1Sharon:
He said I was dressed too revealing( he's Muslim, but hypocritical)

he was hostile to me when I failed my first yr at uni

He compares me to my peers when he knows nothing about them

He's says I'm not a certain way, when he wasn't there to raise me that way, you can't reep what you didn't sow


I hate African parents, very narrow minded
But I love my dad

Evangkatsoulis:


No wonder you are this messed up.

XhosaNostra:



Thanks

chii8:


Lol.....not just that but with a big baby and four over hyper active cuties.
What about those sisters in your church, street and place of work or business?

Rosarie:
Countless.he not taking care of us.been selfish.no food at home yet he will Dodge and go and buy food in buca.he never admits having money.when we go to the buca to buy food on credit we see him there.him eating the skl fees momsi gave him to pay for me.abandoning me or forgetting to pick me up in school many times.prefers outsideers to us.he has even abandoned me in a hospital when i was 5.if we are celebrating he will wear rag.but if his church has an ocassion he will sew a new cloth.men countless.hurts I swear.hurtsss.am crying writing this.70+ and still same.above he does not wish us well but God pass any man.have learnt to live like he does not exist.but it's hard.....

Rosarie:
Countless.he not taking care of us.been selfish.no food at home yet he will Dodge and go and buy food in buca.he never admits having money.when we go to the buca to buy food on credit we see him there.him eating the skl fees momsi gave him to pay for me.abandoning me or forgetting to pick me up in school many times.prefers outsideers to us.he has even abandoned me in a hospital when i was 5.if we are celebrating he will wear rag.but if his church has an ocassion he will sew a new cloth.men countless.hurts I swear.hurtsss.am crying writing this.70+ and still same.above he does not wish us well but God pass any man.have learnt to live like he does not exist.but it's hard.....

XhosaNostra:


In 200...

Oh, I remember those! They used to be called "Patent shoes" lol.

manitobor:


I always like reading your replies. You're always so frank and unassuming.

I don't know you but I love you.

Excesslove222:
Remember when I was going back to school,went to my dad for money for provisions and foodstuffs....he was actually counting bulk money cause our tenants just paid their rent in cash.

Mehn popsy just looked at me, took the topmost 500 naira in one of the bundles and gave it to me.

I frooze for like 5 minutes, I couldn't believe my eyes...the man no even look me, he just continued counting his money.

It took plenty family meeting for him to finally release money to me that year...Chai!

1Sharon:
He said I was dressed too revealing( he's Muslim, but hypocritical)

he was hostile to me when I failed my first yr at uni

He compares me to my peers when he knows nothing about them

He's says I'm not a certain way, when he wasn't there to raise me that way, you can't reep what you didn't sow


I hate African parents, very narrow minded
But I love my dad

JaceBlaze:
When did you graduate grade 12?


They are so deep in the archives,they looked like the shoes below

chii8:
Hmmm...


Way back 2005,wrote jamb and scored 212,my dad said I didn't do well, that I will rewrite the upper year, meanwhile people in compound who scored below 200 were busy packing their luggage to university, omo,I started starving ooo,for almost five days, I didn't eat nor drink,I was just slimming down and looking so weak,my mum begged me to eat but I told her I will only do that when they start processing my admission, it was one woman(teacher) in my compound that actually convinced my dad,na so I take go school ooo

1Sharon:
He said I was dressed too revealing( he's Muslim, but hypocritical)

he was hostile to me when I failed my first yr at uni

He compares me to my peers when he knows nothing about them

He's says I'm not a certain way, when he wasn't there to raise me that way, you can't reep what you didn't sow


I hate African parents, very narrow minded
But I love my dad

Majesticniyi:




I concluded a while back that the average fathers in our generation failed at their jobs. Most people would deny this openly but they know its the truth. Most did not have it as bad as you though. Shout out to the Mothers....they basically made most of us who we are. I hope the current new crop of fathers would not repeat the mistakes of their fathers.