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Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 11:09am On Jan 17, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Nice submittion. Well it is not about what I hate or like but it is about speaking the truth against all odds not minding been the most hated by immature ladies on nairaland. Many men prefer monogamous marriage but will gladly keep mistresses. Nevertheless you can also have ONE WIFE and concubine/s cos a concubine does not take the place of a wife,they are not same status but are both married to the man legitimately. Ladies who threaten brimstone over their hubby's decision to have a concubine usually end up as another man's concubine after they leave their marriage so it's high time somebody preached the truth and I'm willing to do that. The most annoying hypocritical twist is that many ladies who will wail on this thread are either dating a married man right now or has at a time done so.. 3 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 11:16am On Jan 17, 2019 |
Toks2008: Well, I do not know about keeping Mistresses. The 10 commandment Rule of fornication clearly goes against that. So I rather just stick to one Woman and never keep concubines since the Law of God doesn't support according to evidence. Sleeping with a Woman who is not your Wife is a Sin according to the commandments. What I am worried about is how Solomon kept concubines without honouring those rules. Or did God just waive it for him unto say na him be King? |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 11:18am On Jan 17, 2019 |
Toks2008: Why do I have a feeling it's Saffi you are referring to Lmao. Both of you deserve each other |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 11:29am On Jan 17, 2019 |
truthsayer009: You keep getting it twisted. A concubine you marry becomes a legit one so to speak becomes your wife even if she won't have the same status as your principal wife. Also understand the fact that I'm not encouraging or discouraging any man as regards monogamy or polygamy but I'm just keeping it real. Even if you want to stay unmarried it is allowed. Lastly, I'm not addressing my post to saffi or anyone neither do we fit in anyway...i am a sapiosexual and she does not strike me like an intelligent lady cos of her choice of words. I'm only attracted to intelligent ladies. 1 Like
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Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 17, 2019 |
Toks2008: Osheyyyy sapiosexual Daddy Abeggi both of you deserve each other jare. Case Closed. I understand what you wrote clearly & I still disagree on this particular one, We can always agree to disagree on some opinions, So no problem. Let's just leave it here. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by 12hgf: 11:57am On Jan 17, 2019 |
I suggest some people like to follow Arabic traditions. These traditions came from the East to have a couple of women simultaneously. From my side there can be different explanations to this: 1. The method of expression; 2. The desire to overcome man's uncertainty. I agree fully that it is not healthy and susceptible for the modern western world to accept such kind of behavior and distorted view on personal life. The woman should be respected and not to be on the second place for anybody, except you are living in Arabic world. ImaIma1: |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
12hgf: You mean Arabic World exclusive practice marrying more than a wife?! Jews do the same till date. Africans do till date. Asians do till date. Which has been imbeded in their culture since primordial. My point is, it's not exclusively an Arab thing. Roman life style which is the typical model of this so called modern world have men married mainly to one wife and with plenty other mistresses who the keep for sexual gratification. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by goldman777: 6:24pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
[quote author=Toks2008 post=74843145] By having a legit marriage..Simple..rather than have mistresses upandan that is not only sinful but very unhealthy,money gulping and totally irresponsible.[/quote You mean marrying two or more women in the church |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Nice one |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Toks2008: You just finished my dear Saffi 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 6:42pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
[quote author=goldman777 post=74857930][/quote] Yes. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Raalsalghul: 8:16pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
GODPUNISHUNA:That is ehn. Dude did it subtly. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Toks2008: Na true you are not addressing your post to saffi toks baba # bolded nko?! Na to Sunita u dey address am too ni 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 9:42pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
WORDWORLD: All of you are trouble makers.. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by MissJoy29(f): 11:02pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
goldman777:That's where I'm confused too. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by MissJoy29(f): 11:05pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
@Op, if I get you right, your idea of a LEGITIMATE CONCUBINE(which is btw, an oxymoron) is a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc wife to a married man, correct? 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 6:43am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Toks2008: |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 7:41pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
MissJoy29: Do you know the meaning of oxymoron? There is no figure of speech or any contradictory case here. A wife and a legit concubine are both married to the man legitimately but the second,third...women do not have the same right as the wife. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 7:44pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
goldman777: You only legalize an illegality. The act of a man having concubines was never at anytime seen as an illegal act. No where in the bible that outrightly condemns it but pastors don't preach it because they don't want to lose their female members. 4 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 7:46pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Lalasticlala I guess you should meticulously go through this and beam it for the world to see. The Devil has destroyed and still destroying many marriages today cos of the lies many women believe today. I'm not promoting polygamy but someone must drum out the truth to the world. 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by MissJoy29(f): 9:09pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Toks2008:Do YOU know the meaning of oxymoron? I still maintain that you are contradicting yourself. If the legit concubine won't be addressed as 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife etc as the case may be, what then will she be addressed as seeing as the man already has a legitimate wife? 3 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(m): 10:05pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Lalasticlala this is very important for ladies to see and be prepared IF AND ONLY IF they find themselves married to aman who wants a concubine cos not every man desires it. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ImaIma1(f): 7:54am On Jan 22, 2019 |
12hgf: The post says a lot about how the poster views women |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Eberechi24(f): 9:50am On Jan 22, 2019 |
What will be the wife's plan while the husband will be campaigning for concubines? Probably fasting and praying for the husband's reckless lifestyle. Don't wake monster that will kill you. 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ministerblessed: 12:21pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Is the God of the old testament different from the one in the new testament. ifyan: 1 Like |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by ifyan(m): 1:20pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
ministerblessed: No but we as per Christ like I disagree with him |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Eberechi24: E go pass monster sef, Who wants to be fighting a Jealous woman lmao. Na death by Poison in the end na. Very few Men who are Polygamous live long except for OBAs [ Kings ] and that is because the are always Soaked in heavy charms to stop Spiritual Attacks or Detect food poisoning. |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Omoluabi16(m): 3:17pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Non debatable. O.p is dead wrong here. Which sane woman wants to be a concubine? Even the ones warming the bed of married men due to 'situation' detests the lifestyle. 2 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
but lots of single ladies run after married men nau and even a large number of single ladies prefer to be sidechicks or concubines to married men so i dont get d attack against toks.is it not dis same nigeria u will hear a single lady saying she prefers dating a married men cos married men are more caring.no be single ladies mouth we dey hear such thing. married men are now like gold in nigeria.in short some single guys even lie they are married so dat girls will rush them. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Eberechi24(f): 3:26pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Men need to be careful. Taking women's meekness for weakness is disastrous. A woman's silence speaks louder. She may keep calm but plotting a way to revenge. Everyone should be careful. Days are gone when you treat woman like trash and go Scot free. Be fair with your woman, she deserves it. 2 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Omoluabi16:its like u missed that yesterday thread on frontpage where one warri girl went to the bank to pick a fight with another female bankstaff to leave her sugar daddy married lover alone. my former landlord who is over 80 yrs now and wit grandkids...two young ladies where fighting over him and strippin themselves in the street.some single girls will kill just to be a concubine for a married man. 2 Likes |
Re: The legitimate concubine. by Eberechi24(f): 3:38pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
lefulefu:What said is true.No doubt. Am against rubbing your philandering lifestyle on your wife's face because you assumed she no option. A woman who wouldn't care about your philandering lifestyle is one with alternatives. Women deserve better. Promiscuity among married men should be frowned at. In fact it should be discouraged. If we all frown at it just like we frown at Women's promiscuity. we will sanitize the society. A tennage boy after reading this post will feels he is god and entitled to sleeping around without caution even when married. A woman after reading this post will feel so sad. Our emotions should be recognized. we are humans!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
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