Many comments here are not realistic.


Even while having real sex people masturbate before they can jack off.
Some fellows hardly have orgasm while fvcking their spouse unless they had mind sex with someone else.

To me Masturbation is not bad.
What matters is the addiction that may come with it.

Addiction is the problem. Addiction to anything is bad not just masturbation.


Masturbation saves marriages especially for offshore workers

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

terrible habit.just lyk most additive habits it's difficult to stop.
u will outgrow it.i only stopped mine when i had my first kid.
i took it as a personal insult to myself to continue d habit.
i stopped having d urge after two days.this is 13 years of stopping.i fit watch two hours porn and still not have d desire to self-service.
nwaAmaikpe is a fool.

I can never forget a beating my Dad gave me the day i broke his expensive chair out of anger. I still remember till date because stars flooded the whole of me! Please make ABOLIKI your best friend! Anytime the urge come visiting, rug ABOLOKI on the head and let it stay for just ten minutes. Guy,, you will thank me the next day.

dis masturbation thing is a solo problem to most people oo.. I don't de fr d game since 2011

EVILFOREST:

Get a Girlfriend and study your BIBLE as well, how...?
my MAN your ADVICE is beyond comprehension.
Should be rated the worst advice.
In fact its an indictment on the intellect of many.
Where do you really stand...?
Are you a Born-Again Christian or a BORN-AGAINST Christian....
What will the Girl be doing...? In addition to the BIBLE
Will both of them study the BIBLE together..?
Please make me understand better..

If u are studying ur Bible because u want to evade mastubation, it wont work.
Study ur Bible because u want to get closer to God and do his work. Stopping masturbation may come later.

Ideally don't know what advice to give to you but please stop. It's so bad,.. have you heard of the sucubuss and incubus? These are the demons that are specialist in this sin, they are the same demons that work on your dreams where you have sex.to cut the story short, you masturbate once they accompany it with all sort of negativity, badluck, disappointment, failure etc

Vidio of u masterbeting let be be sure before l tell u wot to do

Who hid NwaAmaipke's post

I can never forget a beating my Dad gave me the day i broke his expensive chair out of anger. I still remember till date because stars flooded the whole of me! Please make ABOLIKI your best friend! Anytime the urge come visiting, rug ABOLOKI on the head and let it stay for just ten minutes. Guy,, you will thank me the next day.

tropaz:
Try out fasting and prayers...
Moreso, know that every sperm out of you is another mile away from your breakthrough...

Keep masturbating if u want to remain in poverty

Can you state a practical and concrete reason to back up this your claim

jidemoh:


Oya bring ya preek here! I will help you cut it. That way, ya masturbation days are over.

Very sick reply to a young lad seeking help.
If you got noting positive to contribute why not shut the f-up

98% of men do masturbate, it not a sin. My advice is don't worry about it. Just moderate the frequency.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Brother, a lot of people will advise you against your freedom. Some will make jest of you as already seen. Some folks have refused to grow up. We see them spilling immature comments and contributions on this platform. Please and please don't listen to whoever will counsel you to continue in masturbation. You won't like it in the future when the repercussions starts to surface. By that time, all those people giving u wrong counsel will not be there for you. Worse still, they will still make jest of u if u come back to narrate your ordeal. Anyway, everyone is entitled to his / her opinion. The onus lies on you to choose who to listen to. Having said that, I want to give you my candid advice on ur predicament.

1. Give your life to Christ. I am not asking you to just be religious. Live for God and you won't regret that.

2. Get someone who you know is a genuine Christian for counseling. I am not talking about church goers or religious folks but someone who truly lives for Christ. If you see Vivian as such, u can confide in her but ask her to also link you with a genuine Christian brother who can go extra mile with you to help out

3. Get rid of all sexually explicit materials (books, magazines, films etc) around you.

Bro you can stop it, let me give you the stepss.
Give to any Bible believing Church , eg. Redeem, when there's an alter call , go out and give your life to Christ genuinely and watch the holy Spirit start a new you.

Just try this onee.

Spiritual bigots will try to convince you that it’s a terrible sin and you will be going to hell for it, don’t listen to them, more still, don’t ever think of sharing with with a gal, that’s even more crazy, you’ll always regret telling her in the future. Now, personally I don’t see masturbation as a terrible thing, the addiction part is the problem, watching porn is also not a very good thing cos you can easily get addicted to it too, don’t push your self too hard, the more you think of not masturbating the more the urge will grow within you, try to kill some spare time, and try not to be in your room alone. Well, most guys start masturbating at 14/16 and when they get towards 20-23 they stop it and start the real thing. Basically I think it’s part of your growing up, you will learn to deal with it in your own time, don’t allow anyone make you feel you are the worst sinner, besides God listens to your earnest heartfelt prayers, just a go to him and confess your very weakness to him, ask him to help you with it and am sure you will deal with it.
Basically don’t allow anything or anyone make you feel terrible about masturbating dude, majority of guys do it, doesn’t mean it’s right, and am not saying it’s wrong either, just that if you aren’t comfortable with it, work on stopping it
Good luck

Lacomus:
Bro you can stop it, let me give you the stepss.
Give to any Bible believing Church , eg. Redeem, when there's an alter call , go out and give your life to Christ genuinely and watch the holy Spirit start a new you.

Just try this onee.

Going to Church or having the Holy Spirit within you doesn’t break habits dude, continuous practice which involves falls and fails, breaks them

Arijude:
Can you state a practical and concrete reason to back up this your claim

Well, I'm not a religious person bro. But I'm over sure my life got quite better since I stopped Dat shit

I can't hide anything here.If someone like can quit masturbation everone can quit it no matter how deep you have gone into it.I started masturbation in 2009 and stop in 2015.I wake up one day and say to myself I have to stop this because it has done me more harm than good,and definitely I stopped it entirely.There was a time I decide to stop,after few months, I still go back into it again.Its not actually easy to stop it but it is a bold step just take the decision and it will workout. Good luck

guy, Go to church, preferably, the Lord's chosen. You will receive your deliverance. i know what am saying.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

first of all pray to God for forgiveness.
if possible fast about it.
its not something you can just leave like that.
masturbation is a serious something.
it needs total deliverance.

just pray to God about it. I mean serious prayer.

masturbation is normal, even ur pastor masturbates to ease tension. Whn you stop feeling guilty After wanking, dts whn U'll b able to control it. mind u almost all guys nd girls masturbate...its nt bad. As u grow up and have more responsibility U'll see dt u won't av to masturbate unless u need to.

benjanny:
I can't hide anything here.If someone like can quit masturbation everone can quit it no matter how deep you have gone into it.I started masturbation in 2009 and stop in 2015.I wake up one day and say to myself I have to stop this because it has done me more harm than good,and definitely I stopped it entirely.There was a time I decide to stop,after few months, I still go back into it again.Its not actually easy to stop it but it is a bold step just take the decision and it will workout. Good luck

yea .
had same experience but thank God for everything.

Genuine repentance and accepting Jesus is the only way out. Give ears to what the sister is telling you. I have a testimony about that, Jesus also helped me

Get a job and have a girl friend that will kill your boredroom

monte231:
Gawd! You're a vision of loveliness!

Awwn... Thanks

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

You are now addicted. It won't go away no matter what you think. Unless you replace it with something else that is meaniful to your life. Because sexual thought is part of who we are but when we abuse it, it will take over.

Steps.. Destroy all the videos and images you have, Pray to God every day, read Bible and find a new purpose like learning new stuffs or handy skills. Then, your mind will shift, but the feeling will still come once in a while, that is now where the struggle will start, it's called "withdrawal process" because it doesn't want to go. Then, you try to run from that location else...Gbam.

Trust me... The habit will run away.

So... Stop the action by finding new stuffs to do, read your Bible, stop the HABIT, keep engaging in new stuffs. God be with you

Let's work on it together bro..
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Welcome to the club... Been doing that like forever and it clears the mind and relaxes the body. You still got a long way to go

IamPlato:
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You Be New Member Na. I Have Been in the Club For 47years Now. Glory To God!

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IamPlato:
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You Be New Member Na. I Have Been in the Club For 47years Now. Glory To God!

hahahahahhaahh...... Cloud nine

IamPlato:
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You Be New Member Na. I Have Been in the Club For 47years Now. Glory To God!

hahahahahhaahh...... Cloud nine

royalair:
Welcome to the club bro. Vaseline Crew of Nigeria. Nairaland chapter. We always give a free Vaseline to every new member. May we all rise to receive him

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