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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Alzirida(f): 8:43am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Many comments here are not realistic. Even while having real sex people masturbate before they can jack off. Some fellows hardly have orgasm while fvcking their spouse unless they had mind sex with someone else. To me Masturbation is not bad. What matters is the addiction that may come with it. Addiction is the problem. Addiction to anything is bad not just masturbation. Masturbation saves marriages especially for offshore workers 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Abortedfetus(m): 8:43am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Mokenano:terrible habit.just lyk most additive habits it's difficult to stop. u will outgrow it.i only stopped mine when i had my first kid. i took it as a personal insult to myself to continue d habit. i stopped having d urge after two days.this is 13 years of stopping.i fit watch two hours porn and still not have d desire to self-service. nwaAmaikpe is a fool. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by vRendoh(m): 8:44am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I can never forget a beating my Dad gave me the day i broke his expensive chair out of anger. I still remember till date because stars flooded the whole of me! Please make ABOLIKI your best friend! Anytime the urge come visiting, rug ABOLOKI on the head and let it stay for just ten minutes. Guy,, you will thank me the next day. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by leksite120(m): 8:44am On Oct 11, 2018 |
dis masturbation thing is a solo problem to most people oo.. I don't de fr d game since 2011 |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Alzirida(f): 8:45am On Oct 11, 2018 |
EVILFOREST: If u are studying ur Bible because u want to evade mastubation, it wont work. Study ur Bible because u want to get closer to God and do his work. Stopping masturbation may come later. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by DJMCOTTY(m): 8:46am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Ideally don't know what advice to give to you but please stop. It's so bad,.. have you heard of the sucubuss and incubus? These are the demons that are specialist in this sin, they are the same demons that work on your dreams where you have sex.to cut the story short, you masturbate once they accompany it with all sort of negativity, badluck, disappointment, failure etc |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by afamaustin(m): 8:46am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Vidio of u masterbeting let be be sure before l tell u wot to do |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by TissuePaper: 8:49am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Who hid NwaAmaipke's post |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by vRendoh(m): 8:49am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I can never forget a beating my Dad gave me the day i broke his expensive chair out of anger. I still remember till date because stars flooded the whole of me! Please make ABOLIKI your best friend! Anytime the urge come visiting, rug ABOLOKI on the head and let it stay for just ten minutes. Guy,, you will thank me the next day. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Arijude(m): 8:54am On Oct 11, 2018 |
tropaz:Can you state a practical and concrete reason to back up this your claim 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Crenzywilliams(m): 9:00am On Oct 11, 2018 |
jidemoh:Very sick reply to a young lad seeking help. If you got noting positive to contribute why not shut the f-up |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by mgbedianya(m): 9:00am On Oct 11, 2018 |
98% of men do masturbate, it not a sin. My advice is don't worry about it. Just moderate the frequency. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by destinedtee(m): 9:01am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Mokenano: Brother, a lot of people will advise you against your freedom. Some will make jest of you as already seen. Some folks have refused to grow up. We see them spilling immature comments and contributions on this platform. Please and please don't listen to whoever will counsel you to continue in masturbation. You won't like it in the future when the repercussions starts to surface. By that time, all those people giving u wrong counsel will not be there for you. Worse still, they will still make jest of u if u come back to narrate your ordeal. Anyway, everyone is entitled to his / her opinion. The onus lies on you to choose who to listen to. Having said that, I want to give you my candid advice on ur predicament. 1. Give your life to Christ. I am not asking you to just be religious. Live for God and you won't regret that. 2. Get someone who you know is a genuine Christian for counseling. I am not talking about church goers or religious folks but someone who truly lives for Christ. If you see Vivian as such, u can confide in her but ask her to also link you with a genuine Christian brother who can go extra mile with you to help out 3. Get rid of all sexually explicit materials (books, magazines, films etc) around you. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nobody: 9:08am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Bro you can stop it, let me give you the stepss. Give to any Bible believing Church , eg. Redeem, when there's an alter call , go out and give your life to Christ genuinely and watch the holy Spirit start a new you. Just try this onee. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Crenzywilliams(m): 9:09am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Spiritual bigots will try to convince you that it’s a terrible sin and you will be going to hell for it, don’t listen to them, more still, don’t ever think of sharing with with a gal, that’s even more crazy, you’ll always regret telling her in the future. Now, personally I don’t see masturbation as a terrible thing, the addiction part is the problem, watching porn is also not a very good thing cos you can easily get addicted to it too, don’t push your self too hard, the more you think of not masturbating the more the urge will grow within you, try to kill some spare time, and try not to be in your room alone. Well, most guys start masturbating at 14/16 and when they get towards 20-23 they stop it and start the real thing. Basically I think it’s part of your growing up, you will learn to deal with it in your own time, don’t allow anyone make you feel you are the worst sinner, besides God listens to your earnest heartfelt prayers, just a go to him and confess your very weakness to him, ask him to help you with it and am sure you will deal with it. Basically don’t allow anything or anyone make you feel terrible about masturbating dude, majority of guys do it, doesn’t mean it’s right, and am not saying it’s wrong either, just that if you aren’t comfortable with it, work on stopping it Good luck |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Crenzywilliams(m): 9:10am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Lacomus:Going to Church or having the Holy Spirit within you doesn’t break habits dude, continuous practice which involves falls and fails, breaks them |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by tropaz(m): 9:11am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Arijude:Well, I'm not a religious person bro. But I'm over sure my life got quite better since I stopped Dat shit |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by benjanny(m): 9:13am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I can't hide anything here.If someone like can quit masturbation everone can quit it no matter how deep you have gone into it.I started masturbation in 2009 and stop in 2015.I wake up one day and say to myself I have to stop this because it has done me more harm than good,and definitely I stopped it entirely.There was a time I decide to stop,after few months, I still go back into it again.Its not actually easy to stop it but it is a bold step just take the decision and it will workout. Good luck |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by belcom10(m): 9:13am On Oct 11, 2018 |
guy, Go to church, preferably, the Lord's chosen. You will receive your deliverance. i know what am saying. Mokenano: |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by sammiepraise(m): 9:15am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Mokenano: first of all pray to God for forgiveness. if possible fast about it. its not something you can just leave like that. masturbation is a serious something. it needs total deliverance. just pray to God about it. I mean serious prayer. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by LaJose78(m): 9:15am On Oct 11, 2018 |
masturbation is normal, even ur pastor masturbates to ease tension. Whn you stop feeling guilty After wanking, dts whn U'll b able to control it. mind u almost all guys nd girls masturbate...its nt bad. As u grow up and have more responsibility U'll see dt u won't av to masturbate unless u need to. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by sammiepraise(m): 9:16am On Oct 11, 2018 |
benjanny: yea . had same experience but thank God for everything. |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by dolirelola(f): 9:17am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Genuine repentance and accepting Jesus is the only way out. Give ears to what the sister is telling you. I have a testimony about that, Jesus also helped me 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Johnsown1(m): 9:18am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Get a job and have a girl friend that will kill your boredroom |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Joystark(f): 9:18am On Oct 11, 2018 |
monte231: Awwn... Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by damiflex(m): 9:19am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Mokenano: You are now addicted. It won't go away no matter what you think. Unless you replace it with something else that is meaniful to your life. Because sexual thought is part of who we are but when we abuse it, it will take over. Steps.. Destroy all the videos and images you have, Pray to God every day, read Bible and find a new purpose like learning new stuffs or handy skills. Then, your mind will shift, but the feeling will still come once in a while, that is now where the struggle will start, it's called "withdrawal process" because it doesn't want to go. Then, you try to run from that location else...Gbam. Trust me... The habit will run away. So... Stop the action by finding new stuffs to do, read your Bible, stop the HABIT, keep engaging in new stuffs. God be with you |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by samidbest001(m): 9:24am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Let's work on it together bro.. dzonalinfo@gmail.com |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by KosyJerry(m): 9:28am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Welcome to the club... Been doing that like forever and it clears the mind and relaxes the body. You still got a long way to go |
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Zivaharry(m): 9:31am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Zivaharry(m): 9:31am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Zivaharry(m): 9:31am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Zivaharry(m): 9:38am On Oct 11, 2018 |
royalair:ah jux de rol for floor... Hahahahahahaah bahdddd maannn |
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