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Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by obekediamondfuto(m): 1:41pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
IamPlato: Happy Christmas In arrears BRO |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto:what do you mean by taking it as a super skill?...well in my case,i absorbed it and moved on and it made me a disciplinarian |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by obekediamondfuto(m): 1:55pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
morningstar55: yeah..... that's exactly what I mean... having absolute control over emotions is actually a skill.... but not having them at all is the problem... which comes from suppressing them for a prolonged period of time note... control means having them but choosing to either express them or repress them and achieving that choice. I'm guessing u still have them but control them at will..... The case I'm referring to is not having them @ all... emotional detachment or emotional numbness as someone described above. People with this chronic or acute disorder find it difficult to express empathy or sympathy. Not a good thing @ all.... therapy is needed. those people I referred to as seeing it as a skill are doing just that.... the chronic form is not a skill.... but people suffering from it most times see it as one... |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:58pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
johnkey: No. I'm Virgo. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:58pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nedubest: What do you sell? |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:59pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Heartbender: Shut up! 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:00pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
damtan: I agree. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:01pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Ishilove: A lot. One of the reasons I hardly feel pleasure. It affects my work flow too. I'm also very pessimistic. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Ishilove: 2:03pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:It seems you have a lot of deep, underlying issues that need to be dealt with, my dear sister. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:07pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Mizwisdom: Who's not your equal? Phew. I don't want to do this today. I'll just let this slide. Bye. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto:my case is worse than that of the OP,when my mother died I just hissed and said who cares,when I woke up yesterday morning(being Christmas day),i picked my bag and left the house just to avoid the merry Christmas hullabaloo,the only act I exhibit sometimes is pity,that's when the person is helpless.when I said I absorbed it...i mean accepted it's who I am and I don't need help.but the Op needs help and I pray s/he finds it fast cos it might lead to depression 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Martinez39(m): 3:36pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Luckily, It left on it's own before I started tackling it. It lasted 3 months. Things that are supposed to thrill you don't and you are just numb by events. Even if you are a shit packer on the streets and everyone you know sees you, shame no go catch you. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Jagaban880: 5:25pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
IamPlato: Likewise |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
You are kind of a little bit like me only difference is that I have a few interests such as livestock, dogs and series, so I often look down and don't have interest talking to people who don't have thesame interests. I feel like talking to such people about these stuffs that interests me is a waste of my saliva and energy. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Let go of the hatred you have for people who haven't offended you. Work harder Free your mind from all negativity and you'll be normal 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
kai! Everybody in this thread is a psychopath. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Appelmoik(m): 8:42pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Appelmoik(m): 8:49pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: no need to,you are normal. I bet uve heard alot already ,so I wouldnt want to bore you with more. well, thinking positively about your self , the things you can do and your true value would help. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
mhd5757: Shut up. What do you know is psychopath. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by maklelemakukula(m): 11:25pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:this is so funny |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by maklelemakukula(m): 11:36pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Ishilove:let me report you to the mods Rule 19 broken Cc ishilove...ohh, ishilove broke this rule, who would have thought |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by maklelemakukula(m): 11:39pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto:you have spoken well |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by obekediamondfuto(m): 7:40am On Dec 27, 2018 |
maklelemakukula: ya, challenge is...... like I stated in my first post on this thread, the internet cannot do much for the op other than give her an insight into what the disorder is all about. to tackle the problem, she needs a therapist....someone that she can open up to.... listen to her plight, change her perception of things that happened to her et all. in my case my then-babe used me as a test subject ..... she studied psychology. and it worked, unfortunately she travelled few months after for her masters and her whereabouts are currently unknown to me. I'd have linked her with the OP |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by victorian(f): 10:13am On Dec 27, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: It will, be patient and keep believing. God may delay for our own good but He definitely fulfil what we yearn for, if He knows it aligns with our destiny and will bring glory to his name and lasting joy . |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by castro316: 10:37am On Dec 27, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: F - First A - Attempt I - In L - Learn I fail a lot too but I see it as a leading process or have you ever seen a baby walk with out many attempts of falling and standing again? Trust you will succeed. Cheers |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by ImaIma1(f): 11:57am On Dec 27, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You are not a psycho. I used to be quite unemotional but I am better though I am still impartial and unsentimental. There is one things that soften most people... having a baby. It melts the hearts of most women and makes them more emotional. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
I think you’re a psychopath UyaiIncomparabl: 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:28pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
9JAFULLBREED: You're definitely a psychopath. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You’re a psychopath and you need HELP. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by joudini(m): 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
Uyai mbakara, send me a mail. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:36pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
9JAFULLBREED: You are a psychopath and you need HELP. Only a psychopath recognizes a psychopath. |
Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
joudini: Why? |
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