guys Never ask a girl out its a very wrong move its leads to 99% rejection .forget what the op said a girl who likes you will never play hard to get for you.

I have never "asked a girl out" in my entire adult life. But I've talked up uncountable and did whatever I hoped with them - one night stand, fling, relationship, etc. Asking her out gives the 'askee' the opportunity to refuse, often out of sheer awkwardness.

Just get her damn number if possible, arrange meet ups, and charm your way into her pant, her heart, or her purse...depending on your aim. Don't ask for stupid permissions.

OriakuAmara:
You did the right thing girl. Don't know why many guys are so cheap

You guys think we are still in the age of texting and begging..
Lol

At this stage of my life, I don't waste my time. It's either you want or not. If you show me that you don't want, I leave without looking back. Funny enough, a player will go to any length to get a girl bleeped no matter how long it takes him. I ain't do that shit. That's why players use the same tactics to deceive them over and over again.

Trying harder is for boys playing around. I ain't no boy.

In this new era, you don't need to ask a woman out — just sneak into her heart by acting as her boyfriend already. Nice guys never listen.

anochuko01:
llol. if you tell me NO once, I get the hell off!
we all have worth. I don't want to appear cheap too....

if you get luck, I fit ask you the second time.

If she had perhaps said no and explained that she needed a little more time to ascertain the trueness of his intentions, it would have made a little bit of sense.

But she was there doing unnecessary shakara.

Hedonisst:
I have never "asked a girl out" in my entire adult life. But I've talked up uncountable and did whatever I hoped with them - one night stand, fling, relationship, etc. Asking her out gives the 'askee' the opportunity to refuse, often out of sheer awkwardness.

Just get her damn number if possible, arrange meet ups, and charm your way into her pant, her heart, or her purse...depending on your aim. Don't ask for stupid permissions.

Fellow Guy man spotted

Persistence doesn't mean he's serious. I know guys that spent months asking girls out and after a fvck or 2 it's game over.

West601:
according to nigga raw,any girl wey do shakara 4 u leave am cus wen u don waka she no go believe am

Lol. Funny enough, as I was starting to read your comment, Nigga Raw's song (Ara ga agba ndi ara) just got played at the garden where I'm consuming bottles of something along with peppersoup. Weird coincidence.

Big ups to Nigga Raw Nwanne.

If I hear say d pant......doesn't add up why tell him no no no just for u to want him to try harder thunder fire try harder for there.....u need to know ppl r grabbing at anything that comes

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

And u haven't seen a scenario where a guy was persistent as f**k coz of his lustful desires?? You see why u girls always fall into the wrong hands?
*Sigh*

MariaLavina:
Why are you farting from your mouth like this?

Did I hold a dagger to your throat that you must accept my opinion? that post wasn't even directed to you in the first place. If you can't converse sensibly then make yourself invisible please.

Do you know why guys maintain that you ladies have "fish brain"? Because of your mentality on an issue like this one among others.
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You ladies will never learn. You think your opinion on playing hard to get is correct but it is not, my sister. If she agrees, it doesn't mean they will start f"cking straightaway, because your body seems to be what you seem to lay emphasis on majorly as ladies (used and dump and stuff).
Plus one is at liberty to quit a relationship anytime he/she wishes.
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You ladies will be testing to see if he is serious or studying him and he will move to another girl. And you and I know that there are more females in existence than men and time ticking for you ladies in addition to losing your right man all in the name of playing hard to get and/or "testing."

MariaLavina:
Why are you farting from your mouth like this?

Did I hold a dagger to your throat that you must accept my opinion? that post wasn't even directed to you in the first place. If you can't converse sensibly then make yourself invisible please.

People like that, I prefer ignoring them. They ain't worth a reply.

lefulefu:
hehe some dudes will be toasting a girl for donkey yrs and d girl will be putting dem on hold. She will now finally say yes if her main guy she was hopin on finally dumps her. Wen d girl wey dey toast her for donkey yrs finally marries and d ex dat dumped looks her way again she go den open for d ex sharp sharp. Or dose guys toasting girls for long yrs thinking they are like jacob in d bible working in laban's farm for 45 yrs cos im wan marry one of im dauthers are jus wasting their time.

Lol

You have not seen a guy that will bet with his friends that he must Bleep you. This type will chase you for five years. Some will even do intro with you if that’s what will give them access your pant.

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

What do you mean by pant?

Did the guy tell you he's a ritualist yahoo boy?

Dats so typical me. Say No and I move on. Shikenan

Time no dey ni.... U said no and what else move on of course

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

If he was interested in her pants. He'd persist. She'd view it as love and open the gates. He'd score. He'll move on after an accomplished task. She'll cry more and swear for his generation. Experience.

ONE BOTTLE OF COKE FOR YOU, YOU JUST SAID MY MIND...
THE ANNOYING PART IS THAT THEY PRAYED AND CRAVED FOE SUCH REQUEST OOH, WHEN THEY HAVE IT THEY WILL TRY TO FORM HARD TO GET THIS KEEPS PISSING ME OFF.
THE DAY I TRIED IT WITH A LADY AND SHE DECLINE ITS EVEN TWICE WITH BIG PLEAD OOH, I MAKED SURE I KNOW ONE OF HER FRIEND AND JUST LAVISH HER WITH MONEY, DEFINITELY THE GIST GOT TO HER.

donstan18:
You did what you are supposed to do so as not to appear very cheap before him.

But you did that to a wrong person. No be everybody get that patient to endure a lady's shakara.

Was about saying same and look I get the babe. Some ladies feel it is at that point of asking out they can test a guy, others will agree to go out with you while keeping an eye on you. I think the latter is more mature and realistic. I dont think any babe is really going to know the guy she intends dating at the point when the dude is asking her out. Knowing someone takes time, married couple of 50 years will still tell you they are getting to know one another, it never stops.

ecstasy357:


You never can tell.

I do same but that doesn't mean I'm interested in pants. I mean....pants have no true worth when its meaningless n casual

lefulefu:
inside this heat, tough buhari economy na im man pickin go dey stress imsef dey chase and toast woman. I guess he had other serious pressing issues to face.

Lol about the pressing issues

My type of guy. Reject me once, I ll deny ever meeting you twice

EmmyDJourno:
Said it before, I'll say it again

Chic's don't gat game, all they do is play the prey, play the victim

Very few can hold down a good conversation, they just sitback and let the guy do everything

Saying yes to the guy is just the beginning, it don't mean you guys are already knacking

You still need to sit down to define the nature of the relationship and where it is heading

That is a whole lot bigger than saying yes to a guy

You're very smart...Maria should see this!

EmmyDJourno:
Said it before, I'll say it again

Chic's don't gat game, all they do is play the prey, play the victim

Very few can hold down a good conversation, they just sitback and let the guy do everything

Saying yes to the guy is just the beginning, it don't mean you guys are already knacking

You still need to sit down to define the nature of the relationship and where it is heading

That is a whole lot bigger than saying yes to a guy

Nice one.

I came to read comments...

MariaLavina:
Good things don't come cheap. I don't know what law that is, but it is there.



Whatever you labour for, you value more. Yet another real law that exist.

...many oloshos out there still forming hard to get n eventually gotten, but only for the 'victim' to later discover that he has wasted time, effort and money on a baseless 'investment'.

...n by that time, the topic on nairaland would be,'Man beats his Wife to stupor: Files for Divorce'

In my own opinion, I would still try once more and if she persist saying NO, I'll just move on because I can't keep bothering myself over someone I don't know her intention.

musictori:
This Twitter user gave her reason for turning down a guy who asked her out, but turn out it didn't work out well for her, see her reason...

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/03/whaaat-why-i-turned-down-guy-that-asked.html

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quote author=MariaLavina post=76822162]Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.




You dodged a bullet. [/quote]
Stop this sentiment of making it seems like women are doing men favor by being in relationship with them. Before now, someone like me will continue pushing but I was taught a bitter lesson.

Why ask a girl out?...work on being very successful, they'd be the ones asking you out directly or indirectly....ask Don Jazzy.

REGRET IT FOREVER BIACH!

MariaLavina:
Move on, he wasn't interested in your heart but your pant.



You dodged a bullet.

As if there's any potent man alive interested in a lady’s heart alone.