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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Dilianne(f): 10:47pm On Oct 03
What people think about you, and the possibility for your dreams, is none of your business!

Kindly visit www.dilianne.com
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by immaculate1234(m): 10:51pm On Oct 03
move on its not simple but move on and let God do His will na my own be dat
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by mimimile93: 10:53pm On Oct 03
jessca048:
sex is not everything get your mind off to other things, keep yourself busy with activities doing so would help you get your mind off sex.

Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it's worth more than anything else in a relationship.


100% of guys come to you because of that hole..

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by EVILFOREST: 10:54pm On Oct 03
It’s only in Nigeria and India, SEXX is seen as a bargaining power. PEOPLE have gone beyond this phase and now offer it as KOLANUT in many places.
In fact such Topics shouldn’t hit the Front Page at all.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by mmadu5(m): 10:55pm On Oct 03
sniper is 50 naira buy one and drink
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by XshegzzyeeiX(m): 10:56pm On Oct 03
Liliyann:
I took out time to read the crap you wrote and I wasn't disappointed as usual!!!
Not even a sentence stating when you had to give her money for shopping or get gifts for her!!!
I commend the girl act of wisdom!!
How do you expect her to open up for someone that can not even take care of her financial needs??
Relationship are for real men with enough cash and not for penniless boys!!!
Will you keep kwayet

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by johnnyn1(m): 10:57pm On Oct 03
lalanice:
Congratulations, you are now one of those who'd lose a good thing because they couldn't wait for sex tongue

To be honest I should say sorry about what you going through because I understand completely but I also know that even if she stays with you, it wouldn't be like before, it wouldn't be original, it will all just be an act. Only few people will understand how this works.

hmmm..
It's like hell to be with a gal acting to be in a relationship with you.

Have been there before.
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Originalsly: 10:57pm On Oct 03
Hmmmm....a guy was deflowered. Wow.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by DAntivirus(m): 10:57pm On Oct 03
jessca048:
sex is not everything get your mind off to other things, keep yourself busy with activities doing so would help you get your mind off sex.


his mind is already fixed on sex... I'm sure he's addicted

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by lastempero: 10:59pm On Oct 03
Before u no want make the guy repent!!
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by AIZubair(m): 10:59pm On Oct 03
yettymuse:
Chai! See sweet love.. Love is an interesting thing especially when the guy is madder than the girl cheesy
RIP English!!! cry
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by bishopjoe02(m): 10:59pm On Oct 03
Liliyann:
I took out time to read the crap you wrote and I wasn't disappointed as usual!!!
Not even a sentence stating when you had to give her money for shopping or get gifts for her!!!
I commend the girl act of wisdom!!
How do you expect her to open up for someone that can not even take care of her financial needs??
Relationship are for real men with enough cash and not for penniless boys!!!
Parasite spotted,

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Philinho(m): 11:00pm On Oct 03
You better become born again too.Period. There is an expiring date for blindness and ignorance.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by TinyHacker: 11:01pm On Oct 03
Liliyann:
I took out time to read the crap you wrote and I wasn't disappointed as usual!!!
Not even a sentence stating when you had to give her money for shopping or get gifts for her!!!
I commend the girl act of wisdom!!
How do you expect her to open up for someone that can not even take care of her financial needs??
Relationship are for real men with enough cash and not for penniless boys!!!
You are st.upid

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by ContentedK: 11:01pm On Oct 03
Liliyann:
I took out time to read the crap you wrote and I wasn't disappointed as usual!!!
Not even a sentence stating when you had to give her money for shopping or get gifts for her!!!
I commend the girl act of wisdom!!
How do you expect her to open up for someone that can not even take care of her financial needs??
Relationship are for real men with enough cash and not for penniless boys!!!
a true gold digger spotted......

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by HARDDON: 11:04pm On Oct 03
geek4k:


Sir. I don't think getting another girl will solve the issue. Besides, never again will i be fooled by love.

You were not fooled by love. You simply lacked the basic prerequisite for such and easily gave your balls away on a cheap platter. Manipulated into a dock form, lost within the web of a woman's world, you went wondering where it all went wrong!

Read Dating Drills. thank me later.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by judility(m): 11:04pm On Oct 03
Then save up money and marry her, simple, case close.
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Amakavula: 11:08pm On Oct 03
OP you failed, you don't dick her like your life depended on it. you don't do it like it's your last day on Earth that's why she has gone to meet Jesus, the author and finisher if you know what I mean.. �

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Albinoflash(m): 11:08pm On Oct 03
Liliyann:
I took out time to read the crap you wrote and I wasn't disappointed as usual!!!
Not even a sentence stating when you had to give her money for shopping or get gifts for her!!!
I commend the girl act of wisdom!!
How do you expect her to open up for someone that can not even take care of her financial needs??
Relationship are for real men with enough cash and not for penniless boys!!!
words of an experienced LovePeddler undecided

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Amakavula: 11:09pm On Oct 03
OP you failed, you don't dick her like your life depended on it. you don't do it like it's your last day on Earth that's why she has gone to meet Jesus, the author and finisher if you know what I mean.. �

Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by joshjc(m): 11:09pm On Oct 03
that's why I don't have a girlfriend, women with dem wahala
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Yoshy: 11:10pm On Oct 03
geek4k:
I Need Help! I'm Emotionally Traumatized.

Hi guys!

It's quite a long read so I've tried make it as concise as possible..

I bet you'll enjoy every piece as you thumb through.

We've known each other for some time before i asked her out. She gave a "Yes" sometime on August 2014, which has practically made the relationship 4 years old.

At the earlier stage, we had great feelings towards each other, we where literally submerged in love, did stupid and childish things together. Y'al know what love turns one into nah.

We where practicing a distance relationship. Same city, although just a 45min road trip kept us apart ~ we never denied visiting each other as we often did. thanks to 2go and what'sapp.

Time past, amidst the minor quarrels we had a greater reason to remain put, we grew stronger in love ~ i bet we had the best teenaged age. Got to a point we believed we where both destined for each other i was even prepared to tie the knot if only nature treated my pocket right.

All the while, we never had any bed intimacy only kisses and bla bla... Not until sometime 2017 when i went in. Arrghh! Very awkward i must say, just try to imagine where 2 novices are trying to make something of it. All through the session i was just looking for my way in.

The subsequent attempts after taking several xx video tutorials was fairly good NOT GREAT because she had a very bad sex beginning; a rape victim to be precise and that experience corrupted alot in her sex life. You don't want me to go into details, I hate to too.

[b]Note: [/b]She is a very brilliant girl who got great personality, more reason i loved her wholeheartedly. The not-too-great sex paragraphs isn't made to sabotage her memory but because it's a cornerstone of my ordeal with her.

Heads up guys! She started having issues with the sex experience thing. Not because it wasn't SO GREAT but because it makes her backslide from her faith. Ohh didn't i mention? She's from a very strong Christian home.

I guess the devil took its chances on us, never wondered why it took so long before her realization. Now she's trying to be that born again kind of person again. Guys! I'm sure you know what that means.

The privileges i used to enjoy as a boyfriend where all ripped away not even a kiss or bla bla to manage almost drove me into maturating. Not just that, this is also garnished with some funny acts, not having my time et all. On my end it seems she utterly turned her back against me.

The whole quarrels erupted and all made me look myself like a devil trying to deviate God's child. I on the other end I'm just a lover boy trying to fight back for his feelings.

Things deteriorated, we hardly talk and even if we do wouldn't last more than a minute, all the while i was just drowning in sadness and heartbreak.

I still remember when we broke up our sexual relationship and remained good casual friends. My mind chose to cut any connections with her but my heart said otherwise. I couldn't cut it down, the imaginations of never seeing her again dreaded me even.

Bluntly speaking. I'm very emotionally sensitive with dealings with her. My happiness depends hugely on her, hence, any unfair act she gives set my heart ablaze. that's exaggerated though, but it's just as bad as that. Every now and then I'm always emotionally traumatized and this has bad effects on me.


Take this opinion to the bank.

There are two possibilities of what's going on her mind.

1. She got tired of you (sorry), maybe found someone more interesting and decided to use her faith to reset from you before she moves on.

2. She lost herself and her faith while engaging on immoral relations with you, hence her innermost desire to connect back (I wish this is the issue and not the later).


In both cases, there is little or nothing you can do. Infact pestering her or trying to let her see reason will worsen the whole thing, make her hold you at lesser regard or even dispise you.

My Advice: No matter how hard it's, stay completely away from her, as long as it takes, both cases requires it.


When you do that, it will give her time and space to know what she actually wants and HOW.

Take your time off, life or love is not about sex, don't rush into another relationship, it's a total waste time at this stage.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by iPopAlomo(m): 11:11pm On Oct 03
Plain truth...

She's with another... you became boring... the sex sef... you no sabi do am...

Sister girl jaapa!!!

you serf move on...

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by geek4k(m): 11:19pm On Oct 03
ednut1:
How person go date gal for 4 years e never marry am

Lol. We're still very young and not ready for marriage.
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Jidebabs88: 11:19pm On Oct 03
Well, I do understand you. But, the solution is....simply go find the new faith she found and you both would be on the same page doing the right thing @ d right time.

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by sarafa68: 11:22pm On Oct 03
Op she deflowered you and who deflowered her
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by jflesh7(m): 11:22pm On Oct 03
undecided embarassed embarassed shocked
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by VillageHead: 11:24pm On Oct 03
Guy go collect your clothes where you baff o! No try call village people for dis mata o! Our hands dey clean!

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by geek4k(m): 11:28pm On Oct 03
Yoshy:



Take this opinion to the bank.

There are two possibilities of what's going on her mind.

1. She got tired of you (sorry), maybe found someone more interesting and decided to use her faith to reset from you before she moves on.

2. She lost herself and her faith while engaging on immoral relations with you, hence her innermost desire to connect back (I wish this is the issue and not the later).


In both cases, there is little or nothing you can do. Infact pestering her or trying to let her see reason will worsen the whole thing, make her hold you at lesser regard or even dispise you.

My Advice: No matter how hard it's, stay completely away from her, as long as it takes, both cases requires it.


When you do that, it will give her time and space to know what she actually wants and HOW.

Take your time off, life or love is not about sex, don't rush into another relationship, it's a total waste time at this stage.

I'm sure the problem is the latter. I honestly respect her wish and desire but don't you think it's selfish and a wicked act? I mean she just left me dating myself.
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by JamaicanLove(f): 11:43pm On Oct 03
angry
Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by ponti93(m): 11:46pm On Oct 03
Na so one babe... Tell me one time sey i made her deviate from church... Say she wan break, she don find jesus back... I say no p... I zoned her out completely... Travel out join... 3mnths later got her text... Dat she misses my touchs bla bla... Make she cme bak... I tell am say sorry oh, sey i don find jesus grin

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Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by jaxxy(m): 11:46pm On Oct 03
geek4k:


Maybe you should read the post again. I'm not in for just the sex, infact i only mentioned it because it's the very reason why things turned against me.

Great. Whatever u do don’t change urself for anybody however make adjustments where necessary and work on urself. Rebuild the communication with her from the basics. If u have good lyrics there are ways to get her attention back and even make a church gal act ur way, u just need to know the right lyrics and probably the way u treat her bt then let her make the choice for herself.

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