bro just ask her directly on what's up are response would determine if she is interested in u too.. just ask example after some level of conversation that would have already kept her in a lighter mood, just tell her ... Chinelo... I like you but I am not sure if u've actually noticed that part of me, wait for her response, if her response is positive just tell her I would like to date u the answer u would get is either positive or negative even without saying yes or no but don't get ur hopes high before u do cos girls do behave like ogbanje sometimes... if u could do a good job on what's app physical would be easy trust me

PrimadonnaO:


One thing really amuses me...and it is that, in spite of all the wailings and misogynistic tendencies these boys display on Nairaland, they still can't stay away from women. They run after women like the air they breathe... and worse still, most of them who wail on here the most end up with the real reformed or still-active oloshos...because they are incapable of attracting and keeping better women.

Y'all keep going from thread to thread bashing women and making silly generic statements. It speaks volumes about who you really are... and sadly it almost changes nothing.

Congratulations dear!

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Please Nairalanders,
I want you guys to help me out. There is this girl we are friends. But before I made her my friend, I was already falling in love with her. So I established a friendship with her. Since then I haven't made any approach. Cuz I'm thinking maybe she might turn me down. Recently we started chatting on whatsapp. All her replies to my messages ends with love love love. Eg. Hi love, good night love. Good morning love. How you doing love. Etc. Please is this a sign that it is time for me to shoot my shot. Does she love me too.
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I will be glad to hear your advices Thank you

Ure a funny guy. She has been shooting her shot at u instead of u to catch it like a good goal keeper u want to shoot ur own shot again?? What if Ur own enter throwing? I pity u

Maybe she thought you said your name was Lovet... guy be careful o.

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Please Nairalanders,
I want you guys to help me out. There is this girl we are friends. But before I made her my friend, I was already falling in love with her. So I established a friendship with her. Since then I haven't made any approach. Cuz I'm thinking maybe she might turn me down. Recently we started chatting on whatsapp. All her replies to my messages ends with love love love. Eg. Hi love, good night love. Good morning love. How you doing love. Etc. Please is this a sign that it is time for me to shoot my shot. Does she love me too.
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I will be glad to hear your advices Thank you

Take her out, at the end of the date, hold both her hands, stare directly into her eyes and plant a fast lip kiss (not a full one o!) and if you land on the lips dont withdraw quick. She will see you coming for the kiss. If she moves back or turn her face away, you know why. She freezes, good. She closes her eyes or kiss back, eureka!

Rejection kills friendships, this way, you will still be friends, trust me no matter what the result.

If you dont want to do that, just tell her youve falling in love with her and nothing more. It is not a question but a statement of fact. She may not reply but her actions will give a sign. If its a no, she will say it.

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Please Nairalanders,
I want you guys to help me out. There is this girl we are friends. But before I made her my friend, I was already falling in love with her. So I established a friendship with her. Since then I haven't made any approach. Cuz I'm thinking maybe she might turn me down. Recently we started chatting on whatsapp. All her replies to my messages ends with love love love. Eg. Hi love, good night love. Good morning love. How you doing love. Etc. Please is this a sign that it is time for me to shoot my shot. Does she love me too.
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I will be glad to hear your advices Thank you

Ask her out, its going to be a yes or a NO. Either way, it puts you out of ur misery

Cocoyamdcomedia:

How can I do this. How can I Ask her directly my recent observations. I need a clue .

why not tell her how you feel about her, don't be afraid only two things will happen either she accepts your true love or she rejects you,let there be no middle ground,if you allow that then you are friendzoned,be strong a faint heart cannot win a fair lady.

for her to b using d word "love" on u is under probability; she might or might nt av d same feelings Bt u av higher chance of getting her.
And frm ur words, it's like u r so scared of rejection n if u continue dat way u will end up settling for less.
always b bold to tell gals ur feelings for they love guys wit great guts.

[quote author=mikejj post=76787702] be careful sha,because it might be that your village has finally found you after so many years.... and you hear, I need money love [/quote
Lmao

Damn!

Nobodyperson:
Drug her and take her to bush
You don't permission from a woman has a man
It's our birth right from God
Even Solomon in the Bible had hundreds of conbuin he never married.
Same with Mohammed

Lazy man.

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Please Nairalanders,
I want you guys to help me out. There is this girl we are friends. But before I made her my friend, I was already falling in love with her. So I established a friendship with her. Since then I haven't made any approach. Cuz I'm thinking maybe she might turn me down. Recently we started chatting on whatsapp. All her replies to my messages ends with love love love. Eg. Hi love, good night love. Good morning love. How you doing love. Etc. Please is this a sign that it is time for me to shoot my shot. Does she love me too.

I will be glad to hear your advices Thank you

Don't ever ask her out. Else, she will change and start playing hard to get. Just play along with her lyrics. Start using romantic words for her too... It's most likely you will have her on a platter of gold without asking her out.

next time you see her, just kiss her, don't tell her anything like I love you or I have feelings for you. I repeat don't tell her I love you or I have feelings for you.

personally I can't be friends with a girl, if we ain't 4kin we ain't talking.

PrimadonnaO:


One thing really amuses me...and it is that, in spite of all the wailings and misogynistic tendencies these boys display on Nairaland, they still can't stay away from women. They run after women like the air they breathe... and worse still, most of them who wail on here the most end up with the real reformed or still-active oloshos...because they are incapable of attracting and keeping better women.

Y'all keep going from thread to thread bashing women and making silly generic statements. It speaks volumes about who you really are... and sadly it almost changes nothing.

i will like to know u.......personally.

Gettreadyy:
next time you see her, just kiss her, don't tell her anything like I love you or I have feelings for you. I repeat don't tell her I love you or I have feelings for you.

personally I can't be friends with a girl, if we ain't 4kin we ain't talking.

we know you very well.....na mouth mouth you carry full evrywhere

Somebody will get robbed soon

If all dia words dey end with love, if no b billing na something dey sup oooo, just hope say na something dey sup, ask her out, tell her ya mind......last last she go say Yes or No

No need to toast her anymore. She have greed before the toast. Now go to stage to after toasting (Pecking ). Whenever you see her just tell her love and peck on the cheek gbom! Your case is settled for stage 3

Cocoyamdcomedia:

How can I do this. How can I Ask her directly my recent observations. I need a clue .

Find out in a playful manner...' Na so u go dey call me love upandan but make your guy show face now, u go deny me'....her response might give you a clue.

Abi o..which one be tales by the moonlight.ho ask u question

femi4:
advice the op and move on

You're too dull. You're asking if you should shoot your shot.

Tomorrow, you'll be debating that Ronaldo is not a good striker.

Alaye no fall for love love thing ooo..na billing deh come so..ask her out..tell her your mind with a straight face.if she say no..we are friendskeep it as friends.afterwards no more favors or unnecasary kungba kungbe chats,

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PrimadonnaO:


One thing really amuses me...and it is that, in spite of all the wailings and misogynistic tendencies these boys display on Nairaland, they still can't stay away from women. They run after women like the air they breathe... and worse still, most of them who wail on here the most end up with the real reformed or still-active oloshos...because they are incapable of attracting and keeping better women.

Y'all keep going from thread to thread bashing women and making silly generic statements. It speaks volumes about who you really are... and sadly it almost changes nothing.

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Your focus on their silly comments means you're greatly lacking too. You most likely have poor self esteem and you don't have class. Work on yourself first.

OP most girls shy away from commitment. They wrongly see it as a cage and will therefore decline when you try to make it official and ask them out. My advice to you: Create a nice atmosphere and throw in a bit of romance. A smooch to the face, waist, neck and further etc, a cuddle, attempt a kiss (lip or neck), a real sensual hug etc If she doesn't stop you or tries to stop you too weakly, congratulations Oga she's yours.

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Please Nairalanders,
I want you guys to help me out. There is this girl we are friends. But before I made her my friend, I was already falling in love with her. So I established a friendship with her. Since then I haven't made any approach. Cuz I'm thinking maybe she might turn me down. Recently we started chatting on whatsapp. All her replies to my messages ends with love love love. Eg. Hi love, good night love. Good morning love. How you doing love. Etc. Please is this a sign that it is time for me to shoot my shot. Does she love me too.
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I will be glad to hear your advices Thank you

Dear OP,
If I understand you correctly, your only reason why you want to ask her out is because she ends your conversations with 'love'. Your rejection would be swifter than the speed of Hussein bolt

mikejj:
be careful sha,because it might be that your village has finally found you after so many years.... and you hear, I need money love

lmao

olawaleseun:
be sure of her intentions first... Ask her directly ur recent observations and also revelations ur affection for her in a soft manner at the same time... Them I think her aftermath response or reaction will give a the Hinest answer u're searching for

Why must he wait to be sure of her intentions first?

Ogbeni shoot your shot. If it enters, it enters. If it doesn't enter, you move on.

love and relationships are just a small part of life.

very simple, start putting love in your own texts

Bros don't be in a hurry to say those words. Observe her for a while and be in control of your thoughts and emotions.

for me, the "good morning love", "good nite love" is not a good sign. She's already luring you.