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My Husband Divorced Me by Strongsoul: 9:38pm On Mar 21, 2019
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 9:45pm On Mar 21, 2019
Ok
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 9:48pm On Mar 21, 2019
Then you should have fixed it for him and make him happy..what hurts a man the most his when he is not living to his expectations in terms of finance ,shelter and comfort.. you for just leave the poor child alone ..besides just move on you will only get hurt if you don't let go..
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by BEANSANDBREAD00(m): 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2019
Ehya
Sorry oo
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by dominique(f): 9:59pm On Mar 21, 2019
Don't fix his papers, have him deported. He's a bloody opportunist, he married you for papers.

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 21, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?
which part of Europe are you from or is your country name European. if he is not ready to marry you again, go and marry your country man or are the men in your country so bad that they can't be married to

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by skentelelady(f): 10:12pm On Mar 21, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?

Don't pity him please. He's showing you already what he will do once you get him his papers.

He's a loser. Maybe he's already seeing another for papers that's why he's showing you attitude

Thank your star you you didn't get him that paper. He wanted to have a child with you so the processing will be fast

Kindly move on with your life. Be happy and hope for the best man

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:22pm On Mar 21, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?

the man needs papers, you KNOW he needs papers to stay legally in whatever country you are from, and more importantly, you KNOW he was with you only for the papers... yet come here with the same rubbish story every week. give it a rest, you are done with this demon!

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Timmy301(m): 10:27pm On Mar 21, 2019
ma'am, just make sure that guy is deported back to naija... we've missed him
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Mariangeles: 10:31pm On Mar 21, 2019
dominique:
Don't fix his papers, have him deported. He's a bloody opportunist, he married you for papers.
She knows that already but she's desperate... I pray she gets over the leech

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Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Mariangeles: 10:32pm On Mar 21, 2019
Timmy301:
ma'am, just make sure that guy is deported back to naija... we've missed him
Bad belle cheesy

When you go yanky, na so them go deport you too !
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 21, 2019
How many times will your husband (ex husband) divorce you?
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:49pm On Mar 21, 2019
oluwaseyi000:
How many times will your husband (ex husband) divorce you?

thats the 5th thread that person opened about that same issue..... i would think that by now we got her point.
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Timmy301(m): 10:52pm On Mar 21, 2019
Mariangeles:
Bad belle cheesy
When you go yanky, na so them go deport you too !
very Lol, I Dodge am
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by ImaIma1(f): 11:27pm On Mar 21, 2019
paul1995:
Then you should have fixed it for him and make him happy..what hurts a man the most his when he is not living to his expectations in terms of finance ,shelter and comfort.. you for just leave the poor child alone ..besides just move on you will only get hurt if you don't let go..


Make him happy indeed. He was apparently with her for the papers.
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:34pm On Mar 21, 2019
dominique:
Don't fix his papers, have him deported. He's a bloody opportunist, he married you for papers.

My Lady, calm down
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:37pm On Mar 21, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?
I don't even know what your problem is! The young man has already divorced You yet you bring the subject here. Move on
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Obodo999(m): 11:38pm On Mar 21, 2019
There is a two side to every story.
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 2:32am On Mar 22, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?
Are you a troll or what? undecided
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Lexusgs430: 6:35am On Mar 22, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that.Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him.After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?


It's simple...... He already has a wife in Nigeria, who he has plans for, you are simply a conduit to achieve and actualize his marital plans of living abroad (unfortunately not with you)........


Wake up and smell this coffee, it's actually zobo.........
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by femi4: 6:47am On Mar 22, 2019
Strongsoul:
Helo all.I am European and my ex husband is Nigerian.My ex husband divorced me.After 3 years of mariage.We were living in my country I always pay all bils rent and all.He was here Ilegaly no.job no nothing.We strugled alot but i always did al for him.I never felt he realy loved me and many times he never apreciated anything i do for him .All time talking about papers.But i couldnt provide for him.He always told me if i dont do that that he wil leave me and so it was like that. Also i removed his child because i was al alone in everytjing even he wanted child so bad but me anytime i tel him i have some problem he wil tel me is not my problem.So i had fear to have child with him. After divorce we stil seeing...I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!After divorce he changed alot to me..But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?
someone else is fixing his papers.

You divorced him first when you remove his Child. That's criminal!
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by rex444(m): 7:09am On Mar 22, 2019
This your divorce, now sounding like one zee world movie
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Strongsoul: 7:56am On Mar 22, 2019
femi4:
someone else is fixing his papers.

You divorced him first when you remove his Child. That's criminal!
this means it was al about papers that he never loved me
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Moneystopnonsen: 7:58am On Mar 22, 2019
This statement is really needless. I don't expect women to understand the pressure a man faces.
As men we don't have able god to assist us unlike u women. So next time just Waka pass than spill what you wouldn't wish your brother.

OP you know the guy needs paper, you can't get over him and he is very sincere of not wanting to be with you even if you assist him. So I advice get him this paper and move on, you guys can still remain friends

dominique:
Don't fix his papers, have him deported. He's a bloody opportunist, he married you for papers.
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by femi4: 9:16am On Mar 22, 2019
Strongsoul:
this means it was al about papers that he never loved me
yes now, it's not a rocket science. Every Nigerian want a better living environment.
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by eastTKBorn: 9:17am On Mar 22, 2019
I Don't Believe This... case close

Re: My Husband Divorced Me by biggal: 11:22am On Mar 22, 2019
This woman will receive many pm today N scamming will start cos many here in Nija will be like a beg I go marry you just help me to cross.
Wetin I know
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Strongsoul: 8:34pm On Apr 19, 2019
femi4:
someone else is fixing his papers.

You divorced him first when you remove his Child. That's criminal!
really? sad
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by anthonyuncle(m): 9:05pm On Apr 19, 2019
he doesn't love u & he's sincere about it. delete da hope of being with him. if u wanna do his papers out of charity, go ahead. but if u wanna use it to keep him, he will still leave u
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Strongsoul: 9:37pm On Apr 19, 2019
anthonyuncle:
he doesn't love u & he's sincere about it.
delete da hope of being with him.
if u wanna do his papers out of charity, go ahead.
but if u wanna use it to keep him, he will still leave u
how u mean he is sincere about it?
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by Nobody: 9:50pm On Apr 19, 2019
dominique:
Don't fix his papers, have him deported. He's a bloody opportunist, he married you for papers.
which nigerian no marry oyinbo for papers If arabs start marriage for papers our pple will start to marry dem
Re: My Husband Divorced Me by anthonyuncle(m): 4:48am On Apr 20, 2019
Strongsoul:
how u mean he is sincere about it?

u said it urself

Strongsoul:
I asked him that maybe if one day i get him papers wil he be with me he said he not sure about that!...But now i dint know why he doesnt want me even if i fix his papers ...?

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