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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by thunderbabs: 3:44pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
See this 21st century parent ooo . Give d boy apoti to carry and be doin squats or he shld point his finger on d floor till his legs cant carry him. They will learn Shioor. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jaxxy(m): 3:56pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1: U need to intervene promptly and let the younger know and respect the elder and if there is any problem btwn them it shud be directed to you. The older one also mustn’t maltreat the younger one. Anybody who breaks these laws gets the cane or beating. Sorry bt I’m not sure grounding alone will work in this case unless u know how to communicate effectively to them so they mature and listen to you. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Flog them . 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Yuceeluv(f): 3:58pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
I'd never marry a shallowminded person as you anyways.a wiseman won't dwell the success of his marriage on such frivolities. Oyerinde16: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by GenFunction: 3:59pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
very simple,teach dem how to love....when they begin to eat frm d same plate the love grows |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Do they eat together? The t ma a at from there. Trust me. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Clefayomide: 4:06pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Lol op things like this are bond to happen when the 1st born is a girl while d second is a boy. I remembered growing up I used to fight with my elder Sis but at the end she'd still whopped my ass [color=#006600][/color] |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by simplesearch: 4:06pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
The bodily harm part really calls for concern and consecual effort to quickly nip it in the bud, notwithstanding regular fight between siblings of diff sex is a common place especially when the boy occupies a lower wrong on the ladder. My Advice: Define their daily role and routine especially as regards household chores. let the Boy know you may be left with no option than send him to a boarding should he persist with such attitude, also try to find out from your boys school what his behaviour/ relationship with other pupils is like, if it is similar to that with his sister then he could be a potential bully and also suffering from ASD, If not the behaviour will fizzle out with time. Also don't forget to pray with your children on daily or regular basis while assigning them a portion of the Bible that can foster love between them, that's if you are a christian. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by black56(m): 4:11pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Yuceeluv:lols |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Rexmy(m): 4:14pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1:It's normal... I can remember while growing up, we were all time rivals but at the point when maturity sets in, we realized the need for us to accept ourselves as a team and support one another in everything we find ourselves doing. However, as a parent, you need to sit them down once in a while to share words with them on the essentials of seeing one's blood as a friend and not rival. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Tapout(m): 4:21pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
HavocGirlMile99: At that age it is not normal for them to be fighting and inflicting injury on themselves pls... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by SURElee(f): 4:21pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
It is a phase in kids growing up and parenting experience. As a parent, all you need to do is Instill the value of brotherhood and sisterhood in them so that sibling rivalry and competition doesn't rear up its head in their lives that will affect their future relationship. In a few years time. When they leave home to be on their own, it is this memories that you will miss because the home will be quiet |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Tapout: They are still kids... Chill... They'll be fine. Okay. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by wittyt98(m): 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
jeff1607:yelz?
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by wittyt98(m): 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
jeff1607:yelz
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jeff1607(m): 4:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
wittyt98: Bros hope u no b one of my village people o 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by chinex104(m): 4:41pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
they should learn 2 take turns afterall they r just kids; they don't understand wat it means 2 b fighting over stuff |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by wittyt98(m): 4:44pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
jeff1607:its not a crime to Watch out for our son is it?
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Poster, disregard any comment suggesting you should ignore them or that it will pass. Most times, it never passes. Constant fights graduates to enmity and rivalry between siblings if not checked early enough. Teach your son how to respect his elder sister. Get to know what causes their fights and instill discipline accurately. Most times, kids imitate their parents bad habits. Are you or/and your wife quick to anger? Do you Use abusive speech or fight each other in front of your kids? If you are guilty of the above, you need to stop it as soon as possible. God bless your home. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jeff1607(m): 4:59pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by taretoofine(m): 5:25pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
there is a dance called python dance |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Ugosample(m): 5:50pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Yuceeluv: He is a dad |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Yuceeluv(f): 5:53pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by NiggasInParis: 6:16pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Send them to Boarding school. Make them start taking church serious. Let them attend sunday school and children activities. Discipline them(but still be social at the and of it all) Get a koboko or dogoyaro cain. Kai, ka basu bulla. Be that disciplined and no nonsense dad, yet loving and caring. Evrything will take shape 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Julivas(m): 6:31pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1:Though they may fight occasionally, but fighting all the time is acceptable at all. I think you can discipline them thoroughly and then sit them them and tell them why they must love themselves as siblings. Let them know they should be defending each other and not to fight themselves. Instil the fear of God in them and watch over them May the Lord help you. Lest i forget, warn the younger one not to ever beat his elder sister. Best of luck. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Zeewirld: 6:58pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
kunleweb:. Are you an only child and what about their father? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Cumtroller: kia! must u comment? * shaking my head* its a pity 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by kunleweb: 7:23pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Zeewirld: Pardon? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by splankface(m): 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Lol its normal for the second to claim right since he's a man, am talking from experience cause am a second child to a girl, but be watchful. They will outgrow it. Its normal |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by mechanics(m): 7:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
you can correct them by punishing them either by flogging or frog jump. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Oyerinde16(m): 7:41pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Yuceeluv:it was on a light note, however u can't date me either I'm too tough for a lady that wouldn't shape up |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1:Tie them together, they must learn to live as one.. Lol 2 Likes
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