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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by samisj4real(m): 7:11pm On Feb 08
Elsah:
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence of his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending. He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he gets to the top.
Can i marry you?

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Jayhazard(m): 9:08pm On Feb 08
Elsah:
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence of his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending. He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he gets to the top.
If girls with these qualities you mentioned exist, I pray I find one.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Katier00(f): 9:27pm On Feb 08
millionboi2:
hmmm

Hope u are not trying to impress us here.


Do u ppl have sex?
impress? Why should I impress you. Yes we are active
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by millionboi2: 9:28pm On Feb 08
Katier00:
impress? Why should I impress you. Yes we are active
hmmm
I'm jealous oooo

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by lefulefu(m): 9:47pm On Feb 08
[quote author=DanDeeBoss post=75537962][/quote] grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by dollytino4real(f): 10:00pm On Feb 08
a week (7days) even in free town no free kpekus come to talk of 9ja
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by cucumbae(m): 12:33am On Feb 09
EzzyCarter:
As harsh as this sounds, the fact is relationship isn't meant for broke guys.( no matter how understanding the girl is) An advice for you brother, channel that energy you spend on chasing women into grinding and hustling hard to make money. It might be hard at first but it will pay off in the end. It's all about discipline and dedication. Build an empire and watch how sophisticated ladies will flock around you . No one wants to be associated with a mediocre you know...
So a broke gel can go into a relationship while a broke guy cannot?Na una dey make most gels no gree find work.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Katier00(f): 7:00am On Feb 09
millionboi2:
hmmm
I'm jealous oooo
jealous kwa? I have my moment o
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Kobicove(m): 7:38am On Feb 09
Livecamp09:
Ladies, how long can u date a guy who doesn’t give you money Maybe due to his broke financial status ?

Whether a guy is broke or not, it's not his responsibility nor obligation to give money to his girlfriend.

OP, stop dating hungry girls!

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Peppul(m): 8:12am On Feb 09
chiommy123:
Money is not everything

Tell that to 80% naija girls that believes money is everything, and believes the guy should be the one doing everything in d finance dept.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by purples25(f): 8:48am On Feb 09
Maybe you guys always look for girls like that . Me that used to wonder why my luck is not like that. My bf neva took da poo from me. He didn't give and outing till today he will still say yes, we will soon go grin
He didn't even let me try that poo o, as my first bf i was craving so much but he allowed me to summersault fifty times and calm down. It was a matter of if i want to go i should go. I brought my own cash too but 'decision is decision' . Till now if i want to fly i should fly.


Met one guy off nl when I used to cry and rant about it. Guy finally said let's meet and get something, I said for once let me act like , expensive, maybe then a guy will say I'm worth all those things they always do for girls. I changed my mind for once and ordered chips and chicken instead of the usual water or nothing that I would've said. Guy caught me as if I'm a thief and said ' shey on nl you always say you don't collect money.' cheesy( I shrug )

Last last I have stopped being pained secretly thatI didn't receive money. Even with guys rants and insults everywhere, if I collect the money sef, gyal will be feeling like slay queen or thief. Happy I have a job now.

I'd just like a life where I can work and collect good money , not all these insults and suspicions from guys once they unwillingly drop a naira as always.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:54am On Feb 09
purples25:
Maybe you guys always look for girls like that . Me that used to wonder why my luck is not like that. My bf neva took da poo from me. He didn't give and outing till today he will still say yes, we will soon go grin
He didn't even let me try that poo o, as my first bf i was craving so much but he allowed me to summersault fifty times and calm down. It was a matter of if i want to go i should go. I brought my own cash too but 'decision is decision' . Till now if i want to fly i should fly.


Met one guy off nl when I used to cry and rant about it. Guy finally said let's meet and get something, I said for once let me act like , expensive, maybe then a guy will say I'm worth all those things they always do for girls. I changed my mind for once and ordered chips and chicken instead of the usual water or nothing that I would've said. Guy caught me as if I'm a thief and said ' shey on nl you always say you don't collect money.' ( I shrug )

Last last I have stopped being pained secretly thatI didn't receive money. Even with guys rants and insults everywhere, if I collect the money sef, gyal will be feeling like slay queen or thief. Happy I have a job now.

I'd just like a life where I can work and collect good money , not all these insults and suspicions from guys once they unwillingly drop a naira as always.
Nairaland ladies are all "independent"...cheesycheesy
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 8:59am On Feb 09
DanDeeBoss:
Nairaland ladies are all "independent"...cheesycheesy



Yes,
judging from what most of them rants here

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by purples25(f): 9:01am On Feb 09
DanDeeBoss:
Nairaland ladies are all "independent"...cheesycheesy

Chai. Is not my real face o. Is not my handwriting sad

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:05am On Feb 09
purples25:


Chai. Is not my real face o. Is not my handwriting sad
grin cool
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by aswani(m): 9:25am On Feb 09
Quick true story. My older sister used to date this guy from a poor family who she met as a broke A
level student.
She used to take, sorry steal, the family food to take to him (e.rice, beans, garri).
She got caught doing so once by my dad and when she explained his situation, he just asked to meet him which he did.
Fast forward over 40 years and a marraige with children and they are still together now as husband and wife. Needless to say he is pretty well off as the last time he didn't travel first class on a plane was in the last century.
I would say she dated him over 6 years (A levels, Degree, NYSC) before he spent a kobo on her.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:29am On Feb 09
aswani:
Quick true story. My older sister used to date this guy from a poor family who she met as a broke A
level student.
She used to take, sorry steal, the family food to take to him (e.rice, beans, garri).
She got caught doing so once by my dad and when she explained his situation, he just asked to meet him which he did.
Fast forward over 40 years and a marraige with children and they are still together now as husband and wife. Needless to say he is pretty well off as the last time he didn't travel first class on a plane was in the last century.
I would say she dated him over 6 years (A levels, Degree, NYSC) before he spent a kobo on her.
Kinda emotional cry, She loves him for Real and Thank goodness he didn't leave her... smiley
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by EzzyCarter(m): 1:56am On Feb 10
cucumbae:
So a broke gel can go into a relationship while a broke guy cannot?Na una dey make most gels no gree find work.


That's the way it is. That's why they say it's not easy to be a man. Societal expectations fall on the guy to take care of the girl. Don't get it twisted tho, no one wants to date a broke girl either, they're considered liabilities. They'll choke you with billing grin ...

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kollinzgee(m): 2:32am On Feb 10
EzzyCarter:



That's the way it is. That's why they say it's not easy to be a man. Societal expectations fall on the guy to take care of the girl. Don't get it twisted tho, no one wants to date a broke girl either, they're considered liabilities. They'll choke you with billing grin ...

stop contradicting yourself abeg go and make your money as you said.do you think rich girls too dont ask for money pity you bro.like i said in one of my old post i have never chyked a girl with money and she accepted they all say no .but the ones i dated later never asked me for money am even the giving them....
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by EzzyCarter(m): 2:47am On Feb 10
kollinzgee:


stop contradicting yourself abeg go and make your money as you said.do you think rich girls too dont ask for money pity you bro.like i said in one of my old post i have never chyked a girl with money and she accepted they all say no .but the ones i dated later never asked me for money am even the giving them....


good for you man! Do what's best for you...
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by nanakgh(m): 8:54pm On Feb 21
baralatie:

the question is what is the responsibility of the man and the woman in a relationship which eventually must happen when they get married

Marriage is a whole different step bro, with its own challenges and rules of engagement. In a serious relationship with intent to marry however, responsibilities are shared, including financial ones.
The occasional gifts and airtime go both ways, etc. This morphs into a strong marriage where both sides support financially and in all other ways, even if one party for some reason cannot contribute as much as the other in some areas. In some 'relationships' that's not the case. The guy does everything and pays for everything and basically gets sex in return. Those are just sexual arrangements disguised as relationships I was referring to.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by jonath0012(m): 9:13pm On Feb 21
Elsah:
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence of his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

[b]Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending. He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he g[b][/b]ets [/b]to the top.

Hahahahah..... Hilarious.... See contradictory statement. How can you have a decent job and be broke. No way!


Wait, why do ladies believe they have the power to push a guy to the top.

If truly they have that kind of power, why are they fleeing from broke or unemployed guys..


We all know the reasons anyway
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by theTransporter: 10:48pm On Feb 21
this is my kind of woman
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Deicide: 11:11pm On Feb 21
Money is not the opposite of sex
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by SillyeRabbit: 11:16pm On Feb 21
What is your business going into a relationship when you don't have at least small money or a sustainable source of income. A better guy will snatch the girl or you'll always be quarreling. Bitter truth.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Poanan: 2:01am On Feb 22
My last was without money. When I tried asking it didn't go well. He liked buying things related to food. I can say I didn't collect more than 70k in total for years we were together. I don't know how to ask people for money what will i say I want to use it for?
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kense88: 6:30am On Feb 22
EzzyCarter:
As harsh as this sounds, the fact is relationship isn't meant for broke guys.( no matter how understanding the girl is) An advice for you brother, channel that energy you spend on chasing women into grinding and hustling hard to make money. It might be hard at first but it will pay off in the end. It's all about discipline and dedication. Build an empire and watch how sophisticated ladies will flock around you . No one wants to be associated with a mediocre you know...
Piece of trash
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kense88: 6:34am On Feb 22
Deicide:
Money is not the opposite of sex
Thank you. Everything about Nigerians is soo so annoying. It's never like this in other countries. Imagine paying ur so called girl friend after a supposed consentual sex.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kense88: 6:37am On Feb 22
cucumbae:
So a broke gel can go into a relationship while a broke guy cannot?Na una dey make most gels no gree find work.
Most of this guys are just terrible humans.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kense88: 6:43am On Feb 22
EzzyCarter:



That's the way it is. That's why they say it's not easy to be a man. Societal expectations fall on the guy to take care of the girl. Don't get it twisted tho, no one wants to date a broke girl either, they're considered liabilities. They'll choke you with billing grin ...
Its peeps like you that made it that way. It's not like this in other countries i have been to.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by donproject(m): 6:48am On Feb 22
chiommy123:
Money is not everything
gbayi
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Elsah(f): 11:23am On Feb 22
jonath0012:


Hahahahah..... Hilarious.... See contradictory statement. How can you have a decent job and be broke. No way!


Wait, why do ladies believe they have the power to push a guy to the top.

If truly they have that kind of power, why are they fleeing from broke or unemployed guys..


We all know the reasons anyway


I think the concept of 'broke' is subjective and has different definitions. Any guy willing to settle down should get a job before a potential wife.

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