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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 11:39am On Mar 08, 2019 |
Hollawayn05: She is from akwa ibom 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by lilianofentse(f): 11:41am On Mar 08, 2019 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by crunchyg: 11:43am On Mar 08, 2019 |
lilianofentse:its because fair people make me wanna react anytime I talk with them |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Miniano: 11:48am On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac: Hey bro I have been in your shoes some years back I met this girl she was quite and calm she Begs me even if I offended her it lasted for 4 months then bling the love became something else she feels too important she too over protective too sausy. One day I sat down and think about this I can't continue living my life like the I sent her a break up message she pleaded and I accepted her back she baahve very well for another one week she bling shes back to her previous wahala character she hates it when you try to control her or tell her things she doesn't double date r have any other guys she's just too arrogant and never wanted to be under a man's command. This are the cause I noticed if your girlfriend is from a polygamous family her dad or mum has been separated since birthy brother this can be the main causes of this issue. Because she was not taught how to leave with a man so she never know what a man is. My advice for you bro is just to leave her alone no matter how much u love her u will end up regretting you married her I pray you don't regret in name of God. Remember sugar came sweet but we no fit swallow am this means no matter how much u love some people in your life you have to let them go. I had to call my ex girlfriend and call her about our relationship I had a conclusion with her on phone call she should move on with her life that's how I survived. It will be very hard for her to listen to you she's gonna turn you to someone that will be beating his wife because they would be some day you won't be able to tolerate all her characters again. My advice 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by jaron55(m): 11:49am On Mar 08, 2019 |
Tell yourself the truth, if your the types that need to be respected by your partner, you still find such |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Divine200: 12:03pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac:She doesn't love you. Period! I guess she is using to while away time. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Godson201333(m): 12:11pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac: It is either you are broke or not matured enough to be a man. Learn to love with your sense and not with dick.Don’t stay in any relationship that disturb your self esteem . Break up with her and move on ..You can never raise an adult ! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
You don’t need to be controlling for a woman to submit to you. If you have to do that then there’s something wrong with you as a man Souqwaqif: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Futureyahooboi(m): 12:21pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Your own better na stubborn she stubborn abi, my own na village people dey disturb her... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by tosyne2much(m): 12:43pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Offpoint1:Word of wisdom... Nice one man |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by tosyne2much(m): 12:49pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
A lot has been said here but I'm going chip in mine OP, you don't need to force a woman before she submits to you. This is something that should flow naturally due to how she sees you. If this isn't coming, you don't need to force it.. Just know when to quit and save yourself from worries Also, two alpha beings can't be in a relationship, it will always end in quarrels and disagreements. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by tosyne2much(m): 12:53pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Miniano:That's very true.. Upbringing also matters depending on the structure of the family Sometimes I don't blame proud and arrogant ladies, their family structure could probably be the cause 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by victostrp: 1:00pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
If u don't intend marrying her. Just leave an let her go Cos if u can't correct her now it will be difficult for u. The earlier the better |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
cococandy: This was the comment I was looking for. One truckload of likes fall on your comment. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Hollawayn05(m): 1:30pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
sorry bro
also facing same issue
love won't let me leave her yet cos I too gate jumping from one lady to anoda
if I may ask
which state is she from? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by MNDY(m): 1:33pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Viicfuntop: Who or what made us equal if I may ask pls? A man's psychology and perspective is different from that of a woman's. Nature made it that way. The man is the head, nothing can change that. Feminism is unAfrican, unbiblical, a distortion of God's natural order, and it will only lead to chaos. Feminism is just like another apple Lucifer is enticing you lot with, and it of course has its own consequences. The Bible says wives submit to your husband (the head) and husbands love your wives. What does the Head do? He controls. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Viicfuntop: Theresa May controls the UK?! Okay! Buhh what really do u know about her?! You know nothinq about her private and love life! You don't know how she runs her life, so your reference is invalid! "We are all equal"?! No, we're not! And if you have problem with that, qo arque with God, and that's if you're not an atheist. And u say no man can control u?! I quess your father is always havinq a hard time puttinq u on the riqht path! In fact with time, your mum would be havinq touqh time as well, tryinq to instill some morals in you. A time will come when not only mahn buhh "no-one" would be able to control u anymore, includinq your boss at work'place. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 2:07pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Godson201333: Shut up. Do I look broke to you? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 2:07pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Divine200: I look am reach like that I have called it quit officially. Tried to make things right this morning and she was very rude to me. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 2:10pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Miniano: Thanks bro. True words I even tried to reconcile with her this morning but gave me very rude response so I just ended the call Nad deleted her number. She can go to hell with her bad character 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 2:13pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
cococandy: points raised here are valid, buhh that doesn't rule out the qirl's meqalomaniac tendencies too. She's seeminqly Prima Donna-ish. Besides, every opinions beinq raised here are only based on the OP's side of the story. No loqical and reasonable conclusion can be reached riqht now until the qirl's side of the story is made known. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:23pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac: Here is where you are wrong again. The problem I believe is your whole mindset. I'm sorry but you have to change it cause it seems that you're a control freak 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 3:30pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Why are you people obsessed with controlling others. Does that sound normal to you? Do you want to be controlled? Why then do you want to control another person? It’s amusing to see people with problems who can’t see they are the ones with the problem and not the person they are trying to project it on. Sick johnkay1: 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Daisy17: 3:34pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
arki: I did a google search and here is a list of the words synonymous to submissive: compliant, yielding, malleable, acquiescent, accommodating, amenable, tractable, manageable, unassertive, non-resisting, passive, obedient, biddable, dutiful, duteous, docile, ductile, pliant, meek, timid, mild, patient, resigned, forbearing, subdued, humble, self-effacing, spiritless, deferential, obsequious, servile, slavish, self-abasing, spineless. Look at the last four words and that is what a typical African male expects from a woman when he says he wants her to be submissive. I had rather be single than have to live with males of such caliber. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Viicfuntop(f): 3:41pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
dingbang: Why do guys think of themselves as he superior humans? Why exactly? Why can’t the ladies decide to be with a man? Even though the men ask them out, they still have the power in the relationship. They decide if he is worth dating. So they do the choosing. They own the veto card 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Daisy17: 3:50pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac: I hope you also let her scold you when you do something wrong. Don't tell me that you are always right 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by dingbang(m): 4:27pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Viicfuntop:no one decides if I am worth dating! I dont beg to be dated! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Kenshinmunac:u don't need our advice then,do what's In ur mind,since u don't want to let her go,u both are not compatible for each other,shikena!!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by pansophist(m): 5:25pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
cococandy: You're making sense until you mention mansplaining. Like what is the Bleep is that? And is there femalespalining too? 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Some man went out of his way to ‘explain’ to us what women mean by the term mainsplain. Lmao. And mansplaining isn’t a thing? When you think you know a term better than the person who came up with it, can someone say mansplain? Thank you for proving my point. pansophist: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 5:51pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
She’s better off without you. Kenshinmunac: 2 Likes |
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