harkandey:
the point is that no matter how they use them, those lady's still not have senses

dominique:


Shut up, grow up and man up! You guys make baseless stupid conclusions whenever innocent girls are killed in such gruesome manner. As if it is not bad enough that rape victims are being blamed, victims of vicious murderers called rutualists too? How low can you people descend?

DanDeeBoss:
We are in best position not to follow misleading comments on nairaland....Trolls should be ignored.... BTW no vex....

frenzyduchess:
why would a sane person troll a topic as sensitive to this?, if you know that guy personally ,I suggest you stay far away, sometimes what people portray online are what they truly are . As hyper reality is where they get to be their real selves

Thanks miss.... Noted

DanDeeBoss:
Thanks miss.... Noted

Ranchhoddas:
Your comments were nice till you attacked broke guys. What is wrong with being broke? Even the Bible that you have as your signature tells us that there will always be broke people. This surge in ritual killings among our youths is just a symptom of the real problem -- our values.
The desire for money above all else. The world is structured in such a way that some people, most people will be broke regardless of how hard they work. And when people proceed to shame them, they get desperate and resort to extreme measures.

Whatever happened to contentment, to love for love sake and not for pecuniary gains. Everyone says they don't want their nieces and sisters to date broke guys, well this is the result.

There are not enough rich men to go around. We must change our values and our thought processes, the things we hold dear should be love, contentment, and kindness to every one regardless of their standing.
As long as we continue to worship Mammon, things like this will continue to happen and no amount of internet rage will stop it.

frenzyduchess:
As for me,,who ever wishes his neighbor evil, his household will flow with blood. One of my phobia as a Nigerian is dying in the hands of ritualist . Many taxis in my city are rutualist ,so I stopped using taxis now recently there has been cases of buses kidnapping people . So to even enter public transport is risky. And someone thinks its funny to troll.I repeat,stay away from the demented fellow,foolishness is contagious.

Na wao.... That's extremely bad....Same phobia most Nigerians have.... God save us all.... Thanks once again

quivah:

Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

DanDeeBoss:
Na wao.... That's extremely bad....Same phobia most Nigerians have.... God save us all.... Thanks once again

Elxandre:
Let's call a spade a spade.

We all know Nigeria is an unsafe country to live in.
This is the reason everyone, girls especially must be careful of evil associations.

This money mentality unfortunately is the root cause of everything, no thanks to the Pop culture. Yahoo boys masked as Music stars, doing nothing but promoting Yahoo.
Just check the top 20 songs in Nigeria right now, and see how many of them mock broke guys, and bodly promote illicit money.

Also Most ladies who come here to rant about these developments will still mock financially less capable guys offline.
How do you really expect a guy in his early 20's to own a Posh Benz and a sweet apartment in this hell hole called Nigeria without engaging in dubious endeavours?

There are legit rich guys, but the fact is most really rich guys you see are into shady stuff.

As a guy, I'm scared of these guys, but how is it that ladies don't give a damn, despite knowing the risks? I mean some even date known yahoo boys. It's just shocking.

I'm not saying don't date a rich guy, but you have to ensure he's legit enough.

DanDeeBoss:
Lol.. He was wrong too... I am not saying it's nice of him to say that.... You would have done better by ignoring him... That's Donstan for you

quivah:

Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

pocohantas:


Common shut up.
Fcking preek-licker. That is Donstan for her?
You can't caution donstan, but na she you wan caution. Ndi ara!!!

Pocohantas... Stop quoting me, Never you disturb me again.... The other time you called me an alpha male..... Madam pour your frustration on someone else..... You have gotten the attention you needed.......

majekdom2:
I never said there is anything wrong in a broke guy. I only said there is something wrong when a broke guys shames and blame a lady victim of rituals because he feels she only dates rich guys. Thank you again for re-iterating we dont have the right values and yes many Nigerians don't have empathy.

trapQ:
This is the best ever comment you've made on nairaland that is devoid of misorgyny. I hope you keep this up.

pocohantas:


Burn!!!
I was shocked too.
Ogres should learn from that poster.

smeag0l:
Where and how you meet a guy matters. I just cant stop laughing whenever I read comments ladies I hold in high regard make on this thread. There are millions of men who eke a decent living in Nigeria either through a job or business (at least I know hundreds of them including myself). The factis that these guys will not go to a club and pop 10 bottles of champagne in one night, they will not buy a car or other luxurious gifts for a girlfriend and they'll not spend money lavishly on frivolous things or events. And yes, i know a lot of guys like this that earn 7 digit salaries. We drive decent and not too flashy cars, spend moderately whenever we hang out and we are focused.However,the problem is that our Nigerian girls are easily intrigued by what they see. They prefer those guys that buy all the drinks in a club, drive the most flashy cars etc. Those guys don't know the value of money cos they don't work for it. That's why a lot of ladies fall prey

boborneyor:

quivah:

Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!


We can't even walk on the road these days.

Chiefjosy:


How should a man talk lol? Dat grace go disappoint you, e go shock you

dominique:
Whoever justifies this evil will die worse, more painful deaths IJN, Insha Allah, iseeee!!!!

I'm still traumatized at how Elozino met her untimely end yet one son of a scum thinks it is ok to make excuses for ritual killers. My prayer for all of you justifying this is that you become their victims one day. You will weep and beg for your lives to deaf ears while your body parts get a dismembered till you meet your unfortunate demise. Rather than come together and speak against evil, you're saying some people deserve to be killed because they're leeches and you expect it to be well with you?

Emaprince:
Madam shut up no body justifies evil.

What I can understand from most posts here is a warning to women.. Because 95% of Nigerian women are only interested in guys with flashy cars.. And the heavy spenders with questionable source of money.

How can a woman proudly claim she can only date men that owns cars etc? This is the result of their greed.

Responsible women usually don't fall victim to this yahoo plus guys... except in the case of one chance bus drivers.

Blame the evil? Yes! Same way we blame our criminally minded politicians. But then, this is Nigeria where evil prevails because there is corruption from the very top. There is no hope for now. Women should becareful with these guys with flashy cars and no traceable source of money. But dem no go hear.

Ranchhoddas:
You had to say didn't you?

I treat all humans equally. What women are asking for is preferential treatment.
This is outside the scope of this thread I guess, and probably outside the scope of your mind.
Bye again.

quivah:

Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

quivah:

Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

MannieA:



awwwwnnn...thank u b....kisses