RoyalUc:



By taking his minus and giving him your plus...

Be explicit, please.

PrimadonnaO:


But you can't deny that was your problem.

Common, don't I have qualities you trip for?

henryhemon:


Isn't this better? I was so curious to know that a man will nag without signs. The truth was that you didn't like him well enough.....I can give those excuses wen I'm not so into someone but when I'm into someone even airborne I want to hear from her or I will make effort to leave a message across. We 've been there n done that. Truth is if we really care about someone, we will make out time.

Gbam!

Valerie47:
I made out time for him, but I cannot jeopardize my degree exam for him. I was seriously preparing for it and he was busy nagging me instead of supporting me. During that period, my head was filled with so many things and running around, he should have understood, why can't some people just understand? instead he wanted to nag me to death.

You can not tell me that 20mins to chat or 5mins on call out of 24hrs is too much. Even 1hr. If you split the time across the day, he won't complain. I'm sure you go full day without a word. Even if you have exam. You for no chop na because you get exam or project. There's nothing like too busy to communicate, except you are active COMPLETLY for 24hrs..... Anything else na just excuse and the level of importance that person is to you. Chikina

UyaiIncomparabl:


How can a woman add value to her man's life?

Don't be expecting, instead be ready to give. 99.9% of women today believes relationship is a means to get whatever they want from a man. A man can take care of you without giving you a dime financially.....Go and google it.

A mans job is not to come and be giving women material things, simply because you both are having sex. Sex is mutual, both partner gives it. There is no sex without a D and no sex without a V. I don't know where women got the theory that they are givers of sex and for that reason men should do whatever they ask....

Be handy
I repeat, be handy. be handy
Have something doing that gives you money. In turn use that money and solve a mutual problem.
Don't be a feminist
Perform basic house chores.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Be explicit, please.

You know ordinarily, we find it hard to put up with people's minus for long. Adding value to someone means making him/her better than you met him/her with time.
For instance, you said, "Dude was so indecisive, unstable and couldn't sacrifice. I don't want such a person in my life. I'll rather be single, please. You can save your petty love."
You would've added value to him if, after meeting you, he becames more stable and decisive (I'll always add, 'with time' ). That would have been your own sacrifice.

Remember, adding value to someone means making him/her better than you met him/her with time. Let him look back and say, "I use to... but my lady changed me.

Why didn't you call me? You don't care about me, do you even love me?
Meanwhile, I was always busy at work. Last time she came to my house I tried to make a meaningful conversation just to know what she got for her future but no she couldn't keep a good conversation but would rather talk about how her friend had a new bf or how her friend broke up with a new guy she just met, or the next glorious church service. And her puccy and my D ain't compatible.

Gettout here meehn

RoyalUc:


You know ordinarily, we find it hard to put up with people's minus for long. Adding value to someone means making him/her better than you met him/her with time.
For instance, you said, "Dude was so indecisive, unstable and couldn't sacrifice. I don't want such a person in my life. I'll rather be single, please. You can save your petty love."
You would've added value to him if, after meeting you, he becames more stable and decisive (I'll always add, 'with time' ). That would have been your own sacrifice.

Remember, adding value to someone means making him/her better than you met him/her with time. Let him look back and say, "I use to... but my lady changed me.

Dude that's a black female, they don't give, they only take from " them" everything. Lolz

SonsOfLiverpool:
Dude that's a black female, they don't give, they only take from " them" everything. Lolz

I've met those who give though.

But truly, most ladies like; "give me," "treat me like a lady," "you don't care about me,"...

RoyalUc:




I've met those who give though.

But truly, most ladies like; "give me," "treat me like a lady," "you don't care about me,"...

At the end of the day what do we do? Manage the situation.

Live happily when single and pray you have more money when married, life is short.

ttmax09:
Now you just described me. Though have not been in a relationship before.

Well,i guess we have many things in common then, Cox I've never really had a true relationship before too. Many fall but I play 'dumb' to not notice their overtures.

I got sisters and I'm gonna have girl child. So,i don't wanna break any heart coz I could be unapologetically mean. I prefer being heartbroken than the other way coz I forget and heal faster than anyone could imagine.

toprealman:
Common, don't I have qualities you trip for?

Your indecisiveness and lack of commitment negates them all.

PrimadonnaO:


We didn't date the same man, did we?

That just describes my ex. Even now, he's supposedly trying to fix things, but it's obvious he's still indecisive about what he wants.

Help him decide then

PrimadonnaO:


Your indecisiveness and lack of commitment negates them all.

You can help me get better.

toprealman:
You can help me get better.

You say that all the time and you barely ever change...

Dshocker:


Help him decide then

Yeah... So, I walked away.

HAkorehdeh:
can I even call it a relationship? It only lasted two to three weeks. I asked her out cuz i was feeling too lonely and bored.

Well, the first thing was distance; I'm party introverted and I prefer staying indoor unless it's a necessity. In that case, I felt the only thing she could offer is what she has in the head, unfortunately, she didn't just match it. At times I feel bored chatting on the phone with her. Yet, she disturbs me with calls everytime (like ten times a day) - note: she never for once called me for a minute with her airtime, all she does is to disturb me with drop-calls and I'd have to call her.


I always knew we are not compatible tho, I was only feeling bored and lonely.

lol...this perfectly describes one chick I just got last month ..is her name KDJ

Toks2008:


There is nothing like finding love. Just get someone who can tolerate your shit and who you can tolerate hers too.

lol u just drop d bitter truth but some will still not understand.

Hybridz:
Hmmmm! Wonderful submissions. As for me,i don't date/court if I know you don't stand a chance of becoming the mother of my unborn cuties.
I've however met some wonderful ladies. It's either they're already hooked, older or genotypically incompatible.

how do u change oil then?

millionboi2:
how do u change oil then?

Well,i don't need to,for now. My "car" doesn't travel and as such, 'servicing' needs not be done.

Hybridz:

Well,i don't need to,for now. My "car" doesn't travel and as such, 'servicing' needs not be done.

hahahahaha


Beta pinkin

millionboi2:
hahahahaha


Beta pinkin

I see you bro #ThumbUp

Valerie47:
For whatever sake it is, I seriously don't care. You don't expect me to devote all my time to you like a religion.

u dont even give him 10% of ur time

PrimadonnaO:


You say that all the time and you barely ever change...

Let's do it again....no need for this public show.

DONADAMS:
lol...this perfectly describes one chick I just got last month ..is her name KDJ

Lol, she's K too but not KDJ

HAkorehdeh:
Lol, she's K too but not KDJ

lol..good luck bro..have a nice day

UyaiIncomparabl:


Oh you guttersnipe, will you stop quoting me already?

Though I don't know you in person, but I definitely would be able to say quite somethings about you through your posts and quotes.

NarnieSnyper:


Bro, truly, some people don't just get it. I might love a girl to the moon and back but when it comes to my studies/career, if she can't try to understand, I let her go.

I don't know why some guys are finding it difficult to understand the message that woman is trying to pass.

the attitude u use to pass a message matters alot...trust me when i tell u the girl doesnt really have strong feelings for the guy

rainmaker12:

You can not tell me that 20mins to chat or 5mins on call out of 24hrs is too much. Even 1hr. If you split the time across the day, he won't complain. I'm sure you go full day without a word. Even if you have exam. You for no chop na because you get exam or project. There's nothing like too busy to communicate, except you are active COMPLETLY for 24hrs..... Anything else na just excuse and the level of importance that person is to you. Chikina

Then you dont know how insecure some guys out there can be. Even that 20mins go unappreciated

toprealman:
Let's do it again....no need for this public show.

Lol.

PrimadonnaO:


Lol.

Haba.... let's leave the past behind and move on to where we both belong. Miss you Sha.....

toprealman:
Haba.... let's leave the past behind and move on to where we both belong. Miss you Sha.....

Now, that actually sounded like him!