Elsah:



I think the concept of 'broke' is subjective and has different definitions. Any guy willing to settle down should get a job before a potential wife.

marvin906:





there's a time for everything..
so don't loose hope..
just keep hustling..
if the right chick comes good if she doesn't is all good..
just try to run away from brokeness it ain't funny

jonath0012:


Ok, Good. I think, to majority of people, being broke means you don't have a good job. Simply put being under employed or sometimes not having a source of income at all.

The truth is majority of guys in Nigeria today do not earn well enough to pay their bills, which is why ladies tag them broke.

They are not entirely jobless, their jobs just do not pay them well enough. Is this kind of brokenness you referring to as well?

jonath0012:


Ok, Good. I think, to majority of people, being broke means you don't have a good job. Simply put being under employed or sometimes not having a source of income at all.

The truth is majority of guys in Nigeria today do not earn well enough to pay their bills, which is why ladies tag them broke.

They are not entirely jobless, their jobs just do not pay them well enough. Is this kind of brokenness you referring to as well?

DanDeeBoss:
Don't be deceived by "I like a broke guy who has a future".....[b]Try to be comfortable before going into a serious relationship....[/b]

Raalsalghul:
The bolded is the reason why marriage is a scam.

DanDeeBoss:

Raalsalghul:
You and I know it.

chiommy123:
hope you know some girls give their boyfriends money

BlueAir:
which generation, ma

chiommy123:
our generation sir

BlueAir:
ur rate pls. Out of 10

sane93:
Social media is making most guys lose it and act hypocritical. I have seen and met runs girls that keep a guy at the corner that they are taking care of. I don't even know which aspect to touch. Most of these guys talking plenty will not date a girl that says no sex in the relationship. They want to enjoy the rites of a husband without taking and carrying out the responsibilities of a husband. You want your gf to cook, clean, sex and do almost all wifely duties but turn around and ask her to go to her dad if she needs basic things. I'm not talking about extravagant wants but basic needs. She loses the same phone you use in calling and chatting her and even sex and video chats but expect dad to be the one to buy a phone for her. You don't care if she eats every other day but the day you want to drill the hell out of her you make sure she's well fed. The list is endless. Love is just being abused. A relationship ought to be like an illegal marriage. Both of you are responsible for each other. How can you sleep well knowing a woman you claim you love is in need and you're in a position to help but choose not to all in the bid to form wise. Vice versa. Most of us don't know what love is all about. I have been in relationships where I was the one spending because I can't eat and my bf won't eat. And what I can do for my bf, I can do for a friend in need. A relationship is beyond sex and money. But I insist that if you claim you love someone then you're responsible for that person irrespective of the sex. Love cares and doesn't claim smart. Just don't go over your budget. I feel proud and happy when. I'm able to spend on my loved one. I wonder how these selfish ones sleep at night. Enough said.

sane93:
Social media is making most guys lose it and act hypocritical. I have seen and met runs girls that keep a guy at the corner that they are taking care of. I don't even know which aspect to touch. Most of these guys talking plenty will not date a girl that says no sex in the relationship. They want to enjoy the rites of a husband without taking and carrying out the responsibilities of a husband. You want your gf to cook, clean, sex and do almost all wifely duties but turn around and ask her to go to her dad if she needs basic things. I'm not talking about extravagant wants but basic needs. She loses the same phone you use in calling and chatting her and even sex and video chats but expect dad to be the one to buy a phone for her. You don't care if she eats every other day but the day you want to drill the hell out of her you make sure she's well fed. The list is endless. Love is just being abused. A relationship ought to be like an illegal marriage. Both of you are responsible for each other. How can you sleep well knowing a woman you claim you love is in need and you're in a position to help but choose not to all in the bid to form wise. Vice versa. Most of us don't know what love is all about. I have been in relationships where I was the one spending because I can't eat and my bf won't eat. And what I can do for my bf, I can do for a friend in need. A relationship is beyond sex and money. But I insist that if you claim you love someone then you're responsible for that person irrespective of the sex. Love cares and doesn't claim smart. Just don't go over your budget. I feel proud and happy when. I'm able to spend on my loved one. I wonder how these selfish ones sleep at night. Enough said.

Katier00:
My partner don't give me money and we have been dating for two years. We are both working and have our own responsibilities to attend to. Stick with your man because you love him, and leave if you are not comfortable with him

Livecamp09:


Have u done that before ?

chiommy123:
Money is not everything

West601:
am surprised an Igbo girl is saying this.

Elsah:
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence of his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending. He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he gets to the top.

West601:
am surprised an Igbo girl is saying this.

chiommy123:
surprised ke? What people say about us is not always true now. Morning

kollinzgee:
l wonder where you guys meet these kind of women ,me i have never dated a girl that pressures me with money demands i dont know if its luck sha but i have never chyked a girl with money and she accepted never.i have tried the money trick on two girls i liked last year but they all turned me down .

the one am currently dating have collected just #1000 since last year maybe its my luck sha.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So because she never asked u can't use your God given brain to know you'll give her lol money even if it's to change her hair or credit her phone or just for giving sake?

kollinzgee:


all women cannot think like you madam.as humans we all have different mindsets and what you can take is different from what i can take .me for example i cant remember when last i asked my parents or siblings for money even though am a student i prefer to work for myself now how many of my peers can do without their parents or family in their mid 20s?not everybody likes to be a leach or dependent and i get a lot of respect for that.

SillyeRabbit:
What is your business going into a relationship when you don't have at least small money or a sustainable source of income. A better guy will snatch the girl or you'll always be quarreling. Bitter truth.