Lolzz...
Craze dey worry you!

BecaciaBarbie:

When I hear "Maga" the description of a rich fat old married man comes to my head, not a young medical doctor as op but op is clearly one... a big one at that.

you really think am a maga.....how can you just conclude that about my personality just from a single story I wrote...do you know what we av gone through, the ups and downs and the sacrifices she has made in the past? so from the bottom of your small displaced heart u really think I don't know wat am doing .trust me if u were in my shoes u wil b a more mega maga...
this nairaland sha i expected comments like this sha... thanks for your contribution anyway..

BecaciaBarbie:

When I hear "Maga" the description of a rich fat old married man comes to my head, not a young medical doctor as op but op is clearly one... a big one at that.

not all magas are fat old married men ...some can be young.abi u never hear of young men who will use their whole life savings to sponsor a girl through secondary sch to univ and they got dumped in the end ..they got scammed nau .though older men get scammed more than younger men cos of their desperation to aquire fresh meat .

MissRaine69:

You are right there is too much stupid in that one. It’s best to let them find out the hard way..
Happy New Year

happy new yr

Au79:

you really think am a maga.....how can you just conclude that about me just from a single story I wrote...do you know what we av gone through, the ups and downs and the sacrifices she has made in the past? .trust me if u were in my shoes u wil b a more mega maga...
thanks for your contribution anyway..

I sincerely do not care what the hell you've both been through after reading that comparison in her chats... Pfftttt.... No matter what you've both been through, that's just too demeaning and it shows your very bad taste in women, clearly you don't know what marriage is all about or you under some kinda spell.

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?

You make sense.

Au79:
we have been together for a year plus and its been from one form of misunderstanding to the other...I truly love this girl and I really intend to marry her..am a medical personnel and I know the implications of indulging in unprotected sex especially with ladies in their early 20's and from a state in Nigeria with high HIV prevalence( i don't want to mention the name of the state) but she kept on insisting and its creating a lot of secondary complications in the relationship. I was thinking if I should just go ahead and marry her this year so I can be able to satisfy her sexual preference or I should just let her go. she is a nice person to be with. pls guys I need mature advice on this..

I'm not going to comment on your situation. Your girlfriend's atrocious grammar has left me so discombobulated, I can't even think straight right now.

*shudder

LadySarah:


Good a thing .Pls play safe,that's what you guys tell us,that's what is right.
And how do you guys discuss relevant s?Marriage is bigger than the shitty chat I'm seeing from her side.

Esigbo shitty chat o. I weak

Ishilove:

I'm not going to comment on your situation. Your girlfriend's atrocious grammar has left me so discombobulated, I can't even think straight right now.

*shudder

her bad grammar is more comprehensible than this your big grammar..
I hate sounding like am supporting her but you guys should just be nice with your words on her..

lefulefu:

not all magas are fat old married men ...some can be young.abi u never hear of young men who will use their whole life savings to sponsor a girl through secondary sch to univ and they got dumped in the end ..they got scammed nau .though older men get scammed more than younger men cos of their desperation to aquire fresh meat .

So true hahaha not to be tribalistic, this is usually common with igbo men lol it really seems it is very easy to scam men these days as "some" of them got their brains tied to sex looolz

Au79:

her bad grammar is more comprehensible than this your big grammar..
I hate sounding like am supporting her but you guys should just be nice with your words on her..

Op, I just went through the screenshots and I figured those chats are obviously from two different ladies, as the first screenshots are filled with unbelievable
grammatical blunders compared to the last screenshot.

Au79:

her bad grammar is more comprehensible than this your big grammar..
I hate sounding like am supporting her but you guys should just be nice with your words on her..

Nope, I almost had a migraine reading through the 'shitty chat', as someone rightly pointed out.

I'm not going to be nice to a medical practitioner who should know better. You are in a relationship with someone who is clearly not your intellectual match, yet instead of you to be the brains in this association, you're coming online to ask very baffling questions. You've been dumbed down.

Abeg carry yourself go jare.

BecaciaBarbie:

So true hahaha not to be tribalistic, this is usually common with igbo men lol it really seems it is very easy to scam men these days as "some" of them got their brains tied to sex looolz

yes u right though but a number of igbo guys don dey wise now .there"s one of my igbo friend wey get boutique and i dey buy boxers from am.the guy get one babe wey im don sponsor for poly right now but dis christmas wey i return home and i reach d guy place i come notice say d woman wey im dey sponsor for school don dey carry protruded tummy.bros no wan dull .

BecaciaBarbie:

Op, I just went through the screenshots and I figured those chats are obviously from two different ladies, as the first screenshot is filled with unbelievable
grammatical blunders compared to the last screenshots.

He says the chats are from the same person.

Ishilove:

He says the chats are from the same person.

Looks fishy... Unless she was under high substance while typing the first chats op uploaded... Very shitty lol

i put this here so I can be able to hear a good number of people's opinion to be able to know how situations like this is been handled by Nigerians. i will pick the ones I can pick and jettison the ones that their message has been clouded by insults like this lady above

BecaciaBarbie:

Looks fishy... Unless she was under high substance while typing the first chats op uploaded... Very shitty lol

I've seen the second chat on Facebook so I'm wondering what the correlation is between her itching punny and immature, money grubbing.

Ishilove:
He says the chats are from the same person.

she was tensed while she was typin in the first 3 snap shots... the last snap shot happened recently

Au79:

she was tensed while she was typin in the first 3 snap shots...
the last snap shot happened recently

Brother medical practitioner, go and find your match and stop wasting time with a girl who still has a lot of growing up to do.

Ishilove:

I've seen the second chat on Facebook so I'm wondering what the correlation is between her itching punny and immature, money grubbing.

the money grubbing was just another excuse for her to break up or I will say to press home her primary demand in the first three snap shots..she threatens break up over everything
who shared the last pix on Facebook to u
I have to remove this last pox before it reveals my identity..thanks for notifying me..obviously the only positive way you av contributed to this topic

I mean- she has refused to do any kind of testing and yet still wants to be fucking raw, and this is not enough to raise a red flag??

Toh. This is 1/1/2019 abeg

Ishilove:

Nope, I almost had a migraine reading through the 'shitty chat', as someone rightly pointed out.

I'm not going to be nice to a medical practitioner who should know better. You are in a relationship with someone who is clearly not your intellectual match, yet instead of you to be the brains in this association, you're coming online to ask very baffling questions. You've been dumbed down.

Abeg carry yourself go jare.

na wa for u
have u not seen a stark illiterate who is a crayfish seller dating a medical doctor
i don c plenty

lefulefu:

na wa for u
have u not seen a stark illiterate who is a crayfish seller dating a medical doctor
i don c plenty

My point is he should be the brains in the relationship.

OP...after reading the screenshot...i began to cry on your behalf


Such a girl ,it doesnt take me 24hours to take a decision on her without consulting...

I cant date for a year without seeing a positive indicator to stay put...

Ishilove:

My point is he should be the brains in the relationship.

madam Brain. if your guy is an authoritarian me am not..
I met her with an amount of brain capacity I admired and I don't av problem with it

well that crayfish seller might just have what most of the slay queens lack...you never can tell

Fourwinds:
OP...after reading the screenshot...i began to cry on your behalf


Such a girl ,it doesnt take me 24hours to take a decision on her without consulting...

I cant date for a year without seeing a positive indicator to stay put...

tanks for this...atimes you do things and tolerate things u feel is normal whereas in the outside world is far from normal..you just need someone to tell u its not normal.. that's y I shared it here so I can know wat is obtainable elsewhere

Ishilove:

I've seen the second chat on Facebook so I'm wondering what the correlation is between her itching punny and immature, money grubbing.

Looolz who knows, op could be lying

Au79:

the money grubbing was just another excuse for her to break up or I will say to press home her primary demand in the first three snap shots..she threatens break up over everything
who shared the last pix on Facebook to u
I have to remove this last pox before it reveals my identity..thanks for notifying me..obviously the only positive way you av contributed to this topic

Baba you posted four pictures on the first page.

The first three seem to be yours, the last one isn't. I've seen that last picture posted both on Twitter and Instagram. Go and remove it.

I want to believe you made a mistake posting that picture. Go to the frontpage and look at it well.

lefulefu:

yes u right though but a number of igbo guys don dey wise now .there"s one of my igbo friend wey get boutique and i dey buy boxers from am.the guy get one babe wey im don sponsor for poly right now but dis christmas wey i return home and i reach d guy place i come notice say d woman wey im dey sponsor for school don dey carry protruded tummy.bros no wan dull .

Hahahaha I hope he has also tied the knots with her as well? Correct man lol before she starts getting mixed feelings on her graduation day

BecaciaBarbie:

Looolz who knows, op could be lying

you think am happy displaying my problems here on nairaland where badmouths and ever hungry predators like you are always available to tear me apart??
you think av been on this thread since morning to be lying? u think I have that time??
I just hope you haven't copied her number before my attention was called to blurr the number..
see this girl fa

earthsync:
I don't get why ladies think getting a boyfriend =getting an ATM. I cringe when my friends do that.
As for ur gf I think she wants to destroy you

I have been liking your posts. you are not sentiment in your judgement. if I may ask, are you a laywer

BecaciaBarbie:

Hahahaha I hope he has also tied the knots with her as well? Correct man lol before she starts getting mixed feelings on her graduation day

iyam sure though i no ask am
see ehn any man who sponsors a girl without any strong commitment or uses money to buy a woman"s affection is just playing himself for a maga