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Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by SKhanmi: 6:07pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Dont worry,Many people are also like that. I actually succeeded in making people forget my birthday except for some few stubborn friends.. You probably started out normal until you realized how superficiality has permeated every aspects of society.....not to mention how family experiences can change one's outlook This is how you cope....Behind a wall. Magnolia described it perfectly. Now,only you can make make the change in your life. Only you. Don't live by other peoples rules. You need to restart the search for what makes you tick. I did. It's not totally rosy but it beats being melancholic. You can be Ice cold & still be frosty happy 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by ValCon888: 6:07pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
This is one of the most interesting posts I've seen here since i joined not so long ago. And I'm glad people are beginning to speak up. People will think you're a sadist, psychotic, or a misanthrope, but trust me you're not. You're perfectly fine. When you understand the dynamics that make up the social relationship of a wolf pack then you can begin to understand who you truly are. You are a lone wolf. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Dyt:l thought I was the only one in this situation. I don't like celebrating anything even my own birthday. When it was time for my birthday I deactivated my social media accounts to avoid people wishing me a happy birthday 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Chukazu: 6:24pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Not feeling emotional about Christmas is totally fine. As i get older ,I quickly lose interest in such bandwagon activities and prefer my space, has nothing to do with been an introvert as I may consider myself. But you not thinking it wise to return people's compliments for the season is where the problem lies. That comes off as snobbish if you ask me. It doesn't take any thing to acknowledge such and still maintain your space 6 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by LordKO(m): 6:26pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Themellowone: Thank you. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Dyt(f): 6:38pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
virgoquin: Haha Haha Yes We are lots like that |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:46pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
castro316: I'm Virgo. Sept 21st. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by GrammarNazi1(m): 6:50pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Chukazu:Great analysis. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
carzola:''You're" 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by aorseer: 7:02pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
ignant:You get bad mouth sha 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Hopez456:i think it’s maturity, am also in this shoe 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:33pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Magnoliaa: I think you're right. I'm Virgo, and I'm sensitive and also be very tactless. Thanks for proffering a solution. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:34pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
aorseer: He doesn't. He's just blunt and I appreciate his bluntness. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:36pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Chukazu: Could uncaring also pass for being snobbish? If you say i'm snobbish, it's fine. I agree. I find it very grueling returning people's texts or calls. It's just so tiring. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:41pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
SKhanmi: Thank you. I appreciate. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Hungarriman: 7:55pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Quick question... Do you find your mind frequently wandering, especially whenever you are alone? |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Hungarriman: 8:08pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Magnoliaa:Yo, this is why i so much enjoy having a conversation with my mind most times, my mind never disappoints me when it comes to deep conversations. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Godson213: 8:14pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Are you a pastor daughter ? |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:The only difference between your plight and mine is that you are bothered and you need help fast,i'll suggest you reminisce on your early days,that way...you'll find the answers you seek. In my case,i know the cause...a useless man got married to a more useless woman who's now late.they got separated and abandoned a child below 2yrs.twas tough growing up. Now,you don't expect such a child to chalk up an atom of feeling nor emotion and i'm unperturbed cos I know the root of my predicament.to help your situation,read the first paragraph again...peace 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by castro316: 8:35pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Good I am glad you are aware of your zodiac sign. It is not unusual for you to feel this way. Second there is something you haven't achieved which is bugging you without that you might find it difficult to be happy. Pls set yourself free if not chances of going into depression might set in. Reply if I was. Helpful 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by sukerefakere(m): 8:40pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
I don't know how to define myself, mine is more complex and I'm loving it 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Desperatejoe(m): 8:40pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
[i][/i] we as humans really differ I have followed nairaland as a guest for heaven knows when now.,...but i really know i had to comment on these thread to settle my concise....everyone is at their respective homes celebrating xmas and the prospective new year while am at school doing mine.....am someone who neccessarily doesn't keep freinds and love his space.....have been tucked in bed since morning..and i will say these is the best xmaz i have ever had....so dear op you are neither a sadist or a psycho...i feel too much of everything seem to irritate you 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by castro316: 8:53pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Seeing things from the negative aspect is something you should watch out against. Learnn to love yourself and begin to discover special things about you. Virgos are creative sensitive and very kind. You are special. Use your good sides to encourage yourself. Practice acts of kindness and discover there are lots of people living worse than you and feel very happy. I am sure you will glow once again. Evenn if it is 2 things you like about yourself, hold on to it and find 3, 4, 5 things. You will realize you are loved. If you need a good friend request for me 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto:I have all those features except the last one . I thought it's normal |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Chukazu: 8:59pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Yeah...I understand. Then am even seeing beyond familiar interactions. In some proper official settings(like work environment) such could be considered insubordination with attendant reprimand. Because you duely understand what is going on with you , but folks out there would not...the reason I gave example of reciprocating compliment 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 9:19pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Pastor said in church today that people are depressed and unhappy because they are not sure about where they are heading or certain about their destination. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by victorian(f): 9:23pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
You are normal op. It's just that u are Simply broke Things ain't going the way u envisage So you are depressed and pissed at yourself and to the world Don't worry, be positive minded, talk to God about it. And things will gradually shapen up. It's a phase . It will pass 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by victorian(f): 9:25pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: He's right. But just focus on now, on today. Tomorrow will sort itself out. That's how I handle my life. I can't come and kee myself with worry. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by NiggasInParis: 9:25pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
So speechless. You just penned down everything i am going through right now...only difference is; I will say for me, i know exactly why I am feeling this way and trust me I think it might be thesame for you too... There are specifically two things that could be the cuase: "" Going through a phase of emotional and personal development and maturity that you feel so advanced in your thoughts that you seem to look down on other things and conclude them uninteresting and petty especially when it doesn't triggers an utmost interest in you...my gosh! How do I break this down!!! See, for example, Can you imagine my bro will be wedding on 28th and here am I far away from FAM and home like nothing is happening(funny thing is I am not even bothered) not like I don't care, of course I do..but this boils back to the second reason/cuase which is? "Not achieving things you have/had planned to achieve which you feel will elevate you to certain level and make you fulfilled to an extent. Like finances, a big project etc"" Trust me these are the two things that can initiate just anybody into the cult of feelings you have described above, and you know the most vulnerable? Are we introverts! Dam it.... Do you know my routine for today? Hehe...check it out I woke up around 8 am, turn on my laptop and watched a movie right on my bed till 11 am...if not that I was flat on cash I shouldn't have even gone out, so I after the movie I got my paranoid ass up to withdraw some cash got some food stuffs and back home..(you need to see the way I was hurrying to back home) came back cooked, freshen up and slept... Upon all these , on the background , are several text messages, WhatsApp mesages and calls and of which some which I didn't attend to... After a long sleep from 4pm to 7pm , i freshened up, turned on the tv, I am currently sipping on some fine red wine and blasting my Sound system with a particular song i heard on MTV which i fathom feats perfectly for this mood...... Rudimental - Live my Life... There is a lot I want to say, but I don't have the patience to write.. I am so forking anxious Now I feel so relieved typing this, like I have let a burden out of me and also recognize I am not alone in this..And like the chorus of the music playing on background playing, I will live my life! Hugs OP! To the MODs I think the thread is more than front page Worthy 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by faithfull18(f): 9:41pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
You are perfectly normal I guess. Some people are just wired that way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by avalontony(m): 10:12pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You can't have Jesus and be the same...... Talking from experience. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
LordKO: Gbam and out. 3 Likes |
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