Guys harrase you because you have to be bleeped, like every other woman you not an exception period.

@ Echidime,

See your life? Your name sef makes me wonder. God help you

lilian,

haba, wetin? na fight?

Alert call me for tips on 09-4802082 on at nite from 8pm

Alert, how alert are you really? I mean you should face the problems squarely, why are you in a relationship that you don't like? don't you know that the guy understands that you don't love him? and for that a guy will want to at least have something to show for all him time with you. Break up and let God have control of your life because I think you need to go for couselling. Good luck

lilian777 what is the meaning of his name?

Lyao

HEY,IF THERE IS NO STRING ATTACHED TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP DONT GO FOR IT.U GOT THAT!!!

Alert, fe-male.

Give him a proper shunning and warn him never to do that again.

And if i may add you need to be closer to God and let him guide you through. Only him can save you.

IBEXY and 2muchmoney have hit the nail on the head.

You only avail yourself to handsome guys and this is the reason you get treated like trash. A lot of them know they can get any girl they want, hence do not respect the ones that chase them.

girl,i feel you.its not easy for stunningly beautiful ladies like us to escape such unwanted attentions. i have same experiences.what i do to some of these guys,after the initial warning of course is to give them a resounding slap in public, grab hold of their family jewels and scream rape at the top of my voice.trust me darlin,it works like magic.try it.

u may be ugly

ayeesha:

girl,i feel you.its not easy for stunningly beautiful ladies like us to escape such unwanted attentions. i have same experiences.what i do to some of these guys,after the initial warning of course is to give them a resounding slap in public, grab hold of their family jewels and scream rape at the top of my voice.trust me darlin,it works like magic.try it.

na wa oo

I have always said that it is better for me to date a guy that is okay looking but gat good personality than fine guy whit nonsense personality cuz at da end of the day, i wont eat or tolorate ur fineness

@ade.f

I never pass off myself as early twenties (i am 29 and proud ), but a lot of people never believe me and they all think i am 22-24.

I was not even allowed into clubs without an ID till i was 26!!!

u just send out d wrong signals like maybe u firlt a lot with boys

noooo i hardly think being friendly should be interpreted as being flirty.

The world would be a hery dreary palce to be if everyone stopped being friendly to others, stopped smiling at others, simply becos they do no want to be classified as 'flirts'.

one can be friendly and still have clearly defined boundaries laid out.

Besides, a little bit of harmless and innocent flirting now and again can cheer up soemone's day and make you feel better - just do it in a tasteful way that does not harm anyone (inluding your existing boyfriend or girlfriend) and that does not give out the wrong signals

I think you are fallen for the wrong guys, but I noticed sincerely that some ladies dont enjoy it when you are sincere maybe you are meeting guys that will tell you things you want to hear which might be opposite in the reality. . Well am based in Abuja, I hope you dont mind if we could hook up

yemisa:

I think you are fallen for the wrong guys, but I noticed sincerely that some ladies don't enjoy it when you are sincere maybe you are meeting guys that will tell you things you want to hear which might be opposite in the reality. . Well am based in Abuja, I hope you don't mind if we could hook up

buhahahahah
a na ekwu na oku gbara fada, o na aju ma ogbakwara afoo onu ya.

yemisa:

I hope you don't mind if we could hook up

*^{rolling eyes}* there they go again

they only want your obo - wet wet obo - nothing more - dont be deceived.

wa_do_mi:

they only want your obo - wet wet obo - nothing more - don't be deceived.

na waahooooooh

lol

I beg you fit post your pix make I see? Cos even as

you de talk so me self don de harrass fall for you o!

because you're a slag and you love it. Stop wasting everybody's time with this crap.

mellow:

I beg you fit post your pix make I see? Cos even as

you de talk so me self don de harrass fall for you o!

buahahahaa

donjohano:

because you're a slag and you love it. Stop wasting everybody's time with this crap.

Even if she loves it, that don't make her a slag abeg sto pit now

@ alert
all these people that are advising you to slap,ha! look the guy well well before you slap am o! cos some guys , dem go beat shege comot for your bodyjust to save face .

seriously, i think your the one allowing all that crap in your life, cos no one will harass you unless you let them. starts from play-play and graduates to, harassment( for your side only!) cos the guy has been gettting green light all along.

maybe its wat u wear, cos my dad say u dress like a prostitute u attract customers, lol, or maybe ur makeup is too much, consult a makeup specialist, or maybe u just tooo hot, then consult God through ur mum

acidrop:

maybe its what u wear, because my dad say u dress like a prostitute u attract customers, lol, or maybe your makeup is too much, consult a makeup specialist, or maybe u just tooo hot, then consult God through your mum

thats really gonna help her now isn't it. buhahahah na wa oh

It could be that you are ;

a, usually surrounded by the same kind of people since you were 14 till date.ie places you find yourself at

b, Sending the wrong signals unknowingly ie like 'come -get-me' kind of message, What kind of clothes do you wear?

c, The kind of choices you make as regards to relationship

d, Too friendly with the ones you shouldnt be too friendly with

e, saying yes when you mean no( As regards to your present realtionship) You shouldnt be dating people you don't like

f, what is your major reason for being friends with a guy anyway?If a guy feels you are taking advantage of him,he may want to get even by sexually harrasing you or otherwise. The Ego thingy, don't you think?

g,Or, it could be that you are just DAMN too SEXY for them guys. you know ,like 'too hot to handle' and 'too cool for comfort.'

I concur

DewDrop (f) Re: Why Do I Get Harassed By Guys?
« #26 on: April 26, 2007, 07:58 AM »

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oh whatever!
deal with it
People are hungry in the world
this one is worried about having too many guys trying to get at her
What about those women who wish a man would look their way and not point & laugh
Unless they're trying assault you in anyway
just enjoy it- you only get like 5-10 more years of this.

If it really does bother you that much, quit being friends with men.

Though it seems to me that u relish that attention!
your with someone you don't even like- For why!?
So why won't the wrong impression be made of you?!?
you obviously can stay around someone and not let them know your true feelings
so can we blame friend A for making moves?

Anyway- about your co-worker, tell him to stop or you'll report his behavior to a supervisor
And if he doesn't FOLLOW THROUGH!
Don't make empty threats!


Haba galfriend,why u come dey harsh on d poor chick now?u arent even mincing out words for her at all.Abeg small small before i conclude that u desire as much attention as she has