Hollawayn05:



sorry bro
also facing same issue
love won't let me leave her yet cos I too gate jumping from one lady to anoda
if I may ask
which state is she from?

lilianofentse:

Why the sud

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

Kenshinmunac:


I'm not a control freak. I don't want to control her she should just listen. She doesn't want to take anything I tell her at all not minding me. If for example I tell her to come see me she will object and say she is not in the mood to go out or she is watching TV if I try to sweet talk her to come she stands on her no. If she says no it's no. It's that shit I hate I mean how can you just say no to your man like that and not even consider him even if he is begging you? Girl I plan to marry? That shit is just bleeped up.

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

Souqwaqif:


I guess you are a woman and birds of the same feather,look let me reveal a secret to you most men find submissive women very interesting even if they take the woman's submissiveness for granted they will still cherish her because elsewhere they will never find a submissive woman since they already have one at home that's how posterity made it.

Offpoint1:
I see a ship whereby 2 captains are trying to sail,
A kingdom where 2 kings are trying to rule,
A pack of wolves with 2 Alpha male,
A pride of lions with 2 dominant male,
A car where 2 drivers are trying to drive,
I see a perfect ingredient for a disastrous home.

Op, you don't need my advice... you need common sense. You don't have 2 madmen in a room and expect a tidy room.

Miniano:


Hey bro I have been in your shoes some years back I met this girl she was quite and calm she Begs me even if I offended her it lasted for 4 months then bling the love became something else she feels too important she too over protective too sausy.

One day I sat down and think about this I can't continue living my life like the I sent her a break up message she pleaded and I accepted her back she baahve very well for another one week she bling shes back to her previous wahala character she hates it when you try to control her or tell her things she doesn't double date r have any other guys she's just too arrogant and never wanted to be under a man's command.

This are the cause I noticed if your girlfriend is from a polygamous family her dad or mum has been separated since birthy brother this can be the main causes of this issue.

Because she was not taught how to leave with a man so she never know what a man is. My advice for you bro is just to leave her alone no matter how much u love her u will end up regretting you married her I pray you don't regret in name of God.

Remember sugar came sweet but we no fit swallow am this means no matter how much u love some people in your life you have to let them go.

I had to call my ex girlfriend and call her about our relationship I had a conclusion with her on phone call she should move on with her life that's how I survived. It will be very hard for her to listen to you she's gonna turn you to someone that will be beating his wife because they would be some day you won't be able to tolerate all her characters again. My advice

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

Viicfuntop:



Therese May controls the Uk, so what’s your point? No man can control me. We are all equal. We both have our strengths and weaknesses so give the control rubbish a rest.

Viicfuntop:



Therese May controls the Uk, so what’s your point? No man can control me. We are all equal. We both have our strengths and weaknesses so give the control rubbish a rest.

Godson201333:


It is either you are broke or not matured enough to be a man. Learn to love with your sense and not with dick.Don’t stay in any relationship that disturb your self esteem . Break up with her and move on ..You can never raise an adult !

Divine200:

She doesn't love you. Period!
I guess she is using to while away time.

Miniano:


Hey bro I have been in your shoes some years back I met this girl she was quite and calm she Begs me even if I offended her it lasted for 4 months then bling the love became something else she feels too important she too over protective too sausy.

One day I sat down and think about this I can't continue living my life like the I sent her a break up message she pleaded and I accepted her back she baahve very well for another one week she bling shes back to her previous wahala character she hates it when you try to control her or tell her things she doesn't double date r have any other guys she's just too arrogant and never wanted to be under a man's command.

This are the cause I noticed if your girlfriend is from a polygamous family her dad or mum has been separated since birthy brother this can be the main causes of this issue.

Because she was not taught how to leave with a man so she never know what a man is. My advice for you bro is just to leave her alone no matter how much u love her u will end up regretting you married her I pray you don't regret in name of God.

Remember sugar came sweet but we no fit swallow am this means no matter how much u love some people in your life you have to let them go.

I had to call my ex girlfriend and call her about our relationship I had a conclusion with her on phone call she should move on with her life that's how I survived. It will be very hard for her to listen to you she's gonna turn you to someone that will be beating his wife because they would be some day you won't be able to tolerate all her characters again. My advice

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

Kenshinmunac:


so wait you mean I can't scold my own gf if she goes wrong?

johnkay1:
It seems some girls are just like that. There was this gal I met during my youth service, she is pretty, can cook, and take care of home but her bad side is this domineering attribute. She will never say sorry from her heart and hate being controlled, she will only do what she likes not what you want. I systematically withdrew from the relationship until she realized I was no longer interested in the relationship.

I'm an African and I was not trained like that. Even English man believes he is the head of his home. Imagine that kind girl now get richer than you, automatically you will be reduced to nobody.

Our sisters need more orientation from people with blissful home not yeyebrities that call themselves celebrities and feminists who know nothing about running of family affairs.

arki:

Hv you ever seen a colony, establishment, ship etc without a head? If no, then in every relationship/ marriage God instituted a head which is d man to head the family. If u as a woman goes against d divine ordinance, then there is trouble. My dear, many women don't know d sciences of getting d heart of a man. Some think it's food, sex etc. Wen a woman/lady is submissive to her husband/bf, She has only earned herself d man, cos subconsciously she will control d man without d man knowing. There is nothing that can cage a man to a lady than wen he finds out dat his gf/wife obeys and respects him. Only d intelligent few amongst u pple knws this.
Back to d OP, I am begging u in d name of whteva u believe to run for ur life. Dnt ever put up wit such kind of a lady or even talking abt marriage. That's if u like ur life o, cos dat ur gf can neva change, if u trace it well, that is how her either parents behave. U dnt see fire and be petting it. Do u want to die young? Leave d relationship asap, and get ur self a lady dat not only loves u but respects u. Be a man bro and take charge of ur relationship

dingbang:
Normally I dont tolerate attitudes like this. I just pretend as if we cool and one day we just break up suddenly. Some ladies need to understand the fact that a guy chooses, not being chosen.

Kenshinmunac:


If someone makes me angry I tend to raise my voice when taking, I bear with her a lot but she fucking gets on my nerve like weiten they burst my head na that "I don't understand" I mean that shit disrespectful asf. "are you shouting at me, I don't understand" so wait you mean I can't scold my own gf if she goes wrong?

Viicfuntop:



Why do guys think of themselves as he superior humans? Why exactly? Why can’t the ladies decide to be with a man? Even though the men ask them out, they still have the power in the relationship. They decide if he is worth dating. So they do the choosing. They own the veto card

Kenshinmunac:


Mehn I wish I knew wouldn't have been involved with her. She is fucking proud but letting her go is so heart shattering because I got attached. Thanks for the advice though bro,

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.

GTFOH

pansophist:


You're making sense until you mention mansplaining. Like what is the Bleep is that? And is there femalespalining too?

Kenshinmunac:


Thanks bro. True words I even tried to reconcile with her this morning but gave me very rude response so I just ended the call Nad deleted her number. She can go to hell with her bad character