MrBrownJay1: anybody can cheat (male/female) and many do for various reason, thus why you cant ask if there is hope unless you take it case by case why this person cheated. also, i believe that its an eye for an eye, so if you believe you can cheat then your woman should be allowed to do the same; same with anything and everything else in any relationship. so flirting/chatting with strangers on SM/giving strangers of the opposite sex a lift etc
as for me, regardless of why the person cheated, i will never forgive/forget.... and it will be the end of the r/ship if she does.
I ask bcause all these celebrities from psquare to ay, to basketmouth, there seems to be allegations of cheating and these alleged cheating happened far before martiage.
is there hope? there seems to be the modern day assumption that guys can cheat and ask for forgiveness, but girls can't.
Afrobasic: Once a woman is past 30, she's pretty much expired milk on the dating market.
I have realised that the type of women that made me go gaga in my 20s do not excite me at all in my 30s, and I think it is the same for most men.
I look at these 30 year plus women and shake my head in pity. Not enough men in their dating pool to go around thus the rate of singleness for women in this age bracket is astronomical to the point that some of them indirectly beg you to date them.
the bolded item is the root cause. the selection pool of eligible bachelors is slim
Things have really changed nowadays. In the past, age 25 was the limit for marriage. My uncle wedded at 19 back then.
People don't find it so easy to get married these days, too many obstacles. At 30, my heart still beats when marriage cross my mind. That's why I agree with the guy in this video who says he can't marry any lady between 28-30.
Most ladies don't get married at tender ages because they spend years getting educated, forgetting that they are not getting younger as days pass. Before they know it, they are 30 something already and it is then they realize they've missed out on a husband.
Thomthom: I no go tell you to do Yahoo but if you want to look for job , you go be that very patient guy.. because them go rub sheet for your face for street, church, school, birthday, marriage ceremony.. I get two Certificate for Health and Social science.. the salary na one week e dey finish... Thank God for other things on things..
Pat081: Do you know that if you marry wife in club and you hear bad things about her your mind may not be there than marry her in church and be hearing bad things about her
i am not sure i understand what you meant by dis o
Pat081: Do you know that if you marry wife in club and you hear bad things about her your mind may not be there than marry her in church and be hearing bad things about her
Yesterday, everyone around me started debating where people can find true love. Funny enough, the group was broken into church-people and club-guys.
During the conversation, several places were mentioned but the conclusion was that- To find love now takes the grace of God 🤲, almost all the places that were mentioned are either fun places or for exposure, where people just want to see new things and be excited so i dont thinnk you should go to places like that thinking you will find true love ...
i was thinking school campuses will be included because they are lot of cold souls that just want to start life and its very certain you find your true love there ....well, I'm talking out of experiences I'm on blue shirt