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Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by engrMikemd(m): 8:05am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Babyforever:that will be harsh. you are a blunt woman |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Miache(m): 8:08am On Aug 10, 2018 |
sisisioge:Thanks for this, my friend been here for two months wan con turn Mario... |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Mightyify(m): 8:18am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Talk to your friend, make him tell you the truth about his situation. You never can tell what he's going through.... help him the best way you can... please don't allow him leave with quarrell. Most fresh graduates usually have this problem of accommodation,we should learn to help out... tomorrow is pregnant. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by frozen70(f): 8:24am On Aug 10, 2018 |
You will have to be careful with the way you will go about it to avoid issues He is stranded and frustrated and he is looking for where to stay until he sorts himself out, but financially you are not yet stable to keep him Tell him your girl friend is having accommodation issues and by next week she will be putting up with you pending when she will get a good accommodation and you will like to have your privacy when she is around If you do this, he won't blame you for his exit because the reason given is acceptable by any matured man |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by xxgig(m): 8:26am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Akexstinger: i am happy for you, sometime late last year to early this yr, i was stranded, eventually put up with a relative for about a month, i knew is plan to send me packing and was working hard to make sure i leave before he ask me too, eventually he fast tracked is plans and i had to leave (seeing hew has changed the lock of his apartment) even though i wasn't sure where i was going to pass the night that day but i survived and few days later i got a place for myself, thanks to supportive friends i had, Till date i have nothing against him he is still my brother and i see is act as the push i need. Fast forward to June, an acquaintance called me that he his stranded and wonders if i can accommodate him till month end i immediately ask him to come over. After observing him for 3 days i realized all he ever told me were lies, his movements depicts that of one who is been hunted or running away from something, eventually i made him open up, even though i could not confirm his story i felt betrayed that he valued his life over mine and put me in harms way. Hard but i had to tell him bluntly how i will and he can stay till month end has he had earlier requested but must leave after then. The Op is in a tight corner he should get is friend to open up to him, its very difficult living with someone who is not straight forward, i still feel bad that i ask the guy to leave without bothering if he has somewhere to go, but my own safety was at stake too. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by 9japrof(m): 8:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Nancypunni: Get lost |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Abimbola94: 8:43am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Don't cook for three days and keep complaining of no food in the. Settle your belle for canteen. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by oyetpel(m): 8:46am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Acidosis: You are one of the real persons on this platform, some people just comment as if they are perfect. Anybody can be in this situation and it's hard to say it face to face with the friend to just leave like that. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Chopwater: 9:00am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Seeing thread like dis makes me to always b grateful to a Guy Dat accomodated me for almost two years in Ibadan. He is yoruba nd i'm 4rm south-south. we were nt frends b4, i'm nt his broda neither does he knew me 4rm anywhere. d first day we met he took me in. He acted like a big broda nd a father to me. He never showed any sign dat he tired of my stay. I left on my own when i hav saved money to rent an apartment. @op he is ur frend nd he needs ur help nw. no adult wil b happy dat he is leaving wit someone. he needs ur support nd encouragement treat him like a broda.encourage him to look 4 a job let him start life afresh. I promise u wil reap d reward later in life. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by einsteine(m): 9:03am On Aug 10, 2018 |
AmeLonRo: They should wash your car because you are housing them? Why not just charge them rent since you are housing them because you expect them to give you something in return? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Nobody: 9:22am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530: tell him. simple. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Blonchilli(m): 9:27am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530:That's not a good advice. Don't try it. This life is a pot of beans. Tomorrow you might need this your friend. Talk to him, explain what you're going through. And if he wants to stay tell him he has to help around not with cleaning but with probably feeding himself occasionally. If his hygiene is the problem tell him he has to get more clothes. One never knows tomorrow. You both are adults so act like one. Don't tell him to leave, communication is key bro |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by dokkyelele(f): 9:58am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Hmmmmmm You should have had full though of thus before you let him in. A proverb says One hand we used to call someone in and then when things go wrong you use ten hand to push them away.good politely way My friend....I will be having a female visitor and I will need little privacy. Another way My friend...am travelling for a project and won’t be back for awhile...please I want you to have a place for yourself or go back and I will call u. But if this doesn’t work cause some friend are crazy like pests. Just go to market( I hope it won’t get to this but it work 102%) buy peacock egg. Pap, alligator Pepe, bird feathers, cola nut, little palm oil and coven. Put all together like juju and place it it your room as if u are doing ritual for money. I bet u.....he will not only leave your house...he will unfriendly u. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Teeboi56: 9:58am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Babyforever:I know u can't do it if it's u |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by alezzy13: 10:00am On Aug 10, 2018 |
itsede: Guy leave that thing. The person that you why dey accommodate the friend no get him own problems too? Yes nobody prays for any serious difficulty in life, but i struggle to see how someone, a guy for instance, will just turn a colleagues home to his own as well, month after month, sometimes even up to a year, simply because he's passing through difficulty. Mba! IT IS WRONG!! |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Predstan: 10:08am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Guy... Struggle and get things done together... If he's your friend then he can share your clothes.. I know If he's not so close to you, he will not be spending more than two days in your house. Calm down bro. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Stmiceel(m): 10:11am On Aug 10, 2018 |
With this your post now, I go sharparly decline my friend. I know him and I can't manage him. He is laucy, fetish and expensive. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Originalsly: 10:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Bro..... I guess you feel you should treat your best friend as best as you can...for as long as you can. That's all good... but you need to ask yourself are you his best friend?..or even friend?...or are you his port in times of storm? Has he ever made any sacrifice / go out of his way to help you? If he were really your best friend he would've told you his situation from Day 1. He hasn't. It's not for you to sit him down and ask him. He already has a sad story...so don't even ask. Open your eyes...you are being used....and will continue to be used. Some guys be playing women in this way....but as a man...you need to gather your balls and act like a man. How can a man be disrespecting you...in your house...and you are afraid to talk to him? How can alarm bells not go off in your head if someone comes to stay....with very little or no change of clothes? That's a fugitive right there....a man on the run. Is he hiding from thr Police?..or cultists? You are harboring a fugitive. Should the Police or whoever locate him at your residence...you really believe they will grab/butcher him and not you as well?..... (birds of a feather flock together) . I guess you believe you can explain. My advice to you...give him a meal...as soon as be is finished...tell him he has to go...NOW. No explanation...no discussion. He has nothing...has to wait for nothing. If you give him time...he will take your stuff to take with him. Be a man. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Aarenasbaba(m): 10:50am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530:Confront him ma brother and explain things to him.... Try to act as a man, build the courage |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Aplaudez(m): 10:50am On Aug 10, 2018 |
OneCorner:did you even read the write ups nawao!!! |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by MichaelSokoto(m): 10:51am On Aug 10, 2018 |
OP goan siddon. My cousin com stay my crib. Only 2 times wey our pot of beans finish, aaah carry am go corner tell am say, "o'boy, landlord dey draw me for 3 months house rent debt oo! like dis like dis, aah don package my akpoti 4 smo kaya to take kawa @ d 1st beak of dawn. See d house key incase u dey take over. Hope u can dig it?" till date aah still dey cut cap give dat guy 4 "1st to vacate d house" competition! 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by DEBJOCH1(m): 11:17am On Aug 10, 2018 |
guy don't be wicked, you said he lost his job, isn't it? he is going through something and all he need now is your assistance, no responsible man will want to be a parasite to his fellow. to the glory of God, here in Lagos, more than 4 people have stayed under my roof, now they have their own home and family, they were all my senior, but today they call me uncle, despite the age difference, you can imagine a 37 year old calling a 30 year old "uncle". DON'T BE SELFISH MAN, FRIENDS HELP FRIENDS. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Savagedguy(m): 11:17am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mumu You want to chase out your friend just because of an apartment. Fool! You no get scope. You don't tell a Nigga to leave your house, unless you're married and finds him uncomfortable. |
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Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Pentools(m): 11:53am On Aug 10, 2018 |
MichaelSokoto: Omo this is the best advice up in this matter, person don do me same although I leta decode but I understand am perfectly well, in turn I don do am to person too. Real niggas don't put gals those they are not married to first before another nigga, if to say na family member dey come that one better or that you are violating landlord policy u penned down on the agreement that you are the only one to occupy the apartment. Not this blah zay blah people are yapping. Nice one niggi... 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by ernwale(m): 12:06pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530: You should have just told me instead of coming to advertise it. I will leave your house today. Thanks for all you have done for me. I appreciate |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Oyerinde16(m): 12:12pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Babyforever:U ARE MEAN, and I put it to u if u have a friend whose house is just like your own any day anytime u will no dream talk less of looking into his eyes |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Reader530(m): 12:18pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Savagedguy:We have heard you Mr. Failed Condom |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by eyinjuege: 12:20pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
ernwale: Obviously he didn't know how to tell you in order not to hurt your feelings. Now you know, everyone will be happy you'll do the needful. He's also obviously struggling to make ends meet. You should have told him the truth when you came to stay with him, and he would have planned better or let you know you can't stay for too long. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by rapheal5(m): 1:05pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Guy u dey try can't remember d last time I had 2 square meal it's either 0 0 1 or 0 1 0 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530:It is obvious from your post that your friend is not being sincere with you, what with telling you different things i.e. being sacked and being on annual leave. I think you should sit him down and get him to tell you the truth and move on from there. However, if you think he is inconveniencing you, let him know that and u guys should find a solution to it. |
Re: How Can I Ask A Friend To Leave My House In A Good Way? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Reader530: There's no point harboring someone who's not straightforward with you. Tell him to JUMP OUT OF YOUR HOUSE NOW....... BYE BYE. |
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