go to Opm ministry in revers state and be cleansed if truly u desire to be librated

there u will be given a prayer assignment as regards ur predicaments and the rest is history

my regards

Pray to Marry soon

Avoid www.xvideos.com

Send a mail to me, I have good Christian books for you to read in this regard.

The power to change is not on nairaland neither is it in any "action plan" you may have. Will power can't help you either. You'll still go in that circle of deciding not to do it, doing it, then getting angry with yourself, wallowing in self pity, then you cry, ask God for forgiveness, decide not to do it again, and then you do it again.

Your sexuality isn't the problem, sir. Lust is.

The devil has not new tricks. The only skill the devil has is that which he used on Adam and Eve; DECEPTION. "my people perish because of lack of knowledge" remember?

Even I can't help you. I can only point you to He that can.

Tried not to write a book here sha. Lol

Just mail me, please.

Kabvic1@gmail.com

Go n get married.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Get Busy My Brother... Start Reading Books, Start Learning Skills, Start Working, Start Working on your self and the future you want to see yourself in..Try to keep yourself from being idle.. Pray To GOD Everyday to Help make you so Busy that you won't have time to Excite your self,watch porn etc

WHATSOEVER A MAN THINKETH IN HIS HEART SO IS HE. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT? LEARN TO CONTROL YOUR MIND. REMEMBER AN IDLE MIND IS THE DEVIL'S WORKSHOP. STAY BLESSED.

Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

This doesn't help. You may straff your girlfriend and still come back home to do masturbation.

Masturbation Effects on Your Health: Side Effects and Benefits
Medically reviewed by Suzanne Falck, MD on June 5, 2017 — Written by Annamarya Scaccia
Masturbation is a common activity. It’s a natural and safe way to explore your body, feel pleasure, and release built-up sexual tension. It occurs among people of all backgrounds, genders, and races.
Despite the myths, there are actually no physically harmful side effects of masturbation.
However, excessive masturbation can harm your relationships and everyday life. Other than that, masturbation is a fun, normal, and healthy act.
Keep reading to learn more about the side effects and potential health benefits of masturbation.
Masturbation doesn’t have any harmful side effects. However, some people may feel guilty about masturbating or have issues with chronic masturbation.
Masturbation and guilt
Some people may feel guilty about masturbating because of cultural, spiritual, or religious beliefs ( 1 ).
Masturbation is neither wrong nor immoral, but you may still hear messages that self-pleasure is “dirty” and “shameful.”
If you feel guilty over masturbating, speak with someone you trust about why you feel this way and how you can move past that guilt. Therapists that specialize in sexual health may be a good resource.
Addiction to masturbation
Some people can and do develop an addiction to masturbation. You may be spending too much time masturbating if masturbation causes you to:
skip your chores or daily activities
miss work or school
cancel plans with friends or family
miss important social events
Addiction to masturbation can harm your relationships and other parts of your life. Masturbating too much may interrupt your work or studies, which can lower productivity.
It may also hurt your romantic relationships and friendships, because you don’t spend as much time with your loved ones as you used to, or don’t pay attention to their needs.
If you’re worried you may have an addiction to masturbation, speak with your doctor or a counselor about ways to cut down on masturbating.
Talk therapy can help you manage your addiction. You could also cut down by replacing masturbation with other activities. Next time you have an urge to masturbate, try:
going for a run
writing in a journal
spending time with friends
going for a walk
For women who have sexual dysfunction, enhanced stimulation — including masturbation — can help increase sexual desire and sensitivity ( 2).
In fact, two 2009 studies found that vibrator use among women and men has been linked to an increase in desire, arousal, and overall sexual function ( 3, 4 ). Women also reported an increase in lubrication, while men reported better erectile function, according to the studies ( 5).
Masturbation can affect sensitivity during sex for men because of their technique. Research has shown that too tight of a grip on a penis during masturbation can decrease sensation ( 6).
Sexual health experts recommend changing your technique during masturbation to restore sensitivity levels during sex.
Masturbation is a healthy sexual activity. It has many benefits for your physical and mental health.
There are limited studies on the benefits of masturbation, but there are studies on sexual intercourse and stimulation ( 7, 8 , 9).
Research and anecdotal reports suggest that sexual stimulation, including stimulation through masturbation, may help you:
relieve built-up stress
sleep better
boost your mood
relax
feel pleasure
relieve cramps
release sexual tension
have better sex
better understand your wants and needs
Couples may also mutually masturbate to explore different desires, as well as avoid pregnancy. Self-pleasuring also helps you prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Some research suggests that regular ejaculation may lower the risk of
prostate cancer , though doctors aren’t exactly sure why.
A 2016 study found the risk of prostate cancer decreased by about 20 percent in men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month ( 10 ). A 2003 study also discovered a similar link between frequent ejaculation and lower prostate cancer risk ( 11 ).
There’s no evidence, though, that ejaculating regularly protects against advanced prostate cancer.
Hormone changes during pregnancy cause some pregnant women to feel heightened sexual desire. Masturbation is a safe way to release sexual tension during pregnancy.
Self-pleasure may also help ease pregnancy symptoms, such as lower back pain. You may feel mild, irregular cramping, or Braxton-Hicks contractions, during and after orgasm.
They should fade away. If the contractions don’t disappear and become more painful and frequent, contact your doctor right away.
Masturbation may not be safe for women with high-risk pregnancies. This is because orgasm can increase your chances of labor.
Masturbation is a healthy, natural, and safe way to practice self-care and improve your health.
Masturbating may have many benefits for your mind and body. Despite the possibility of addiction, there are no harmful side effects.
Feel free to enjoy self-pleasure without guilt or shame. Speak with a therapist or someone you trust about any negative feelings you have.

dovemart:

This doesn't help. You may straff your girlfriend and still come back home to do masturbation.

You must be a chronic case

Hello, all you need do is to cry out to Jesus Christ to help you. Accept Him into your life as your Lord and saviour.
Once you do this, just ask Jesus to help you overcome it...miraculously He will set you free from this demon of masturbation.
Just keep looking unto Jesus. Shalom.

YoungFr:


everything is possible if you're determined to do it, I stopped masturbating in the December 2015 and everything since I don't do that sh!t till date, although I'm married now and I do stay three to four days without sex, that simply means I'm not a sex addict. Everything is possible if you're willing to

You didn't stop it sir, you got married and HALT it.

Mokenano:



I don't like it and I can't stop it. I feel guilty after Ejaculation

they might be after you.

Lol, 11 years runing(active member of the vasline crew) it's really hard to quit, you quit for a long while and one stupid spirit will whisper into ur sex starved Brain and b4 you no vasline will pay the ultimate price. for me l think being busy! on daily basis and being married is the solution when you focus ur mind on being positive and productive it help alot

Just Give up and be strict about it...Safe ur strength for d real deal

my brother, you are in a serious bondage of a spirit, but if you are really ready to be free as you said, call this number 08134268414.

The only solution is to draw close to God. Go for deliverance so that the spirit behind it will be cast out by a real man of God, that is the only way you can be free. May God give you the grace to stop it.

falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day

Pls oga, is this same steps also apply to my own level of Masturbation?

I think am In the highest level of it. The thing is so annoying now to the point whenever I see soap, I became Hot.

It's well. The good side of it is that you know it is bad and wants to quit. call 08038869991 for help.

dont worry as you get Older, you will quit! get your self a girl friend, pls play Safe, HIV plenty.....

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

royalair:
Welcome to the club bro. Vaseline Crew of Nigeria. Nairaland chapter. We always give a free Vaseline to every new member. May we all rise to receive him

hahahhaha haha really so u guys even have a crew.. Interesting

R----ape a girl, it will make you feel more like a man

Legendkid:


May your daughter be offering her 'puxxy' to save the nation

Shege Ubanka!!

Your daughters and your sisters will be the Ines offering their puszy to save the world....

Mokenano:



I don't like it and I can't stop it. I feel guilty after Ejaculation

funny because in Europe it's almost crime not to..People talk about it freely..The problem o think masturbators have is low self esteem,environment and some kind of phobia which i think is peculiar to each individual...Don't be scared and attach minimal importance to sex as hard as it is considering the society u live but it's achievable....I don't have time unlike before would av given u my number and give u some guides.

But i hope u are smart enough to read in between my lines..May the Force be with you.

jidemoh:


Oya bring ya preek here! I will help you cut it. That way, ya masturbation days are over.

You yeye sha!! This young man needs help...no joke I beg

where there is a will, there is a way. Since you are willing to quit, you will find a way. it started like a joke, it became fun and then the guilt and pain. please receive Jesus into your heart today and go online and read articles like goggling on "How to stop masturbation " and I think you just might find the much needed help. Mind who you seek advice from. some people here have lost their fight and are a long way gone bro.

Candyflox:
hahahhaha haha really so u guys even have a crew.. Interesting

yea it's a beautiful crew filled with men of varlour, would you like to join we could get you a form

U can stop but it takes a lot of determination and reading the Bible. Masturbation can be demonic

yanabasee:
The Vivian you'd report to might just safe you from further wanking....She could let you have the real puxxy instead of the porn stuffs...

and even observin vivi in his presence might even make him rape her

mhd5757:

I noticed your name "RexTamadol" do you really take it? Maybe you can hook me up, I need that of 50 or 100mg because the only one available in my area is that of 225mg and its getting way too expensive.

I cnt laff oh!



Me no dey take am..... I jus like to be seen laik dat ni

If I help you, who go help me?

guy that's just the best way for you to stay without heartbreak... or better still buy a sex doll... gbam#lobatan