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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 2:07am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Op, i hope you can see some of our desperate men in this forum,especially the negative ones, they all wish, they were the guy, many of them wants to know the single site so that they can spam that site for only one reason to find ladies who they can "date" rely on and move away from the country they think is hell while chinese make lot of cash here while the Nigerians complain and blame the govt for everything. most of them here are not real men but dependent and desperadoes who dont mind squandering a woman life savings rather than them being independent financially and emotionally. i am ashamed of some of our men. some of them here wont mind dating you, your mother and grand mother just for green card, they are desperate and can do anything just for the green card. a desperate man is a dangerous man. to be sincere, your guy is genuine but also be watchful, this can also be a way for him to use you to move to the united states that may be his dream. if you wanna know if he is genuine and not desperate, come to Nigeria, live and work here in Nigeria. the desperate ones will be the one to tell you not to come but to send them invitation for them so that they can process their visas while the one who is into you genuinely, will invite you to Nigeria, show you off to friends and families and if you wanna stay, will help you to find a job and make your life easier in Nigeria. My point is know his intentions.take it slow, time will tell if he is into you or just another potential bloody Nigerian wanabe immigrant. my own rule for dating maybe it might help you, never date anybody that has nothing to lose. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 2:12am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: Lol She's not a fake. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 2:23am On Nov 02, 2018 |
EVILFOREST: Lucifer is already in America, and he was here from the beginning of the making of her. Until we get rid of his children, he will continue to be here. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 2:36am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa: Giiiirrrlllaaa. We need to link up! |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 2:40am On Nov 02, 2018 |
thebosstrevor: This...all of this is...great advice. Thank you!!! 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by obowunmi(m): 4:08am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: Don't do it. Find a man elsewhere. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by herolamy1: 4:41am On Nov 02, 2018 |
[s] ak475:[/s] Mr you’re an enemy of progress, this is the reason why our country have not progressed. When I see someone doing great all I do is to support them... it’s better you go think very well and change your ways.... if not karma awaits you in a very disappointing way |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by uuzba(m): 5:57am On Nov 02, 2018 |
dairykidd:She's even very lucky to see this website where youth talk openly. But for a Nigerian, guy to go to dating site? The guy wan ran. He no wan pay bride price for Naija. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by uuzba(m): 6:08am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018:There's a level of desperation in Nigeria. Unlike "Western" nations who's lowest earning citizens get benefits, bailouts, some cheque or whatever from the government, in Nigeria we get nothing. One can get hit by a car and die. No free ambulance or medicals. People die in emergency wards also 'cos they have no cash to pay. We don't have such rights. Occasionally someone might be helped by the government. But it's not a constitutional thing that people can claim rights to. So many averagely suffer. For those who have it going well for them, there isn't much of a set formula for their success. Sometimes it's just random luck, family connections, affiliation with the "right" people. Your dude might just be frustrated with the unpredictability of Nigeria and decide to take his chance on anything outside Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by ak475: 6:08am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Mcheew..kids and scammers every where. Time will tell.A 23 year old kid dating a 31 yr old lady he met on a dating site?Den of Yahoo boys? I rest my case. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by uuzba(m): 6:16am On Nov 02, 2018 |
thebosstrevor: You are the expert on men? And you yourself are not a man? How can this be? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by uuzba(m): 6:24am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by ehinmowo: 6:42am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: I hv stopped chatting with any international fellow (especially opposite sex) online altogether. Because of the level of their ignorance. Considering the present image that the country has, anyone that tells you he is a a Nigerian, living in Nigeria has 70% chance of not beeing a scammer. Most things about scammers are fake. They hv little or no traceable digital footprints. Comsidering the idea of using you to move out of the country. It might be true. But on a second thought, there are countries that are doing better than Nigeria that Nigerians can go for free. There might not be anything special abt ur country (be it in Europe or Notth America). Notwithstanding, to be on a safer side, if it excalates into romantic elshp, jst make him sign some documents b4 marriage. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nat404: 7:02am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018:Yes, a friend of mine does. He met this lady online too and it's been fantastic for both of them. I can connect you guys together but first, I need to know your identity. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Fhowe: 7:22am On Nov 02, 2018 |
lefulefu:the op is a scammer I wonder why people don’t get it ,trying to lure people to contact her how is it any of our business whom she is talking to on a dating site ,did she come here for advice before joining the dating site the ops account t was created yesterday for the sole purpose of scamming all this people eager to travel |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by sacx: 8:04am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Well Fe2018 my concern here is not whether or not he's Nigerian. It's just the age difference. Most Nigerian men are not comfortable with dating or marrying a lady so much older. Just be cautious |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Alezy(m): 8:08am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:wow....thanks for ur honesty 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Uglymugg: 8:21am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fhowe:You are the most dense human being on this thread. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:28am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: No problem, but what dating site did you meet. I might not have a chance with you but I might with someone else. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:34am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Tell us the site both of you met. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:35am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Uglymugg: hahaha, everybody they street. Shoot your shot bro. As you can see she's hooked with him, our advice makes no difference. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:37am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fhowe: She never mentioned the website they met. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:and she's a 31 yrs old lady,dating a 20yrs old boy common sense could have told her,that the age difference is very huge. , why can't she date Nigeria in the u s or are there no Nigerians there.? She's fake .@ fe2018 |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 9:05am On Nov 02, 2018 |
JjBankys: First, of all, you guys need to learn how to add and subtract. the lady is 7 years older which means she is 31 years old and he is 24 years old, what is the problem there? Men need to look at a woman's heart and not her physical adjectives or age. I'm speaking from the heart. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 9:16am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Alezy: You don't understand how much my heart wants to embrace you but these stories scare me to death. I can't take another heartbreak. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 9:35am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: Yes, we do, ask me anything you need to know. I have been on this site since 2011. Don't get discouraged because there are beautiful African people who are willing to explain their culture to you and will welcome you wholeheartedly. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:yeah,right. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:42am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:LMAO are you older than Alezy |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:No she's old,trust me even if the guy is not even from Nigeria,even if he's from Ghana Kenyan Cameron, etc .the Chance of him being real is very slim. let me say like 30%.do you know why? because most Africans hardly date women who are Older than them. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 9:53am On Nov 02, 2018 |
JjBankys: He is older than me, but why does that matter?. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:56am On Nov 02, 2018 |
khiaa:it's matters now,because this criminals mostly goes after older women your Alezy may be real .just saying. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 02, 2018 |
uuzba: i am a man like you but i hate it when some so of our called Nigerian men write bad about Nigeria so that ladies from western countries can pity them or can come save them as if this Nigeria is a bad place to live just like many of them are doing on this forum. pity has never taken a man nowhere. a man seeking for pity is a weak man. |
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