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Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by slivertongue: 11:22pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
His sistas want somebody dey can control. if d guy loves u he wil try 2reach u bt al dese absentee bf are full of drama |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by clemz85(m): 11:23pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
OlaoChi: Tell them o, who knows how was sponsored to travel, nawao! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
They got the dress you said No, they said yould stay with mother in law you said No. How many other Nos did you say. And how did you say the Nos. There are many ways to say No. Some mildy showing no offense smiling while you are not pleased just to get what you want, the another Saying it and showing you are mad and that makes you look mean and they see you as a demon. Anyways I'm sorry for judging. The deed is done already move on and Know how to relate with future in-laws. In-laws are one important part of a Union. They can make things good or bad for one. be careful 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by henrygale(m): 11:24pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
OlaoChi:You sound like you are same type of person with the guy in question if you are a guy, so just making an excuse for your not being able to make up ur mind nd allowed to be tossed about; or if you are a female, you are in the same class of the sisters who wouldn't just allow their brother be all coz they feel threatened by the lady hence they/you are selfish. For God's sake, what else do you want to learn or know about the lady that you haven't known after 3 years of dating, and all of a sudden she is no more a wide material 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 11:27pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
the 2 of them are stoopid, anyone who marries any of them is in trouble; man is controlled by his mother and sisters woman is coming to nairaland to take advice from strangers which is worse? are these not stoopid people? 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by vickydevoka(m): 11:31pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
His sisters might have just saved him from the hand of a manipulator. many ladies re naturally possessive, if theirs doesn't count they will not be happy at all. so sister I will advise u to amend ur ways incase u find sum1 else. #truth is bitter. many Nigeria men suffer in de hand of Nigeria women wen de take dem to USA, most especially wen de woman is a nurse. so every family wants to me very carefully in selection. not marrying today divorcing 2mao lyk tiwasavage |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Adedayo97(m): 11:33pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
CSTR1005:sir you said it all......this is what happens when you are fucking rich Lolzz she will even wait for extra 5years for the ring 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by karika2018: 11:34pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
@boss13.......clemz85....... God bless the both of you...................when she travels abroad now...you will see her change..... If this guy is not abroad this girl would have moved on since................. 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by rafsonnggmail(m): 11:34pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
My dear move on dat is not de end of ur life. Is better you have problem with the guy in person dan his parents and sister's. I pray God give you a man dat wld appreciate,love and care for wu you re |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by DaddyNimo(m): 11:44pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Beke2020:thank God he left, he's lucky he missed a control freak. oya goan marry urself na, sebi y'all claim not to depend on men.... lolzzzz |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by freecocoa(f): 11:45pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Ah! You want to marry a man with no mind of his own? Better be glad it ended before marriage, cos I assure you, his sisters will gang up and beat you, with him being unable to do anything about it. That's not a man, please try to move on, its hard but doable, take heart you hear? Ndo. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Ccdavies(m): 11:47pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Beke2020: My dear move on now is easily said than done. The guy was not man enough! Think he is the one that is not a man material! Don't beg again ,stop it chase it shows you lack self worth and your family begging him and his family is bad omen on you and your family! All I can see here is you being afraid and ashame of what people will say. My dead let anybody say what they wanna say,let friend mock you and your family but see beyond your today for it could be for your good tho in disguise... Be your self.. Don't call or pick his call. Stop acting desperate even if you have his number.... Concentrate on your job . Finally don't jump into a new relationship as a way of seeking escape route... For God who says Its not good for one to be alone will surely bring you the right man... Forget America CU's a bad marriage is bad marriage every where . A bad marriage is next to hell no matter the wealth around ... God help you! Amen. Yak aba |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by ADMAF(m): 11:49pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
You just avoided a ticking time bomb! Your parents should be thankful. Love is whats blinding u, think rationally. If u end up marrying him, it cud be a journey to a miserable married life orchestrated by ur in laws. Don't worry, dnt mention. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by firebaby(f): 11:49pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
chiommy123:This is the best advice ....that she didn't start anything with this family not complaining now...she should ask those who have seen the picture of the future and still enter into it....God will give her her own bone of her bone In Jesus Name Amen |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by firebaby(f): 11:51pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
henrygale:Yes o |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by DilyAtlantis: 12:11am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Hello poster, I'm privileged to read your post and an honor to give you my honest reply. First, you allowed this happen to you by loving a man you haven't been with. Probably because he stays outside Nigeria made you and your family to look like you have no other choice except him. You want to get married to him by all means. You allowed someone to find a man for you, it's wrong. It should be someone find a woman for a man. And that's why your ex doesn't have any value for you. He sees you as one of those desperate girls who always wish to marry someone staying outside country. Your mom even went to beg them, beg for what? What manner of act is that. Is it because they are rich made you and your mom loose your values before them? In fact, what is your worth as a woman, go and attach value for yourself and be a lady of intellect. Men will be praying to marry you when you have some value in you. Most of you ladies think being successful is all about getting married and producing children. You don't even want to work hard and be a boss lady. Look at Linda Ikeji, she became a classic woman to the extent she doesn't want to marry. Do you why? because she doesn't want any man to come and be controlling her wealth and you are there begging for a man to marry you. You are a desperate lazy woman with no respect for yourself. And that's why they rejected you. First, go and work on yourself. Be productive and I assure you, you will marry the man of your own. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by divinelove(m): 12:12am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Lizilicious:shut up already so your chicken brain cant see the lazy bitch is just a gold digger, Loving him more n the mother even begging. American dreams shattered. How on earth do u do introduction n still waiting for 2yrs for marriage proper n not know the man is not convinced 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by divinelove(m): 12:20am On Aug 30, 2018 |
DilyAtlantis: spot on 100000000 likes The lazy bitch is a gold digger American husband is why she is killing herself and ready to wait for 10yrs. meanwhile that dude might even be in South Africa. When I read the part that her mother went to beg the dude I knew she was from pauper family without self worth 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Moneytize: 12:24am On Aug 30, 2018 |
miracood:Chimo...building materials?
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Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Ikpongiton: 12:28am On Aug 30, 2018 |
if you're not a wife material ,you're not a wife material.simply put. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by marvinsync(m): 12:30am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Beke2020: now if the guy feels scared of u then he should get to know u , like ask for a simple date or an outing , but if ur cousin is right and they already got another woman for him and he's the kind of 21st century idiot that marries anyone mummy brings for him then let the fool go! it's painful but remember it wasn't only u that wasted 3 years of ur life !!! he did to and he even wasted money think about that! in other words try what u can , and remember it's not by force , ull get over it . 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Missonas(f): 12:31am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Beke2020:The scratch. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by bossrillboss: 12:36am On Aug 30, 2018 |
sorry op..av bin in ur shoes bf too.it still hurts me till date nd I have tried my best move on bt I av erased d word marriage from my dictionary.just pray to God md move on. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Ikpongiton: 12:44am On Aug 30, 2018 |
henrygale:if u feel threaten wit d character of your bros wife 2 be,will u allow it,if u can stop it? everybody want his\her brother to marry,but not a bad wife |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by SAMBARRY: 12:46am On Aug 30, 2018 |
If they can be so controlling to the extent of determining your wedding gown and trying to convince you to stay with them So that they can harass you well You will be a house girl in your husband's house because you will be severely abused. You better thank God for shutting the door that will have led to your misery and move the fok on 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by blazer2018: 1:04am On Aug 30, 2018 |
My dear, u just dodged a bullet...pls move on with ur life. I believe this family will not allow 'that guy take u abroad with him...and since they were insisting that u live with them; they want to be in total control of ur life and marriage...run for life my dear...I know it won''t e easy to get over d shame it might have caused ur parents and d heartbreak...but trust me, it is better than decades of emotional torture...now picture urself living with them and ur husband abroad-what this means is that ur man will never have enough time to get to know u personally, hence, he will be depending on d duo to feed him news about u...and with the kind of hand his mother and sister are showing, it is obvious u will be at heir mercy all d days of ur life if u force ur way into d family. Plus what do expect from a divorcee 'with 4 kids who now lives at her mum's; all her frustration will be directed at u. When u have a man who doesn't have a mind of his on and only listens to his mother and sister at every turn; such a man is a ticking bomb in any relationship. If i may ask...doesn't the guy have a father? Or is d mother divorcee too? If yes is d answer...My dear, i rejoice with u and ur parents. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by dominique(f): 1:05am On Aug 30, 2018 |
I'll pretend as if I didn't read the part that said "UK embassy" and assume this story is true. All I can deduce from the story is a low self-esteem girl who sees marriage to an abroad based man she has not seen physically as her only ticket to success. If all she wrote about her man's family is true and she still wants to marry into such family, then her desperation is legendary. A man that gives his people the avenue to resent and disrespect you is one a sensible person flees far from but this one is begging to marry him because she wants abroad husband. The most annoying part of the 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by blackgold2018(m): 1:23am On Aug 30, 2018 |
GloriaNinja:Thanks dear.. you are right. There must be definitely something she did that made the sister dislike her at last. The story is one sided. She painted herself the victim here. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by lilyheaven: 1:23am On Aug 30, 2018 |
You better run for your life, How can you marry a man like that, are you crazy? You want to marry dumb dee. Thank your star, because God loves you, 1 Like |
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