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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 3:38pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
lefulefu: Since you...and others think it’s so funny can you explain to me WHY men would choose to “hustle” this way? By preying on someone’s desire to find a help mate? Is that not cruel? Could life be that bad you would exploit someone’s emotions for a dollar? I’m just wondering where the mindset comes from and why men who choose to do this think it’s okay?? 2 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Oreofepeters: 4:30pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Not everyone is bad don't believe what these frustrated asshats are telling you. There are lot of good men here. Well I do love international dating of a thang just that the chance hasn't come yet. However he could be real, just try to play along and be careful.. that's all 4 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by seyezy: 4:47pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Not everyone in this country are bad. Even in your country, a company scammed me. Will i say that everyone there are scammers?. The guy might mean well. My advice is this, do not allow love over take your sense of reasoning in the dealing with the guy. 4 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Ishilove: 4:48pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
amjustme2:So young, yet so full of wisdom... |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Benscolari: 5:20pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
# why do I have a feeling this is another yahoo boy looking to plunder on gullible folks here? Just thinking out loud #BENSCOLARI SPEAKS 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by bkool7(m): 5:21pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
All I can say is: I'm an admin of a Christian Singles dating group on Facebook and I have had to expose many Nigerians just to keep sanity alive in that group. Most ppl in the group are Americans. Some of these my Nigerian brothers come to my wall and issue all sorts of threats that they'll find me and... My advice to you is to do a thoroughly detailed research on the dude. Take every and any red flag you see seriously. You know him better than we all do and some ppl are genuine. Just be very careful 3 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by BlackAdam55(m): 5:22pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:.how do we know you're not fake? It's just a question |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by BarristerAlarig: 5:45pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by BarristerAlarig: 5:51pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by bujebudanu1(m): 6:00pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Uglymugg: Lol
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sparkle6(m): 6:01pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Something is telling me that Op went to Lai mohammed school of technology. 2 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by bujebudanu1(m): 6:05pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
sparkle6: I believe the op is real Sha. Her English is fluent with no short words and slangs |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 6:14pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
BlackAdam55: Lol touché. Guess you just have to trust that I’m real ;-) It took a lot of courage for me to come here and ask for advice. It seemed to be the perfect place to do so! 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sparkle6(m): 6:14pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
bujebudanu1:And so? I fit write mine like that. Na just time to write when shortcut dey. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sparkle6(m): 6:16pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:And you just registered today? You Must be lai mohammed's daughter? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by BlackAdam55(m): 6:18pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:I can't trust you just like that,sorry |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 6:20pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
bkool7: Thanks for your comment. I actually did do as much digging as I could. 1) to make sure he was real and 2) to see if I could be being played. Through his Facebook I was able to see he interacts often with family and friends. Lots of tagged pictures with him at school (which showed he’s being truthful about college) lots of religious post (which makes sense as to why he was on a Christian site) and political things too. So all of that checked out to be normal and let me know he’s real. I did notice some of his friends joke about this whole “yahoo boy” thing which was concerning. There’s a girl he’s tagged in a lot of his post and pictures that he says is just a friend and that language there is contextual. Calling a girl the term “girlfriend” doesn’t mean that’s an actual girlfriend. Lol I call BS but then I’ve continued to deal with him. Trust me. There’s more to this story and once I find someone with a comment and feel I can trust I’ll message them privately to open up more. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by bujebudanu1(m): 6:25pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
sparkle6: I Know.but read all her story.theres no single slang. Nigerians.especially when commenting here on nairaland would make mistake. Or use some |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
BlackAdam55: Cool...then move along sir And Sparkle6 idk who or what you are talking about. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by dimelo: 6:51pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
@OP Nigeria as a country have suffered a lot with the bad name that some of this fraudulent stup** lazy asses around who aren't willing to build something for themselves to make money have given us, but i tell you there are lots of good people here. I think you just have to trust a little you know |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sparkle6(m): 6:53pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:If you want to know the the truth then My Advice is: 1. Go to google search and type in " Download This is Nigeria by Falz mp3" without quotes. 2. Get a fresh set of headphone and plug it in your phone. Make sure to tune it to the highest volume. 3. Open a fresh tab in your browser and search for the lyrics. 4. Play the music and follow up with the music. You can come back for interpretation if you still dont understand. 5. Now, if you can deal with that, go ahead with the relationship but if not dissolve to infinity now while you still can. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Les:must you destroy other people's plan of running away from this shithole country? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sandraade(f): 7:05pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
chat me on whatsapp, i will give u a perfect guide to prevent you from falling into fraud trap.. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:My dear Nigeria is not an easy country to live.If you are poor you lack access to basic amenities.Everyone is seeking for a way run out.But please help the dude he's after visa. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by bkool7(m): 7:07pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:I'll send an email |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: I get it...but America or any other country doesn’t guarantee anyone instant success. I think that’s what people who choose to use people for a green card don’t understand. When he and I discuss how much things cost here he’s always shocked. America does not necessarily equal greener pastures as to succeed you must work really really hard and I think that goes for WHEREVER you are. 3 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by musicwriter(m): 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018: And a white lady from Texas is disturbing me online to be friends!!. I had to tell her I am from Nigeria to see whether she'll profile me as potential scammer but she won't stop. My only worry is that you could damage the whole relationship just by what you'll read here. The guy could be none of that, but even if he is, all you have to do is don't send him money if he asks. But then you can't tell me you two would be true friends without helping each other in some ways at some point. You could send him link to this thread and let him know you read what people are saying about dating Nigerians or maybe if you have other ways of putting it. Good luck. WARNING: You could expose yourself to real scam right here on this forum. If a good scammer get you here he'll still scam you. The only time you'll realise you've been scammed would be after its done. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:my dear you will not understand. You can work really hard here and at the end you can't really feed. Go and research a story of a Nigerian man that was repatriated from Libya he said Libyan at war is far better than Nigerian at peace. We are suffering here unless you are from the ruling class.you don't need to blame him. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Emotionss: 7:22pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Op Not all Nigerian men are bad in fact majority of us are honest, hard working guys. So don't judge the young man base on his country rather judge him base on is character and personality. Just use your head when dealing with the matter of the heart. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
musicwriter: If I tell him I posted this...he will likely loose his mind and be super upset because it’s a sign of me not trusting him completely and that’s what he wants is for me to let my guard down and trust him. Buuuut it’s hard. I’ll definitely be careful with who I interact with on here though. It’s nice to see others thoughts but I posted this knowing the internet is a dangerous place to seek advice lol 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Emotionss: 7:24pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Op just trust on your instincts. 1 Like |
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