BecaciaBarbie:

How old is she?


Wait, do you guys really think all ladies are this way? A lady who truly loves you and wants you will never compare you to other men not to talk more of wanting unprotected sex with you.... Please do away with her for your own sanity.

24...
tanks for this...I hear a huge percentage of Nigerian ladies don't like protected sex that it hurts them hence the increasingly growing number of STD incidence in African as a whole and Nigeria in specific..
ur response really changed my orientation about it.

dreamwords:
Don't dull ,go raw on her na, but withdraw before u cum

I take it you are not aware that sperm exists in pre-cum? Or that even if you withdraw that does not negate the fact you will get HIV and other STI’s ? Of course you won’t know any of this because you are far too clever. Far too clever that you are actually in a permanent state of idocracy.

The last screenshot totally disconnected... Meanwhile Op if u like urself leave Benue girls alone oo. If u attempt what ur mind is telling u na community kpekus u just help shelter

MissRaine69:

I take it you are not aware that sperm exists in pre-cum? Or that even if you withdraw that does not negate the fact you will get HIV and other STI’s ? Of course you won’t know any of this because you are far too clever. Far too clever that you are actually in a permanent state of idocracy.

Sis, everyone is not infected, since he is a medical personal he can run test on d gurl, iv been using withdrawal method on my girl and no pregnancy

Au79:

24...
tanks for this...I hear a huge percentage of Nigerian ladies don't like protected sex that it hurts them hence the increasingly growing number of STD incidence in African as a whole and Nigeria in specific..

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

dreamwords:

Sis, everyone is not infected, the guy in question is not dating a random girl and moreover iv been using withdrawal method on my girl and no pregnancy

That’s what you think.....how do you know she is not on the pill? Or takes Postinor? How do you know it’s only you she sleeps with? How do you know she has not any terminations?
The bottom line is
YOU DONT’T KNOW!

MissRaine69:

That’s what you think.....how do you know she is not on the pill? Or takes Postinor? How do you know it’s only you she sleeps with? How do you know she has not any terminations?
The bottom line is
YOU DONT’T KNOW!

Ok

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?

I don't even know if this is an insult or an advice.
well thanks for the insultive advice

dairykidd:
The last screenshot totally disconnected... Meanwhile Op if u like urself leave Benue girls alone oo. If u attempt what ur mind is telling u na community kpekus u just help shelter

she has been looking for a way to punish me primarily cos of the issue of unsatisfying sex...
I sent her 30k a day before the 5k demand seen in dat screen shot yet she stil "broke" up with me( she as broken up with me like 100times and always comes bak apologising so I don't take her break up seriously anymore )...everything habit she displays all boils down to the issue of sex...

MissRaine69:

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

not really, I doubt if anyone wants children with stupid genes.
but how do u come about the assertion that intelligence is inherited from mothers..last time I checked intelligence is not an x-linked associated trait

Op if as a medical doctor this is the kind of girl you want to marry, then I am sorry for you.

Au79:

24...
tanks for this...I hear a huge percentage of Nigerian ladies don't like protected sex that it hurts them hence the increasingly growing number of STD incidence in African as a whole and Nigeria in specific..
ur response really changed my orientation about it.

Hurts? Well, I'm not an expertise in that area but I'm definitely sure that's just one of those flimsy excuses by ladies who are not ready to be taken serious.

Au79:

she has been looking for a way to punish me primarily cos of the issue of unsatisfying sex...
I sent her 30k a day before the 5k demand seen in dat screen shot yet she stil "broke" up with me( she as broken up with me like 100times and always comes bak apologising so I don't take her break up seriously anymore )...everything habit she displays all boils down to the issue of sex...

Sent her 30k and she had the audacity to compare you with other men a day after? Where do you meet these ladies?

love has scattered this ones brain.

Until now ,i didn't know that body chemistry had anything to do with unprotected sex.

Oga,unless you are a cleaner working in a hospital,you need to be knocked several times on the fontanelle area.that way your head gon reset.

LadySarah:
love has scattered this ones brain.

Until now ,i didn't know that body chemistry had anything to do with unprotected sex.

Oga,unless you are a cleaner working in a hospital,you need to be knocked several times on the fontanelle area.that way your head gon reset.

am not a cleaner
unfortunately all my fontanalles are already fused so maybe the knock should be on the temporalis region...am serious here this one is talking about knock. come knock na

Au79:

am not a cleaner
unfortunately all my fontanalles are already fused so maybe the knock should on my temporalis region...am serious here this one is talking about knock. come knock na

Good a thing .Pls play safe,that's what you guys tell us,that's what is right.
And how do you guys discuss relevant s?Marriage is bigger than the shitty chat I'm seeing from her side.

Au79:

I don't even know if this is an insult or an advice.
well thanks for the insultive advice

It’s blunt and you need to hear some home truths
You are a high functioning mammal, you should not have someone put you in this situation in the first instance. Get a grip focus on what matters cause you are getting distracted. A woman who compares you to other guys what sort of wife will she be? When you can’t give her what she wants ?

Au79:
we have been together for a year plus and its been from one form of misunderstanding to the other...I truly love this girl and I really intend to marry her..am a medical personnel and I know the implications of indulging in unprotected sex especially with ladies in their early 20's and from a state in Nigeria with high HIV prevalence( i don't want to mention the name of the state) but she kept on insisting and its creating a lot of secondary complications in the relationship. I was thinking if I should just go ahead and marry her this year so I can be able to satisfy her sexual preference or I should just let her go. she is a nice person to be with. pls guys I need mature advice on this..

Console the number on the first pix

BecaciaBarbie:

Sent her 30k and she had the audacity to compare you with other men a day after? Where do you meet these ladies?

Primary school it seems ....

relationship is not a do or die affair.if u cant afford d financial load let her go biko.see as d babe dey task u like say u owe her money.

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?

Thank u for this, op is confused nd his question is irritating to my eyes coming from who he claims to be.
Like what other advice is he seeking for? Are we nt d ones who would go to a doc for such advice? Doesnt seem real to mi

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
[/b]Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?[b]
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?

Bolded part got me

jesmond3945:
Op if as a medical doctor this is the kind of girl you want to marry, then I am sorry for you.

He likes them immature and thick .....a sure why to be miserable
Maybe that’s his thing.

Bj5all:
So you have been eating the food with CD and she wants it raw, not that you don't like it raw but you arẹ scared of STDs.

This is a small problem na, both of you can go for full STDs test. You said you are even in medical line, this shouldn't be a problem at all.

Asking for money and comparing you with others is a sign of childishness. Stop taking children for a serious relationship boys will not hear.


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haha and d big question is she go gree go for test?

Two things I observed from your story.
1. You don't have a girlfriend.
2. You're still not a man yet when it comes dating/relationship.

BecaciaBarbie:


Bolded part got me

A girl asks him for money than calls him broke? And he is still confused about her level of maturity? He has not even started working properly and he thinks marrying her will solve all their issues?
A refund to those poor parents is in order....

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I had same experience with a girl from that state... Op I hope its not my ex you're dating?

MissRaine69:

I take it you are not aware that sperm exists in pre-cum? Or that even if you withdraw that does not negate the fact you will get HIV and other STI’s ? Of course you won’t know any of this because you are far too clever. Far too clever that you are actually in a permanent state of idocracy.

why are u even letting him know this sef.i laugh when i hear some guys saying that withdrawal method will prevent u frm getting hiv and gettin a girl prego.

Eveezy:

Thank u for this, op is confused nd his question is irritating to my eyes coming from who he claims to be.
Like what other advice is he seeking for? Are we nt d ones who would go to a doc for such advice? Doesnt seem real to mi

everything I wrote up there is real and true
tanks for your invaluable contribution

BecaciaBarbie:

Sent her 30k and she had the audacity to compare you with other men a day after? Where do you meet these ladies?

dem plenty for naija oo.dem dey use guys like op as their ultimate magas.

jesmond3945:
Op if as a medical doctor this is the kind of girl you want to marry, then I am sorry for you.

I am shocked too. Except by medical personnel, he means he works in the hospital. He never really said he is a doctor