unannounced,.... She'll stay for lyk a wk n during her stay, let her start showing sm funny attitudes while u start getting angry unnecessarily. Ur guy go tire for d house especially if na self-con or jst one room. Then, always form bn broke...go out n eat in a restaurant, clean mouth cm house. No dey buy fuel put for gen.... Him go run!!!!! |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Reader530(m): 11:36pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Aarenasbaba:I told him, he said no problem, he can stay with her. I told him, I will travel he said, I should give him the key, he can manage the house even in my absence. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Bouncingbabyboy(m): 11:36pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Reader530:rent another house for him.... What are friend's for?? |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Dammylois(f): 11:39pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP....THANK GOD HE'S A GUY,HE SHOULD BE MORE UNDERSTANDING |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by justtoodark: 11:41pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
go radical...call police on him.... tell him you will call police on him if he doesnt leave....the fear of jail will drive him away...... |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by JON01: 11:43pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Same thing happening to me at the moment... Friend been with me for the past 1month.. Am FED up walai |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by johnydon22(m): 11:45pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
kimbraa:Does it matter? Even if it's a year, month, week, day or even an hour. When someone needs their privacy, they need it and no one is entitled to accommodation from another. I will be empathic but not to the point of unconvincing myself so much that i get fruatrated. The OP sounds fed up and this is a point no one should entertain. He is not the cause of his problems and it is not his responsibility to carry it for him. If he thinks he can't cope with it, his friend should go and sort himself out. I think you kinda are. I rather think his friend should not push the limits of his luck on their friendship. Don't be a liability on someone else because we are struggling and its hard enough already to add someone else to it. His friend should know better than overstay at a friend's place. You viait, you leave.
I agree. Tell him you need space and want to be alone that it's time he left. The best you can do is to very polite and kind with it |
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