Au79:

you think am happy displaying my problems here on nairaland where badmouths and ever hungry predators like you are always available to tear me apart??
you think av been on this thread since morning to be lying? u think I have that time??
I just hope you haven't copied her number before my attention was called to blurr the number..
see this girl fa

Au79:

you think am happy displaying my problems here on nairaland where badmouths and ever hungry predators like you are always available to tear me apart??
you think av been on this thread since morning to be lying? u think I have that time??
I just hope you haven't copied her number before my attention was called to blurr the number..
see this girl fa

DrayZee:

Baba you posted four pictures on the first page.

The first three seem to be yours, the last one isn't. I've seen that last picture posted both on Twitter and Instagram. Go and remove it.

I want to believe you made a mistake posting that picture. Go to the frontpage and look at it well.

lefulefu:

iyam sure though i no ask am
see ehn any man who sponsors a girl without any strong commitment or uses money to buy a woman"s affection is just playing himself for a maga

Au79:

I hope this your discussion is another discussion entirely.. I hope you guys are not in any way likening me to the man who sponsors a girl and was later gilted. I just hope so

BecaciaBarbie:

Op, so far no one has insulted you but only told you the truth which you are finding it difficult to chew. You deserve no advice from anyone, go ahead and please yourself and stop disturbing us! You obviously not ready to get losed from your imaginary love web, so please carry your wahala and go.

Au79:

the money grubbing was just another excuse for her to break up or I will say to press home her primary demand in the first three snap shots..she threatens break up over everything
who shared the last pix on Facebook to u

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?

Au79:

madam Brain. if your guy is an authoritarian me am not..
I met her with an amount of brain capacity I admired and I don't av problem with it

well that crayfish seller might just have what most of the slay queens lack...you never can tell

Ishilove:

Yes, and I can see how the brain is working out for you. Mr clueless medical practitioner.

Better start thinking with your head and not your deek

peepydelano:
doctor wey no sabi Bleep,is dat one a doctor?if u knack her well, which brain go remain for her to think say u no wear condom?And why is it such a difficult task for u to cajole her into running some tests for both of you? Oga take charge of that relationship and stop forming good boy.obviously u ain't letting her go from your response so far, it's good but will be better to know how clean and disease free is the river u want to jump in nd swim.I don't condemn people easily kos obviously she has some good side dat is making u stuck,so get u two to run some test before giving her ur raw dick.Stop bin d vegetable here.

LadySarah:
love has scattered this ones brain.

Until now ,i didn't know that body chemistry had anything to do with unprotected sex.

Oga,unless you are a cleaner working in a hospital,you need to be knocked several times on the fontanelle area.that way your head gon reset.

Tallesty1:
Two things I observed from your story.

1. You don't have a girlfriend.

2. You're still not a man yet when it comes dating/relationship.

MissRaine69:

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

Ranchhoddas:
This is scientific fact?

vindisick:
Even if you test her now and shes negative, will you be running test on her every month you want to have sex?. HIV Virus can be very potent and tranferable even within the first few week of contamination and the worst part is that it cant be dictated when you carry out test within this period hence the "window period". It is good to run test now before going into something as that. But staying out of STD depends on the type of girl. If shes not a faithful and careful type, forget it.
Relationship especially outside marriage, is usually a gamble.

Ozkar:
She's on a mission to infect you

Oga, don't let anyone use breakup to manipulate you o. If she says bye because she wants to make you bend to her wish, tell her bye too, and stop replying her. Some of them enjoy unnecessary drama.

Ozkar:
you bet it isn't. It's Pseudo-science that became popular sometime ago, because it contained a lot of 'researchers say'. I think the original article was from 'Psychology spot' or so.

fakeprophet:


please how many days or months can it be detected? I have a girlfriend of similar character

Au79:

it depends on the immunity of the person in question.. if she is avin a very strong defense system to Mount an antibody reaction, then by 3 months maximally the normal HIV kit test should be able to detect if she is positive or not. but there ar more sophisticated procedures that can detect ur girls status within a week..but its not readily available and its expensive .
any contribution to my topic??

Au79:

a child intelligence is dependent on 2 factors: environmental and genetic.. mothers care and teachings are environmental factors that help nuture the the intelligence of the child..but wen a child is genetically unintelligent, no matter the role the mother plays in his life, nothing much will change. e.g a child with down syndrome... in the same vein wen a child as the traits of intelligence and he is not notured properly by the mum( no matter how inteligent is the mum) or maybe if the child is nutured by a househelp which happen to be his first contact, there is every tendency that that child's intelligence will b dampened. that's d psych behind it

MissRaine69:

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

Au79:

it depends on the immunity of the person in question.. if she is avin a very strong defense system to Mount an antibody reaction, then by 3 months maximally the normal HIV kit test should be able to detect if she is positive or not. but there ar more sophisticated procedures that can detect ur girls status within a week..but its not readily available and its expensive..
you said your Girl also does't like using condom? did she care to tell u why??

BluePearls:


Hi

fakeprophet:



thanks, for the topic, I know u deeply loves her, but ur health should be a priority to u. from ur chat it seem she is pregnant and want to force it on you, convince her to run a test, if she is not willing then let go of her biko!

Ozkar:
this is totally different from what those articles claim. Your focus is on environment, which also has a huge influence on intelligence in its diverse forms.

They say intelligence is genetically transmitted in the X-chromosome and so it comes from the mother (that's funny considering that everyone has an X, and so men contibute an X to their daughters). The original article even went on to state that men are 30% more likely to develop mental/learning disorders and then attributed it the fact that they have just one X-chromosome.

There's so much pseudo-science BS in it.

MissRaine69:
You are in the medical profession and you are actuallly second guessing the practicalities of safe sex? What manner of doctor are you?
Do you reeally want to start your career with kids, a wife who won’t aide your developement in any way shape or form? You are dating mediocracy and nothing good has ever come out of dating a woman who has a mediocre mindset it’s like an anchor all it does is hold you in one sorry state of nothing.
So why is SHE not on the pill?
Why have both of you been screened for STI’s if the issue of unprotected sex is the issue?
Your parents put you through medical school to get confused over such fuckery?
What the fck is wrong with you?
What’s wrong with some men?