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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by livebullet(m): 7:44am On May 14, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:

Thank you so much for this kiss

Chioma dont let this one decieve you o. Even the bible says: a woman shud submit to her husband.... The tussle for supremacy is the reason for so many divorce today... E. G tonto dike and co.

Anyway hows school?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:10am On May 14, 2019
cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH
Bitch
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:57am On May 14, 2019
Its better she is expressing herself now than a lady who will be saying yes sir,yes sir but will get into the marriage and break your head with bottle. Oga courtship is work and marriage is hard work,you guys need to work it out. Guy go and make enough money,you will tell to sit in a place for 24 hrs i bet you she will not stand up. For now you are not feeding her,she is not in your house,you are not paying her children school fee so don't expect she will submit to you. For you to be able to control a woman you need to understand her and be wiser than her. Don't forget its better she is showing you her character now than those that will get into the marriage and turn to vampire.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by jetson06: 12:54pm On Apr 04, 2023
Quit that Bitch bro and go Bleep her best friend.

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me cry cry cry

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