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Music/RadioRe: Timaya Ft. Tiwa Savage - In My Head (Official Music Video) by 4mee: 9:51am On Apr 15, 2024
Great song by the way.
Music/RadioRe: Timaya Ft. Tiwa Savage - In My Head (Official Music Video) by 4mee: 9:46am On Apr 15, 2024
Timaya and tiwa need to get on talkshows like these to promote their songs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkmziwe2_r4

Get on podcasts, debates, TikTok Livestreams etc.

You can't just rely on frontpage only. If anyone has their connect, message me to get through. Thanks
RomanceRe: Would You Confront Or Pass by 4mee: 12:37am On Apr 13, 2024
everybody
RomanceRe: Can Chronic Cheaters Change? by 4mee(op): 11:43pm On Apr 12, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
anybody can cheat (male/female) and many do for various reason, thus why you cant ask if there is hope unless you take it case by case why this person cheated. also, i believe that its an eye for an eye, so if you believe you can cheat then your woman should be allowed to do the same; same with anything and everything else in any relationship. so flirting/chatting with strangers on SM/giving strangers of the opposite sex a lift etc

as for me, regardless of why the person cheated, i will never forgive/forget.... and it will be the end of the r/ship if she does.
you will search for a woman tire o
RomanceCan Chronic Cheaters Change? by 4mee(op): 8:52pm On Apr 12, 2024
I know this has been overflogged in nairaland but I want to ask this:

Is there hope for chronic cheaters or will they continue requiring forgiveness in the relationship and then marriage?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkmziwe2_r4

I ask bcause all these celebrities from psquare to ay, to basketmouth, there seems to be allegations of cheating and these alleged cheating happened far before martiage.

is there hope? there seems to be the modern day assumption that guys can cheat and ask for forgiveness, but girls can't.
CelebritiesRe: Junior Pope’s Wife, Jennifer Is Unconscious - Nurse (Video) by 4mee:
angry


so annoying. meanwhile, cheaters meet their nemesis


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkmziwe2_r4

hmm
CrimeRe: 17-Year-Old Girl Stabs Her Foster Mother To Death In Ondo by 4mee: 1:35pm On Mar 21, 2024
grin
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Dated An Obsessive Lover? (photo) by 4mee: 11:27pm On Mar 16, 2024
kinteretsing post
RomanceRe: Court Orders Lady To Pay Boyfriend N150,000 For Collecting N3,000 T’fare by 4mee: 11:26pm On Mar 16, 2024
that's a deterrent for other longer throat ladies
RomanceRe: Do Women Have Expiry Dates? by 4mee(op): 11:25pm On Mar 16, 2024
Afrobasic:
Once a woman is past 30, she's pretty much expired milk on the dating market.

I have realised that the type of women that made me go gaga in my 20s do not excite me at all in my 30s, and I think it is the same for most men.

I look at these 30 year plus women and shake my head in pity. Not enough men in their dating pool to go around thus the rate of singleness for women in this age bracket is astronomical to the point that some of them indirectly beg you to date them.
the bolded item is the root cause. the selection pool of eligible bachelors is slim
RomanceDo Women Have Expiry Dates? by 4mee(op): 5:42pm On Mar 15, 2024
Things have really changed nowadays. In the past, age 25 was the limit for marriage. My uncle wedded at 19 back then.

People don't find it so easy to get married these days, too many obstacles. At 30, my heart still beats when marriage cross my mind. That's why I agree with the guy in this video who says he can't marry any lady between 28-30.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cujUqQb76Xc

Most ladies don't get married at tender ages because they spend years getting educated, forgetting that they are not getting younger as days pass. Before they know it, they are 30 something already and it is then they realize they've missed out on a husband.

Sad!
RomanceRe: Men Stop Dating A Liability by 4mee: 5:20pm On Mar 15, 2024
Me. Shouldn't date girls who aren't ready to get married
RomanceRe: What Full Time Business Should A Nigerian Guy Start? by 4mee: 5:16pm On Mar 15, 2024
Men whatever you do, just make sure you hustle o.

E get why
PoliticsRe: Inflation Rises From 29.90 To 31.70 Percent In February by 4mee: 1:55pm On Mar 15, 2024
PoliticsRe: Civil Servants Demand N907,000 Minimum Wage, Give Reasons by 4mee: 11:49am On Mar 15, 2024
People don't realise that low wages are predominantly the reason why lots of young folks aren't getting married today.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cujUqQb76Xc

That's why lots of women are getting too old in their father's house. Young men can't afford to get married. Case in point
IslamRe: The Ruling On A Woman Sleeping Alone, Apart From Her Husband, In A Separate Room by 4mee: 11:48am On Mar 15, 2024
That's why men shouldn't marry women who are too old


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cujUqQb76Xc

Case in point.
PoliticsRe: Bandits Demand N1billion Ransom For Kidnapped 286 Kaduna Schoolchildren, Workers by 4mee: 10:08pm On Mar 14, 2024
I have said that this kind of thinking will only lead to this kind of results.

for example, when earlier this year, people were saying kidnaping is a profession, i knew it could only lead to this kind of consequence


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

God help us. N1billion. hmn
PropertiesRe: Lagos Vows To Enforce Monthly Rental Policy by 4mee: 1:41pm On Mar 04, 2024
smiley
RomanceRe: The Ultimate Betrayal: A Young Pastor's Heartbreaking Story [must Read] by 4mee(op): 9:29am On Mar 02, 2024
MisterBanny:
That makes it even worse
yeah. the guy kept seeing her in his church even after they broke up. Guess that's why you're advised not to date someone within your close proximity.
CrimeRe: Should You DO Yahoo OR Find A Job? by 4mee(op): 9:28am On Mar 02, 2024
Thomthom:
I no go tell you to do Yahoo but if you want to look for job , you go be that very patient guy.. because them go rub sheet for your face for street, church, school, birthday, marriage ceremony.. I get two Certificate for Health and Social science.. the salary na one week e dey finish... Thank God for other things on things..
two certificates? abi two degrees?
RomanceRe: Church-goers And Club-goers Debate Where To Find Love by 4mee(op): 9:27am On Mar 02, 2024
Pat081:
Do you know that if you marry wife in club and you hear bad things about her your mind may not be there than marry her in church and be hearing bad things about her
i am not sure i understand what you meant by dis o
RomanceRe: Church-goers And Club-goers Debate Where To Find Love by 4mee(op):
Pat081:
Do you know that if you marry wife in club and you hear bad things about her your mind may not be there than marry her in church and be hearing bad things about her
huh
CelebritiesRe: "It Is Better To Date Nigerian Girls Abroad Than Those At Home" – Timini Egbuson by 4mee: 8:52pm On Feb 15, 2024
Someone should tell this bros to rest.

You cannot speak on intercontinental relationships if you haven't dated across continents. Only those folks who have done it can speak


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdivu1ASuAw
RomanceRe: Church-goers And Club-goers Debate Where To Find Love by 4mee(op): 8:52pm On Feb 15, 2024
Pat081:
You may find wife in church and she will be good or evil one same as club too
sometimes, two club-people will go to church and hook themselves there grin
RomanceRe: Does A Narcissist Ever Know That They Are One? by 4mee: 8:39pm On Feb 15, 2024
it takes one to know one
RomanceChurch-goers And Club-goers Debate Where To Find Love by 4mee(op): 8:38pm On Feb 15, 2024
Yesterday, everyone around me started debating where people can find true love. Funny enough, the group was broken into church-people and club-guys.

During the conversation, several places were mentioned but the conclusion was that- To find love now takes the grace of God 🤲, almost all the places that were mentioned are either fun places or for exposure, where people just want to see new things and be excited so i dont thinnk you should go to places like that thinking you will find true love ...

i was thinking school campuses will be included because they are lot of cold souls that just want to start life and its very certain you find your true love there ....well, I'm talking out of experiences
I'm on blue shirt grin



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SV3wlnG-Zl0
RomanceRe: “We Accidentally Had S*x One Of The Days You Went To Work” - Lady Reacts by 4mee: 8:20pm On Feb 05, 2024
Fear woman
BusinessRe: Standard Chartered Bank Warns Against Hoarding Of Dollars by 4mee: 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2024
angry

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