mrphysics:
1. The lady must be working and earning nothing less than 170k/month. [s]
2. She must be leaving alone.
3. She 'should' be mobile (optional)
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She must be changing her hairstyle every 2 weeks.

All these are my requirements (Men are not meant to suffer)

donstan18:
Generally, marriage is the legal or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship[Specifically a union between a man and a woman].

As we all know, most men[Not all] wait till they are financially buoyant enough to start up a family, because it's mainly a man's responsibility to pay the bills in his home, and he should be prepared.

But does that mean a lady who has only 2k in her account is finacially good to go or fit for marriage? I mean, like how much should a lady worth before accepting a marriage proposal from a man?

OPINIONS from either men/women will be welcomed.

pocohantas:
If you want a lady that is gonna bring something to the table, marry an evening newspaper.


That said, as long as she has potential... marry her .

donstan18:


You have a very good point, but I think you misunderstood me.

I mean, as a lady you are, how much do you think a lady should atleast have before going into marriage?

Mira200:
For ladies, any amount is worthy.

spiceadole:
A woman's financial worth is not important.
Most men don't care if a woman earns anything or not.
As long as a man is comfortable and can provide, foot bills, a woman doesn't think twice to accept his proposal.
On social media, men say they like independent ladies but in reality, they prefer to marry dependent women.
The reason is obvious.

pansophist:
I'm a traditional man when it comes to conjugal union. A lady that I intend to settle down with must meet the following.

Young and fertile. I'm in my mid twenties, and won't settle for a girl that is at least five years younger than me, preferably 10.

She must be beautiful and in good shape.

Compatibility is a must. Need I say more?

Must be willing to have my kids before her 30, in her most fertile period of her life.

She must be a literate, not necessarily formal education, albeit, autodidactism will do.

She can be poor as hell, I don't care. But if that makes her a leach, then I'm not compatible with her.

She has the choice to work or not, although the livelihood of the family is my responsibility.

Katier00:
Make sure you are working and support your spouse. Don't go to a man's house without financial support, don't just bring your hole and culinary tips to the table. Most men will abuse you, so no amount is too small or big. The point remains bring in some financial assistance to your marriage.

pocohantas:
If you want a lady that is gonna bring something to the table, marry an evening newspaper.


That said, as long as she has potential... marry her .

pansophist:
I'm a traditional man when it comes to conjugal union. A lady that I intend to settle down with must meet the following.

Young and fertile. I'm in my mid twenties, and won't settle for a girl that is at least five years younger than me, preferably 10.

She must be beautiful and in good shape.

Compatibility is a must. Need I say more?

Must be willing to have my kids before her 30, in her most fertile period of her life.

She must be a literate, not necessarily formal education, albeit, autodidactism will do.

She can be poor as hell, I don't care. But if that makes her a leach, then I'm not compatible with her.

She has the choice to work or not, although the livelihood of the family is my responsibility.

mrphysics:
1. The lady must be working and earning nothing less than 170k/month.
2. She must be leaving alone.
3. She 'should' be mobile (optional)

She must be changing her hairstyle every 2 weeks.

All these are my requirements (Men are not meant to suffer)

pocohantas:


With the situation of the country, most youths are still trying to find their feet in their 20s. Like you said, most men wait till they are financially stable to get married. Now, if this man is in his 30s and as usual, looking for a girl in her early-mid twenties... It won't be very wise of him to expect much. If he wants more, he should look in his circle of working individuals, which would most likely consist of his age group.

To the question, I think if she has a sense of responsibility, is frugal, has a job/skill and can bring something to the table, she is good to go. It is now up to the man to decide if that something is okay for him.

pocohantas:
If you want a lady that is gonna bring something to the table, marry an evening newspaper.


That said, as long as she has potential... marry her .

Raalsalghul:
Getting married and breeding in this country scares the hell outta me. How do you guys do it?

pocohantas:
If you want a lady that is gonna bring something to the table, marry an evening newspaper.


That said, as long as she has potential... marry her .

Katier00:
Make sure you are working and support your spouse. Don't go to a man's house without financial support, don't just bring your hole and culinary tips to the table. Most men will abuse you, so no amount is too small or big. The point remains bring in some financial assistance to your marriage.

mrphysics:
1. The lady must be working and earning nothing less than 170k/month.
2. She must be leaving alone.
3. She 'should' be mobile (optional)

She must be changing her hairstyle every 2 weeks.

All these are my requirements (Men are not meant to suffer)

Kennydoc:


A lady's character traits and virtues are more important than any amount she has in her account, especially in Africa. Even if she has a lot of money, our culture makes it such that the man still bears most of the financial burden.
As far as I'm concerned, any lady that either has a decent job or skill which can yield money and matches these up with sound character in the home front (including submission) is good to go.