Druss:

smart or devious?

xmasgift:

@ Poster: You sound so bitter and I'm sure you feel miserable too. As you have claimed, you don't give a hoot then y bother posting your topic @ all
Face it,  you are hurt cos you got dumped (I've been there b4) but all this negative energy will get u no where. _{unnecessary EGO!}
If you are as good as u think u r, u'll surely get someone who deserves you. Afterall, it good riddance to bad rubbish shey u said she had "ways".

sugar pp:

dear poster i dnt really get the purpose of this thread. Is it to garner sympathy? get encouragement or what? so far your responses seem to be defensive bordering on aggressive when peeps point out the obvious that she is nt necessarily worse off in this situation.

1st of all your story does nt conclude in a sad endn for her but rather a situation in which she gets married (presumably happily) u on the otherhand wasted 5 yrs of your life in a relationship you refused to quit even though you claim you were aware of her "true" agenda and not being entirely surprised by the wedding. So while she accomplishes her goal of finally getting married you open a nairaland post dedicated to her (this is a guy that claims "he is written all over the girl" from the looks of things you are the one that is still obsessed and refuses to move on not her.

Please face reality and stop livin in denial- on this occassion she outsmarted u, probably used u n took u 4 a fool. I normally feel sorry for those that suffer from an underserved heartbreak but when u try to disguise it in a ridiculous way i just hv to give u the brutal and honest truth. MOVE ON BRO!

whiteroses:

she's been engaged to her now husband while banging another man? real nice of her, if her attitude stinks like that i give her marriage 5 years approx she'll be a single bird again, you can apply then, if you like kids of course

whiteroses:

she's been engaged to her now husband while banging another man? real nice of her, if her attitude stinks like that i give her marriage 5 years approx she'll be a single bird again, you can apply then, if you like kids of course

sir t:


So sad that u didn't see anything bad in her behaviour. Is dubious character synonymous to smartness? Seems most ladies are very far from been called "VIRTUOUS" --------- it sucks real time!!!!!

Just that I wuldn't like to go into details. I had called to congratulate her and she was ashamed of herself. I didn't post here to seek for sympathy, but rather to let guys learn how to deal with ladies. If I had no knowledge of her ways, I might probably be in shock by now and for your information, I'm searching.


@ sugar pp,

1) I didn't seek for anybody's sympathy------get that straight into your head.

2) I never wasted my time, rather I deliberately wasted her time and used her to pass time, U might see me as a wicked person, but I'm definitely not.

Our relationship was barely five months wen i discovered her way of life and I decided to teach her the lesson of her life. She got married to her ex-boyfriend out of frustration------u might be curious to know------- After her youth service, she said we should go for proper introduction and I refused cos I can't marry somebody I can't trust like YOU. Guess she began to suspect my move and out of desperation, she got belle for her ex and refused to terminate it.

I shouldn't av stated all this and many more I didn't say, but u and others that didn't see anything bad in jumping from one bed to another forced words out of my mouth. She has her good side too, just that the bad one out-weight the good one. Now, do your calculation and see whether u can learn from it. Don't think u can outsmart your boyfriend. because he didn't complain about your escapades doesn't mean he didn't know. His silence might be to punish you and teach u lessons u might not forget for the rest of your life.

kpolli:

googles, i wont say she was smarter than the poster but definitely smarter than the husband

kpolli:

googles, i wont say she was smarter than the poster but definitely smarter than the husband

hey wassup been a while that said,lets move on to more pressing issues 

she is way smarter than the both of them but the poster is the sore loser

of course her husband must have known she was up to something all those five years which am sure he did not waste himself

but at the end of the day they both dumped their sidekicks to get married.

the poster on the other hand was feeling somewhat smart not wanting to marry her, while her ex was ready she left him to get married

i see no reason why she should be crucified. Am sure hez just being pathetic for a girl to leave her present boyfriend and go back to her ex

that means the present boyfwend is not good enuf compared to the ex

she must have weighed her options before going for the better out of the two !!!

My point is she is smart no doubt abt it and this poster is a sore loser who should face reality and stop whining over being dumped !!

liksy:

Obviously she is wiser than you and her husband, and u cant do anythin about it. Stop lamenting , she is happily married. She has used u for 5years and she has dumped u for her Ex. She must have seen your good for boyfriend r/ship not for marriage cos  marriage is for matured minds.

googles:

hey wassup been a while that said,lets move on to more pressing issues 

she is way smarter than the both of them but the poster is the sore loser

of course her husband must have known she was up to something all those five years which am sure he did not waste himself

but at the end of the day they both dumped their sidekicks to get married.

the poster on the other hand was feeling somewhat smart not wanting to marry her, while her ex was ready she left him to get married

i see no reason why she should be crucified. Am sure hez just being pathetic for a girl to leave her present boyfriend and go back to her ex

that means the present boyfwend is not good enuf compared to the ex

she must have weighed her options before going for the better out of the two !!!

My point is she is smart no doubt abt it and this poster is a sore loser who should face reality and stop whining over being dumped !!

sir t:


@ liksy and googles

I will advise u go through my post and see where I said I caught her with her zig-zag behavior. The relationship was just 5 months then. I decided I won't marry her from that day and I didn't send her away.

Now, do u think I was used or the other way round? I was not dumped cos i never expected anything meaningful from her anymore. All I do was just playing along and pretended I didn't see anything for good 41/2 yrs!!!!. For your information, the last text she sent me (May, 2010 to be precise) was loaded with curse that I wasted her time for 5yrs when I knew I won't marry her. Must I speak with all my mouth b4 u can understand simple information?

I will advise u learn from this scenario b4 it is too late.

sir t:


@ liksy and googles

I will advise u go through my post and see where I said I caught her with her zig-zag behavior. The relationship was just 5 months then. I decided I won't marry her from that day and I didn't send her away.

Now, do u think I was used or the other way round? I was not dumped cos i never expected anything meaningful from her anymore. All I do was just playing along and pretended I didn't see anything for good 41/2 yrs!!!!. For your information, the last text she sent me (May, 2010 to be precise) was loaded with curse that I wasted her time for 5yrs when I knew I won't marry her. Must I speak with all my mouth b4 u can understand simple information?

I will advise u learn from this scenario b4 it is too late.

mckaycee:

[s]They believe immorality is synonymous to smartness[/s]

Define "immorality"
nothing is as immoral as sleeping with a lady who is ripe for marriage without giving her d hope of a future.
U sinned, she sinned, she's married, u r not!
For crying out loud, STOP CRYING OVER SPILT MILK AND MOVE ON WITH your LIFE, BRO!!!!!Q!E!D!
Haba! e don do!!

mckaycee:

[s]They believe immorality is synonymous to smartness[/s]

Define "immorality"
nothing is as immoral as sleeping with a lady who is ripe for marriage without giving her d hope of a future.
U sinned, she sinned, she's married, u r not!
For crying out loud, STOP CRYING OVER SPILT MILK AND MOVE ON WITH your LIFE, BRO!!!!!Q!E!D!
Haba! e don do!!

vanitty:

@ poster
So you even knew after 5 months into the relationship that you were not going to marry her, so for the remaining four years and 7 months you were stringing her along. Is that not wickedness? and here you are whinning while the new wife in town is enjoying her honeymoon and you think you are the smart one boohoohoo pele

LOVE.4BUG:

you are just a looser!!! SOMEBODY SHOULD PLS TELL THIS POSTER TO MOVE ON AND STOP CLAIMING(CRYING)