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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Elsah(f): 3:51pm On Feb 08
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence of his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending. He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he gets to the top.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:51pm On Feb 08
SmellingAnus:
Money is very important o... But some women as they get older and more matured, it may not be all about money especially when they are a bit comfortable... But never underestimate the power of money... Even the good ones will end up insulting you if the money doesn't come within their expected period of time...
This is so true....
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:55pm On Feb 08
Elsah:
I've never in my life asked a guy for money and i never will. I'm not entitled to his pocket, cuz he's not my husband yet. If he chooses to spend on me that's just out of the benevolence his heart. If i love a guy, all i want is his undivided love and attention, and all i would want is to keep him company and make him the happiest guy in the world. He doesn't owe me money, neither do i owe him sex. He should be able to add value to me in other ways, mentally, spiritually, morally etc., and so should i.

Truth is, if she's always demanding money from you, you've been demanding sex from her and she doesn't see a future with you. She will suck you dry, empty your destiny and leave. A reasonable girl would want you to save, invest your money and use it to plan your future with her. But most guys only fancy materialistic ladies and then complain women love money. Not all women, it's the spec of women you're attracted to.

Me I can date a broke guy but he must have a decent job and must be willing to keep ascending.He will keep expanding because I'll be praying for him to expand, and i will keep supporting and pushing him till he gets to the top.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Elsah(f): 4:06pm On Feb 08
[quote author=DanDeeBoss post=75537962][/quote]

Lol, you're laughing. Truth is you can have a job but still not be rich. My advice to guys is to stay away from relationships until you're earning something at least. Well, except if it's a casual relationship, which is just for fun. But if you want to go into something serious, have a job first. Not so you can be feeding her here and there, but so, she can take you seriously as a potential husband.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:11pm On Feb 08
Elsah:


Lol, you're laughing. Truth is you can have a job but still not be rich. My advice to guys is to stay away from relationships until you're earning something at least. Well, except if it's a casual relationship, which is just for fun. But if you want to go into something serious, have a job first. Not so you can be feeding her here and there, but so, she can take you seriously as a potential husband.
This is true though... smileysmiley

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by xendra(f): 4:20pm On Feb 08
Not long, not because I don't want to but because there is no point
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DukeofNZ: 4:23pm On Feb 08
Katier00:
My partner don't give me money and we have been dating for two years. We are both working and have our own responsibilities to attend to. Stick with your man because you love him, and leave if you are not comfortable with him


I hope ur partner know say he has a competitor.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Katier00(f): 4:26pm On Feb 08
DukeofNZ:



I hope ur partner know say he has a comitor.
are you one
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DukeofNZ: 4:30pm On Feb 08
Katier00:
are you one

U know say me and u na 4 heaven de decree our togetherness.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Katier00(f): 4:31pm On Feb 08
DukeofNZ:


U know say me and u na 4 heaven de decree our togetherness.
grin grin grin you eh
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by united442(m): 5:03pm On Feb 08
Elsah:


Lol, you're laughing. Truth is you can have a job but still not be rich. My advice to guys is to stay away from relationships until you're earning something at least. Well, except if it's a casual relationship, which is just for fun. But if you want to go into something serious, have a job first. Not so you can be feeding her here and there, but so, she can take you seriously as a potential husband.

noted!

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 5:07pm On Feb 08
Livecamp09:
Ladies, how long can u date a guy who doesn’t give you money Maybe due to his broke financial status ?


Ladies don't date a broke guy

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by STILESGANG: 5:12pm On Feb 08
chiommy123:
hope you know some girls give their boyfriends money
1 out of a million girls
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by marvin906(m): 5:16pm On Feb 08
what's the definition of broke..
cause some women definition of broke is funny..

I one's dated a chick sometime ago..
she tag me broke cause I refuse to give her monthly allowance first and money every month for her perfume, cream and all that..
I just told her to go and meet her father since he's still alive..
na dere person tag me as broke poor and all that..

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by kollinzgee(m): 5:45pm On Feb 08
baralatie:

the bold is out of the equation.
the problem states the guy is financially broke(no job_no pay_no savings)

that means the guy is lazy.a hardworking guy cannot be jobless.
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 5:54pm On Feb 08
chiommy123:
hope you know some girls give their boyfriends money


Yea. I believe

I remember when I was in school, I visited her. I was broke like brokenness. I told her this. She was broke too, she cooked for me. When I was about to leave at night, her friend accompanied us, she called me aside and wrapped 2k in my palm. That 2k wass like 20k to me that day

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 5:56pm On Feb 08
marvin906:
what's the definition of broke..
cause some women definition of broke is funny..

I one's dated a chick sometime ago..
she tag me broke cause I refuse to give her monthly allowance first and money every month for her perfume, cream and all that..
I just told her to go and meet her father since he's still alive..
na dere person tag me as broke poor and all that..

You're not broke bro
Our hustle go pay

I'm equally experiencing this poo
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 5:58pm On Feb 08
nanakgh:
Most of you people are in sexual arrangements but you just call them relationships. You Bleep, you give her money, buy her lil gifts and all you actually get is coitus.

In actual fact you're paying for everything, you've just convinced yourself that you're in a meaningful relationship. Stop paying your 'girlfriend' and see if everything remains the same. In a meaningful relationship one side doesn't get paid for being involved.

True feminism allows women to own their sexuality, and thus I applaud the women who are able to boldly admit that its all mostly coded runs, and it's all just sex for money. If you're with a man u truly love in a meaningful relationship, you'll understand he's not your father or employer.

But at the end of the day, truth is we've all fu*cked olosho disguised as bae.


If I still check it, this is still the best comment I've read so far here

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by alphaNomega: 6:01pm On Feb 08
Livecamp09:


Hope u mean what u are saying it just trying to gain attention ? undecided

Don't mind that one
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by mespusinglez(m): 6:03pm On Feb 08
chiommy123:
Money is not everything
just here yourself, .....that's what you girls always say few months in a RXS....but later na another story

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by IamPlato(m): 6:04pm On Feb 08
Are You Dating Because You Want To Get Money?
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by marvin906(m): 6:10pm On Feb 08
irumole1975:

You're not broke bro Our hustle go pay
I'm equally experiencing this poo


honestly doing it wasn't the problem my issue was she didn't deserve it so why should I bother myself..

Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 6:16pm On Feb 08
marvin906:




honestly doing it wasn't the problem
my issue was she didn't deserve it so why should I bother myself..

I was thinking mine was a saint. she knows I'm broke and currently hustling my way to find a living. Untill she starts complaining recently about her friend's boifriends used to take them out and spoil them real bad. she starts complaining tHAT i dont love her. Just few days ago we broke up
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by marvin906(m): 6:19pm On Feb 08
irumole1975:


I was thinking mine was a saint. she knows I'm broke and currently hustling my way to find a living. Untill she starts complaining recently about her friend's boifriends used to take them out and spoil them real bad. she starts complaining tHAT i dont love her. Just few days ago we broke up



you dodge a bullet..
yes it's gonna hurt buh when you sit down and look at your future with her in it..
you know you dodge a bullet..
for me am not looking for any useless relationship..
just look for mental, emotional,and financial balance in my life right now

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:29pm On Feb 08
irumole1975:


I was thinking mine was a saint. she knows I'm broke and currently hustling my way to find a living. Untill she starts complaining recently about her friend's boifriends used to take them out and spoil them real bad. she starts complaining tHAT i dont love her. Just few days ago we broke up
That's the problem bro, they just can't hold it for long... "you don't love me" is what they always say if you can't meet up with the standard of their friends' boyfriends

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by millionboi2: 6:35pm On Feb 08
Katier00:
My partner don't give me money and we have been dating for two years. We are both working and have our own responsibilities to attend to. Stick with your man because you love him, and leave if you are not comfortable with him
hmmm

Hope u are not trying to impress us here.


Do u ppl have sex?

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by irumole1975: 6:35pm On Feb 08
marvin906:




you dodge a bullet..
yes it's gonna hurt buh when you sit down and look at your future with her in it..
you know you dodge a bullet..
for me am not looking for any useless relationship..
just look for mental, emotional,and financial balance in my life right now

@ bolded, Thats me currently.

Its painfull.

Should I kill myself just because I'm broke and I cant meet up with the standards other guys across the world are setting?
Ouch
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by Itzurboi(m): 6:45pm On Feb 08
nanakgh:
Most of you people are in sexual arrangements but you just call them relationships. You Bleep, you give her money, buy her lil gifts and all you actually get is coitus.

In actual fact you're paying for everything, you've just convinced yourself that you're in a meaningful relationship. Stop paying your 'girlfriend' and see if everything remains the same. In a meaningful relationship one side doesn't get paid for being involved.

True feminism allows women to own their sexuality, and thus I applaud the women who are able to boldly admit that its all mostly coded runs, and it's all just sex for money. If you're with a man u truly love in a meaningful relationship, you'll understand he's not your father or employer.

But at the end of the day, truth is we've all fu*cked olosho disguised as bae.

You have said it all... A bottle of origin is coming to knock ur door.

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by luvyaself95: 6:46pm On Feb 08
Yea Am Really really broke now.. if my babe say she want to leave.. if you want to leave biko leave no do shakara no dey carry your shoulder oh...
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by marvin906(m): 6:49pm On Feb 08
irumole1975:


@ bolded, Thats me currently.

Its painfull.

Should I kill myself just because I'm broke and I cant meet up with the standards other guys across the world are setting?
Ouch




there's a time for everything..
so don't loose hope..
just keep hustling..
if the right chick comes good if she doesn't is all good..
just try to run away from brokeness it ain't funny

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Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by united442(m): 6:56pm On Feb 08
irumole1975:


@ bolded, Thats me currently.

Its painfull.

Should I kill myself just because I'm broke and I cant meet up with the standards other guys across the world are setting?
Ouch

please take it easy bro..no kill ur self..dnt push urself too hard abeg!
its bleeping hurt bt wetti man go do?
Re: Ladies, How Long Can U Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Give You Money ? by EzzyCarter(m): 7:10pm On Feb 08
As harsh as this sounds, the fact is relationship isn't meant for broke guys.( no matter how understanding the girl is) An advice for you brother, channel that energy you spend on chasing women into grinding and hustling hard to make money. It might be hard at first but it will pay off in the end. It's all about discipline and dedication. Build an empire and watch how sophisticated ladies will flock around you . No one wants to be associated with a mediocre you know...

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